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Being new gives regulars the right to be snide..agree or disagree


agree
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Disagree
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RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 7:31:59 PM   
Daddysredhead


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ORIGINAL: DemonKia

I'll be really 'nice' & point out that fat chicks are relatively desirable within the BDSM context, especially as compared with the 'vanilla' world . . . . A BDSM dungeon or play party is a place I can stroll naked, or nearly so, to many admiring glances . . . . . .

Not to mention that titty bondage just isn't the same without big, pendular, dangly breasts. Those little, socially correct ones, they're just not the same . .. . . .


Amen, my sista Kia...  I'm a "plush-size" gal and I have yet to be chased out of a club because of my "squishy-ness." 

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RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 7:34:36 PM   
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I would chase you red...but, never to chase you out<eg>....and I can run really fast and for a very LOOOOOOOOOOOOONG time!

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RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 7:38:45 PM   
Daddysredhead


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ORIGINAL: blacklion

now get to polling people


Surely this is not an attempt at bossing around the thread-posters? 

Another brilliant move. 

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RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 7:39:57 PM   
Daddysredhead


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Bless your heart. How unfortunate for you it is, that you cannot beat stupid.


I love that LaT "blessed his heart." 

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RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 7:43:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

quote:

ORIGINAL: blacklion
That you beat anorexia?

Not cool, dude.

You are not exhibiting behavior of someone in control of himself. Dominants are able to control themselves.  You might want to take a walk around the block, and then consider apologizing.


I agree, RM.

I also believe that immaturity and dominance cannot mutually cohabit the same individual.  Therefore, the more pervasive trait will win.  In this case, it appears that dominance is not the pervasive trait.

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RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 7:45:09 PM   
Daddysredhead


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SilverMark

I would chase you red...but, never to chase you out<eg>....and I can run really fast and for a very LOOOOOOOOOOOOONG time!


*loves Mark's stamina*

*giggles and swoons*    

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RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 7:51:55 PM   
Daddysredhead


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quote:

ORIGINAL: devilishpixie

I think he was refering to "other new members" not himself personally.


*I read somewhere that he fancied himself the voice of the lurker, the newbie, etc.*

I just want to know how one gets the position of Grand Exhalted Poobah of CM when there was never a job announcement for any kind of vacancy.  I think that the people who come to this site and post, or read and may later post, are grown up enough that they can speak for themselves.  If they can't, they probably have no business being in a lifestyle where they can get their asses beaten. 

(consenually, of course)

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RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 8:21:32 PM   
Kalista07


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In regard to the individual who created this attention seeking, chaos driven, pissing match, i can be the biggest cock sucker around here cause i can provoke people more than any other jack ass around here, thread.....................
i have purposely stayed away from every thread you've originated. There has been a reason for it. Because none of your threads seem to be about creating a discussion, about learning some type of information, or even about having a healthy debate. It should be apparent to most people now, that all of your threads have one common theme and that is your motives seem to be to instigate rage and chaos....
i'm convinced You must be doing this on purpose.... If not the other option is............well................ You are an extremly stupid person...............and i would feel a great amount of pity for you if you are really that stupid....
Kali

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RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 8:26:34 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DemonKia

Grey. I vote grey.

quote:

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Purple


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RE: Being new gives regulars the right to be snide..agr... - 10/29/2009 8:28:20 PM   
LadyPact


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19


quote:

ORIGINAL: MarcEsadrian


It depends, but generally, I vote nay.

Where does it depend? Perhaps in how ignorant and scathing the newcomer may sound. Those two ingredients seldom win friends and influence people, or more importantly, help to build the tower of collective wisdom. That said, I've noticed some people place too much value in post count and general popularity. I had contributed here for many years under another alias. When I ditched it and started posting again, nearly everything I shared was poked, prodded or questioned in some way by others. Comparatively, with several paddles under my name, what I contributed in the past was often received very well, so this appears to me to evidence a slight bias in viewpoints shared here in relationship to thread count and recognition.

Humans are pack animals that interpret information based on personal context and social hierarchy, and the evidence of this can be seen in pixel text from time to time, too. Newcomer says something pretty brilliant and thoughtful, and it gets buried in the thread. Then, MasterThunderClaw belches out a bland, cynical truism and it's praised as sage wisdom. Meanwhile, another user's comments in the same thread are attacked due to black sheep syndrome. None of that is very productive. I think it's important to focus on what is written rather than the person or the perception of the person. While that may be impossible for humans to do completely, that turns out to be far more productive for all—albeit perhaps less entertaining in the end, I suppose. Therein lies the rub, I suspect.


Your interpretation of how you were seen is inaccurate. I have always held respect for you and think you and your profile and pictures are pretty HOT. They show someone in complete control. I found your posts and demeanor wise, in control albeit slightly emotionless. Sort of appealing yet scary. But then I love a guy in a suit!

I agree with the inaccuracy part.  In fact, I was rather tempted to send you an email just today after reading the very good response you had posted on the thread that clip put up.  I wouldn't have cared if you had one post or if we have disagreed in the past.  You had a damn good answer there and it was greatly appreciated.


Edited because the first quote wasn't necessary when it included all three.


< Message edited by LadyPact -- 10/29/2009 8:29:18 PM >


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RE: Being new gives regulars the right to be snide..agr... - 10/29/2009 8:31:27 PM   
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LAdyPact agrees with me. Oh happy day!

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RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 8:32:34 PM   
Daddysredhead


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ORIGINAL: Kalista07

i'm convinced You must be doing this on purpose.... If not the other option is............well................ You are an extremly stupid person...............and i would feel a great amount of pity for you if you are really that stupid....


Um... Kali, we already blessed his heart, just in case.  *nods*

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RE: Being new gives regulars the right to be snide..agr... - 10/29/2009 8:33:02 PM   
aphotic


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You want the best forum advice?

"Nothing is less sincere than our mode of asking and giving advice. He who asks seems to have a deference for the opinion of his friend, while he only aims to get approval of his own and make his friend responsible for his action. And he who gives advice repays the confidence supposed to be placed in him by a seemingly disinterested zeal, while he seldom means anything by his advice but his own interest or reputation."

Figure your ideas out for yourself. None of these people, myself included, matter.

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RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 8:35:46 PM   
Kalista07


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Red,
i was going to throw in a H.U.G.S. for good measure but didn't want to cross the line and all.................

You know.....me and my delicateness..........

Kali

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RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 8:38:39 PM   
Daddysredhead


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*admires Kali's overwhelming sense of restraint and decorum*

(bwuahahahahaha!!!!!!)

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RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 8:46:30 PM   
blacklion


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

quote:

ORIGINAL: DemonKia

I'll be really 'nice' & point out that fat chicks are relatively desirable within the BDSM context, especially as compared with the 'vanilla' world . . . . A BDSM dungeon or play party is a place I can stroll naked, or nearly so, to many admiring glances . . . . . .

Not to mention that titty bondage just isn't the same without big, pendular, dangly breasts. Those little, socially correct ones, they're just not the same . .. . . .


Amen, my sista Kia...  I'm a "plush-size" gal and I have yet to be chased out of a club because of my "squishy-ness." 

What does you being plush and or machine washable have to do with my poll.

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RE: Being new gives regulars the right to be snide..agr... - 10/29/2009 8:50:39 PM   
LadyPact


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

LAdyPact agrees with me. Oh happy day!


It happens more often than you think, oh luscious one.


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RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 8:52:01 PM   
Daddysredhead


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quote:

ORIGINAL: blacklion

quote:

ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

quote:

ORIGINAL: DemonKia

I'll be really 'nice' & point out that fat chicks are relatively desirable within the BDSM context, especially as compared with the 'vanilla' world . . . . A BDSM dungeon or play party is a place I can stroll naked, or nearly so, to many admiring glances . . . . . .

Not to mention that titty bondage just isn't the same without big, pendular, dangly breasts. Those little, socially correct ones, they're just not the same . .. . . .


Amen, my sista Kia...  I'm a "plush-size" gal and I have yet to be chased out of a club because of my "squishy-ness." 

What does you being plush and or machine washable have to do with my poll.



I give a shit about your poll or your pole, I was replying to my friend, you know, one of the posse you spoke of.

Off with you now...  shoo...

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RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 8:52:54 PM   
Sugarrgerl7


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I am new here also and have been very warmly welcomed and encouraged...It feels like home to me already...

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RE: Being new does not give other the right to be snide... - 10/29/2009 8:53:51 PM   
porcelaine


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kalista07

In regard to the individual who created this attention seeking, chaos driven, pissing match, i can be the biggest cock sucker around here cause i can provoke people more than any other jack ass around here, thread.....................
i have purposely stayed away from every thread you've originated. There has been a reason for it. Because none of your threads seem to be about creating a discussion, about learning some type of information, or even about having a healthy debate. It should be apparent to most people now, that all of your threads have one common theme and that is your motives seem to be to instigate rage and chaos....
i'm convinced You must be doing this on purpose.... If not the other option is............well................ You are an extremly stupid person...............and i would feel a great amount of pity for you if you are really that stupid....
Kali


dear kali,

words escape me at present as i read your comments. you've provided quite the chuckle. i'm forever in your debt.

with heartfelt affection,

porcelaine


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