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RE: Are you 'into' older men? - 10/31/2009 2:28:46 PM

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Um...People wanna talk about stuff, let them talk. Telling people to shut-up isn't nice. ;0 => breatheasone

I'd like to point out to people that Jesus was jewish. For those who haven't read the bible and don't understand that the old testamant is Jewish in origin....

The fact that Jesus was a martyr who was invented to promote ideas is also obvious......

After rome fell trying to kill christians in their games, they still romp around talking about how they use to be great in religious crap with jesus on the cross. Symbolism like this is against the 10 commandments....

Though shall have no other god before me. Naming GOD jesus is sacriligious, and other I preach religious tolerance. Its okay if your ignorant....most people are.......

The ideals jesus preaches are decent, but alot of crimes have been done in the name of jesus......oh, you don't like my religion, then die!! (dark ages)

Is this posted in the right thread? Or has Jesus propositioned someone via cmail and asked the "are you into older men?" question?

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RE: Are you 'into' older men? - 10/31/2009 2:31:20 PM

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^^^^^^^^um ok did I miss something???^^^^^^^^^^

anywhoooo if someone 20 or younger says they are a Dominant who am I to judge them. Under 20 and calling yourself a Master might cause an eye roll . However, some kids are precocious. You have prodigies and savants in every art form. Some people just have that gift you know? Who am I to judge. I have met master musicians who are WAY under 20. They piss me off to no end, but they do exist. And one could argue they don't have the years behind them to have had the time to practice and learn the nuances of the music. Then they play and you just think "You little fucker! Where did that soul come from???"

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RE: Are you 'into' older men? - 10/31/2009 2:50:07 PM

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WTF???????

Of all the loud mouthed bigoted, unpleasant, ignorant, uncalled for posts I've read anywhere this takes the cake. sadly the days when such persons would be run out of town after a public tar and feather job or a lynching are gone. Honestly I can tolerate all sorts of stupidity but this is a bloody declaration of war and frankly as I understand ToS this ?person? had already used up more lives then most and blatantly tried patronising and walking over people. Sooner this ?Person is out a here the better. No one and I do mean no one need to have this shit levelled at their siggy line for any reason whatsoever. It matters not if the recipient is a mate or not but personally to have a couple i respect and happily agree to disagree with as often as not has never deserved this shit. ~ End Of Rant ~

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RE: Are you 'into' older men? - 10/31/2009 2:57:39 PM

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Gee IronBear...don't hold back! Seriously, I am in full agreement with you.

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RE: Are you 'into' older men? - 10/31/2009 3:02:26 PM

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Of course you are mate, after all us ursines need to fight as a pack I understand from the Greater Ursine Hand Book.. Seriously it is indeed rare for me to get soo jolly offended. but blackcat has stamped over a good many of my hard core elements in the honour code I was brought up with. There are times I am saddened that the Law protects some people.

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RE: Are you 'into' older men? - 10/31/2009 3:15:51 PM

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major ursine upheaval! As much as i fear an angry bear, there is something about a man standing up for what he believes in like that! Go Bears! Chicago or otherwise ;-)

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RE: Are you 'into' older men? - 10/31/2009 4:19:12 PM

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For me of course I don't have to tell anyone here that my heart belongs to daddy. I can't tell you in words the difference between young and old men at least as it relates to D/s let alone M/s. Daddy is going to a party tonight back east and the oldest woman there will under 40. Seems more and more women and young women are going for the older dom.

Maybe it's because like me thery've had experience with the young and for me, it was never fulfilling. The older man (even older than my real dad) can be hot, sexy, no drama, no baggage, no problems. It has been beautiful even though distance do we still part.

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RE: Are you 'into' older men? - 10/31/2009 4:25:42 PM

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Um...People wanna talk about stuff, let them talk. Telling people to shut-up isn't nice. ;0 => breatheasone

I'd like to point out to people that Jesus was jewish. For those who haven't read the bible and don't understand that the old testamant is Jewish in origin....

The fact that Jesus was a martyr who was invented to promote ideas is also obvious......

After rome fell trying to kill christians in their games, they still romp around talking about how they use to be great in religious crap with jesus on the cross. Symbolism like this is against the 10 commandments....

Though shall have no other god before me. Naming GOD jesus is sacriligious, and other I preach religious tolerance. Its okay if your ignorant....most people are.......

The ideals jesus preaches are decent, but alot of crimes have been done in the name of jesus......oh, you don't like my religion, then die!! (dark ages)

Is this posted in the right thread? Or has Jesus propositioned someone via cmail and asked the "are you into older men?" question?

It's inappropriate, although one or two of the comments have a little bit of truth in them, underneath the blatant bullshit, that is. Unfortunately, breatheasone's signature line practically invites such a rant. Why can't people keep their religious BS to themselves?

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RE: Are you 'into' older men? - 10/31/2009 4:36:30 PM

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I used to date men 10+ years older than me. My play partners have all been older than me. I can't imagine relating well to a 20 something who hasn't the miles of experience that I have now.

With that said, when they hit my father's age, I am not at all interested.

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RE: Are you 'into' older men? - 10/31/2009 4:59:28 PM

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ORIGINAL: Lucienne

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Um...People wanna talk about stuff, let them talk. Telling people to shut-up isn't nice. ;0 => breatheasone

I'd like to point out to people that Jesus was jewish. For those who haven't read the bible and don't understand that the old testamant is Jewish in origin....

The fact that Jesus was a martyr who was invented to promote ideas is also obvious......

After rome fell trying to kill christians in their games, they still romp around talking about how they use to be great in religious crap with jesus on the cross. Symbolism like this is against the 10 commandments....

Though shall have no other god before me. Naming GOD jesus is sacriligious, and other I preach religious tolerance. Its okay if your ignorant....most people are.......

The ideals jesus preaches are decent, but alot of crimes have been done in the name of jesus......oh, you don't like my religion, then die!! (dark ages)

Is this posted in the right thread? Or has Jesus propositioned someone via cmail and asked the "are you into older men?" question?

It's inappropriate, although one or two of the comments have a little bit of truth in them, underneath the blatant bullshit, that is. Unfortunately, breatheasone's signature line practically invites such a rant. Why can't people keep their religious BS to themselves?

You make a valid point regarding the siggy line inviting such negative rants. Some time ago breatheasone and I have a somewhat robust debate about this however in the long run I believe we learned a good deal about each other and have agreed to disagree as often as not which is a very healthy thing in my view. However as far as this blatent flaming of breathesasone's siggy lines go, Several of us have noticed thagt this most irritating person doing all this blather is ignoring the body of posts and attaching himself to a post like an unwanted limpet or coockoo and blasting away with hios self aggrandisement and ridicule of others. I don't have to agree with anyone's religion or faith, I will not stand by and watch someone denigrating another because of their religion or faith. Not dome old chap , just not cricket and talking about cricket I'd love to have a good willow in my hands and this person's knackers hanging free and try to score a 4 of not a 6.. people have the right and should have the right to post a line or five in siggies or other wise let people know their religion or belief if they chose to. You may not like it nor agree with it and I may not like nor agree with it, but it would be a sadder place of such things were barred and in my opinion would be discrimination.

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RE: Are you 'into' older men? - 10/31/2009 5:02:22 PM

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I agree with you 100% IB. As it happens, her sig line irritates me......so I just don't read it....

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RE: Are you 'into' older men? - 10/31/2009 5:50:50 PM

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greetings,

perhaps i'm a little confused about the implication of a personal statement someone chooses to place within the signature area inviting anything. particularly since the response must be entered and visibly read before posting. anyone that chooses to respond or react to what is listed in that vicinity does so by choice. the party in question is sharing something about themselves and what they enjoy, very much like others do and have done on this site. whether their beliefs are in accordance or opposition to yours is not of consequence. if the individual is that offensive the site provides a feature to remove them from the screen. sometimes the most reasonable solution to a dilemma is the very one many overlook.

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RE: Are you 'into' older men? - 10/31/2009 6:44:52 PM

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I tend to skim over signatures and, consequently, had no clue what the poster was responding to until others explained it later. I'm all for the natural flow of conversation, but when a person is responding to a sig, vs. the substance of a post, it would be helpful to identify via quote function what they are responding to.

Because, seriously, discussing age difference then segueing into "Jesus was a Jew" was confusing as shit. I'm generally supportive of laughing at people who think sig lines on a bdsm forum are the place to proselytize, however, we must keep it in proper form. Perhaps an "Off Topic" post considering whether CM is fertile ground for conversions?

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RE: Are you 'into' older men? - 10/31/2009 6:53:20 PM

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Hey guys, if you respect this guy so much, why you posting here. He/she told you all to shut-up. ;(

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RE: Are you 'into' older men? - 10/31/2009 7:01:38 PM

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Hey guys, if you respect this guy so much, why you posting here. He/she told you all to shut-up. ;(

How about because what was included in the thread was completely out of line? If you really had an issue with their (because the profile is shared) signature, why didn't you just write them directly?

As for the OP, to be honest, I'd be less likely to be interested in the person if they had to ask that type of a question. It shows a lack of confidence that they already have and I prefer confident subs.

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RE: Are you 'into' older men? - 10/31/2009 7:39:47 PM

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greetings,

perhaps i'm a little confused about the implication of a personal statement someone chooses to place within the signature area inviting anything. particularly since the response must be entered and visibly read before posting. anyone that chooses to respond or react to what is listed in that vicinity does so by choice. the party in question is sharing something about themselves and what they enjoy, very much like others do and have done on this site. whether their beliefs are in accordance or opposition to yours is not of consequence. if the individual is that offensive the site provides a feature to remove them from the screen. sometimes the most reasonable solution to a dilemma is the very one many overlook.

porcelaine

I generally just ignore such junk in signature lines. I'm only commenting because the issue has already been raised.

When you write a personal statement to be used as your signature, you also do so by choice, and with the knowledge that it displayed every time you post a message on the boards. "Accept Jesus as your Lord and Saviour , i promise you will never regret it. i pray the Lord gives me just alittle more time, so i can tell just 1 more person about Christ" is not merely "sharing something about themselves and what they enjoy". It is proselytizing. I consider it inappropriate and repugnant for anyone to try to convert us every with every post they make. Whether we agree with their beliefs is not of consequence, but the fact that they are trying to push them on us is of consequence.

In regard to the suggestion to just "hide" the person whose signature line is offensive, why should this issue be treated any differently than the content of their posts? When somebody writes something and displays it to others in a forum like this, the readers have the right to reply if they find it offensive.

[Edited to correct the quotation marks]

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RE: Are you 'into' older men? - 10/31/2009 8:12:16 PM

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In regard to the suggestion to just "hide" the person whose signature line is offensive, why should this issue be treated any differently than the content of their posts? When somebody writes something and displays it to others in a forum like this, the readers have the right to reply if they find it offensive.

hardbody,

what the individual chooses to advertise is their business. i just find it mildly amusing how things become so problematic in a virtual environment that are usually ignored when encountered in person. would this imply that a person that sports a tee shirt that says accepts jesus is inviting commentary?

for what its worth the person in question isn't the only one i've seen with religious references in their signature line. i have yet to witness anything that would count as an attempt to convert. as for the supposed rights and such, if individuals choose to spend their free moments bickering with virtual entities who am i to deny them their past time? to each his own. i merely choose otherwise.

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RE: Are you 'into' older men? - 10/31/2009 9:24:28 PM

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In regard to the suggestion to just "hide" the person whose signature line is offensive, why should this issue be treated any differently than the content of their posts? When somebody writes something and displays it to others in a forum like this, the readers have the right to reply if they find it offensive.

hardbody,

what the individual chooses to advertise is their business. i just find it mildly amusing how things become so problematic in a virtual environment that are usually ignored when encountered in person. would this imply that a person that sports a tee shirt that says accepts jesus is inviting commentary?

for what its worth the person in question isn't the only one i've seen with religious references in their signature line. i have yet to witness anything that would count as an attempt to convert. as for the supposed rights and such, if individuals choose to spend their free moments bickering with virtual entities who am i to deny them their past time? to each his own. i merely choose otherwise.

porcelaine

No, it's not just their business. It's the readers' business as well. Advertise what you want, but expect people to respond if they don't like the way you do it. They have the right. And if you don't think what was written is an attempt to convert, then you really need a little work on your reading.

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RE: Are you 'into' older men? - 10/31/2009 9:40:37 PM

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No, it's not just their business. It's the readers' business as well. Advertise what you want, but expect people to respond if they don't like the way you do it. They have the right. And if you don't think what was written is an attempt to convert, then you really need a little work on your reading.

hardbody,

i've spent far more years behind closed doors in the religious establishment than most and posses very well defined exegesis skills. which isn't the point of our discussion. what is the point is that the person in question made a statement. if that alone is going to compel someone to turn to G-d they did so of their own volition, answering a call, rather than directly responding to something the party may have stated along those lines.

your religious issues have nothing to do with me or the other person. i would greatly appreciate if you're going to debate the issue you'd stick to that and avoid making personal jibes. i have little time for these antics.

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RE: Are you 'into' older men? - 10/31/2009 10:33:53 PM

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Um...People wanna talk about stuff, let them talk. Telling people to shut-up isn't nice. ;0 => breatheasone

I'd like to point out to people that Jesus was jewish. For those who haven't read the bible and don't understand that the old testamant is Jewish in origin....

The fact that Jesus was a martyr who was invented to promote ideas is also obvious......

After rome fell trying to kill christians in their games, they still romp around talking about how they use to be great in religious crap with jesus on the cross. Symbolism like this is against the 10 commandments....

Though shall have no other god before me. Naming GOD jesus is sacriligious, and other I preach religious tolerance. Its okay if your ignorant....most people are.......

The ideals jesus preaches are decent, but alot of crimes have been done in the name of jesus......oh, you don't like my religion, then die!! (dark ages)