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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 1:03:39 AM

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8 cancelations speaks for itself. If by some real act of God I had to cancel 3 times in a row, I would not try for a forth. I would lose respect for someone that allowed that kind of abuse. What I don't understand is where your head was at after the 3rd cancelation and why you allowed 5 more attemps? Sounds like a novel about chaos & desparation.

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 3:40:21 AM

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He did show up. yes he had brought the wine as well, what happened then? short said we were very much on wawelengths, talked alot,about everything. He put his arm around me,touching a bit,also when sleeping besides, letting me touching him etc. but not more than that happened. He had talked about bringing tools,he didnt,he said he hadnt time,and he thought its first time you must get to know eachother-another tone,than he first introduced. He was talking about meeting and get to know,and talked about meeting again and get further on. short said more earthbound this time. suddenly talking reasonable. but I was wondering.. still,if I agree with him,and thats what I have been saying to him all the time, I wondered in my mind,why doesnt the guy lay up to me for a fuck?
he said he didnt want to be that guy that it was all it was about he said. but to me that seems a bit weird, he didnt even try.
He did touch he did held etc. but not that. He was talking about his best friend,how I had to meet him,his family,to meet them

Do you think hes got the experience he claims to have at all? I start to wonder about that. well, I cant know he hasnt show me anything.
but on the other hand I know what he said with not seem too soonish.
what do you think?

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 3:56:16 AM

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what do you think?

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 4:28:25 AM

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this can't be serious. is anyone REALLY that desperate for some sort of attention, that you would allow someone... anyone... to stand you up 8 times, and then allow that same person to sleep over ON THE FIRST RL MEETING? And then to wonder why they don't make an attempt to get a bit more intimate?

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 4:41:17 AM

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I think he is looking for a girlfriend, not a slave. at least not yet. He is new and is going slow. Likes the look of you and wants it to be exclusive. No sharing you with other slaves or Masters. He is a bit scared of the reality of actually being a Master. He has done it many times in his fantasy but doesnt really know how to act now that he has the possibility of the real thing. My opinion, but I do believe it to be the right one. I"m not cutting him down, everyone starts out their own way and this may be his if he's serious and ready to make the move. Keep us posted. Master Robert

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 5:22:48 AM

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what is married in his visit and his last behavior from yesterday to today?? that he left so soon? that he didnt dare touch me much/didnt lay up?

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 5:31:02 AM

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ORIGINAL: monaslave

what do you think?

I think you're making it all up, and the story just took a boring turn.

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 5:31:32 AM

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well he didnt try get in bed with me,and thats strange because who wouldnt. He said he didnt want to give that impression. but in my head Im wondering if he CAN.
well I didnt plan to let him stay but I concidered him harmless,during the night went by,so it didnt bother me.
well MistressJeanette; he said hes owned slaves before,and that he was very experienced,so that he didnt try put his domly attitude on wonders me.. even though it didnt have to lead to -you know,but at least the attitude.. so I was thinking maybe youre right,in what you say,but if so then hes lied to me,and we dont know that,yet,since I havent seen him in action. now somebody might say but nothing happened,and I say but who knows,you cant tell if he cant do it or not until you have seen.
but the domly attitude surprises me he doesnt show.
well, in many cases,not all but many the slave function as girlfriend as well or some kind of, so well,I dont mind that,I just raise eyebrows he didnt try anything,not even attitude.. he had lots of attitude before we met,and now he say he wanted to give safety first and getting to know first,but he didnt say it at first..
I dont mind if hes new as long he doesnt lie about it, since everybody can learn..

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 5:34:27 AM

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well he didnt try get in bed with me,and thats strange because who wouldnt

Not everyone tries to get you in bed on the first/second date. Some of us have patience :P

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 5:45:03 AM

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well he didnt try get in bed with me,and thats strange because who wouldnt. He said he didnt want to give that impression. but in my head Im wondering if he CAN.
well I didnt plan to let him stay but I concidered him harmless,during the night went by,so it didnt bother me.
well MistressJeanette; he said hes owned slaves before,and that he was very experienced,so that he didnt try put his domly attitude on wonders me.. even though it didnt have to lead to -you know,but at least the attitude.. so I was thinking maybe youre right,in what you say,but if so then hes lied to me,and we dont know that,yet,since I havent seen him in action. now somebody might say but nothing happened,and I say but who knows,you cant tell if he cant do it or not until you have seen.
but the domly attitude surprises me he doesnt show.
well, in many cases,not all but many the slave function as girlfriend as well or some kind of, so well,I dont mind that,I just raise eyebrows he didnt try anything,not even attitude.. he had lots of attitude before we met,and now he say he wanted to give safety first and getting to know first,but he didnt say it at first..
I dont mind if hes new as long he doesnt lie about it, since everybody can learn..

Who wouldn't try to go to bed with you? Either someone who is completely insecure in their Dom abilities, or someone who's smart enough to get to know what he's getting into before he gets too deep. My vote's on the former.

You considered him harmless? That could be taken several ways. I suspect you really meant that you felt safe with him, not bored.

He's owned slaves before and he has eighty years of experience. Riiiight. Sorry, but online only experience doesn't count.

So he seems very different online than in person? No surprise there.

mona, you are the very first woman he's met in RL, and not online, as a Dom. Try telling him something like, "It's your attitude that attracts me. Even if you had no experience, I'd still be interested in you," and give him the opportunity to quit lying to you. Then the only hurdle would be if he's married/involved.

Good luck, and the fact that he actually got the cojones to meet you makes this possible, especially with your drive to make it work.

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 5:48:23 AM

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not that I felt I had to,but more he didnt show anything in that direction.. he just put arms around and more sleeping that way etc.
and talk. it was more friends-girlfriends thing and I wondered when is he---
I mean,you can generally spot SOMETHING.
he said he would bring tools,then he said he couldnt reach it,then he said he couldnt reach PLUS didnt thought it was good first time. That is totally fine with me, but -why say another thing first? at first before he came he wanted to try my bubble bath! he was asking me to wear specific clothes(not that I did),he was very.. ON! he wasnt when he came. I wonder about that.
afterwards it was more like I just said,arms and sleeping and today he hurried early home and was holding himself back. but said he wants to meet again talking about his friends etc. its just.. weird.

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 5:50:30 AM

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Maybe he didn't like you or find you attractive in person.

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 5:53:14 AM

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not eighty years but some years experience he said, and two slaves and one live in slave fulltime. then its strange he doesnt "oppose" more. it really is. I have never met a Dom,that doesnt.
I am more thinking either you are,or either youre not,when it comes to the urge to dominate or submit. even if you have no experience. its too soon to say about him lying or attached but well the man wants to introduce his friends and family to me so how attached can you be then.

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 5:53:59 AM

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He showed up one time out of nine. Statistically, not good. You were stupid enough to invite him to your home, sight unseen, and let him sleep over. Now, you're questioning what he did and did not do. This is wrong on so many levels. FFS, if any of this is really true, move on! Put me out of my misery so I can stop following this trainwreck of a thread, PLEASE!

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 5:54:55 AM

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well if he didnt like me why then rub my breasts and ask me to caress him(not sexual),or hold arms around me. that would seem weird to me,if you dont like anybody,especially when youre not trying to seduce.
besides, he had pics all over how I looked.

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 5:56:48 AM

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ORIGINAL: monaslave

well if he didnt like me why then rub my breasts and ask me to caress him(not sexual),or hold arms around me. that would seem weird to me,if you dont like anybody,especially when youre not trying to seduce.
besides, he had pics all over how I looked.

Why don't you just call him and ask him why he didn't fuck you?

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 5:58:15 AM

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well I had back ups,if something should happen my neighbour could help me out. shes a good friend. and I didnt felt anything would happen as the night went by. I said to him you can chose where you want to sleep,but he chose my bed.
what he said in phone to me and what he did,well Ive written about that.

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 5:59:41 AM

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I did asked him why he didnt fucked and he said he didnt want to give the wrong impression. and that he also wanted to get me safe first and get to know.

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 5:59:54 AM

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Yes, men always have to like you to touch your breasts. Ask me, I know.

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 6:02:02 AM

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but that would be a strange thing to do without trying anything sexual if he didnt liked me

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