sblady
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Joined: 9/28/2007 Status: offline
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I want to thank Collarme for having a wonderful site with plenty of terrific people!!! Two and a half years ago, I heard about D/s relationships in a chatroom. I wanted to learn more about these intriguing relationships and went to my friend (Google). Collarme was at the top of the list so, I signed up. Shortly after my profile was approved, I received a deluge of mail. Of course, being a newbie and somewhat polite (ahem), I responded to all messages (with the exception of the really off the wall, stupid messages). It was confusing, overwhelming, scary....you name it. It was also very exciting. Two days after joining CM, I met the Man (who is now my Sir). Our relationship was friends only, with D/s overtones as I didn't quite know what I wanted. Basically, I sought a "guide" and a safe haven as most of the people I met online and in person wanted to jump right into the fray. I needed someone who wouldn't pressure me into leaping off every cliff before I was ready. As I wasn't in a committed relationship with my guide, I met other Doms. However, there was something about my "guide" that made me want to belong to Him. I fought these urges for quite a while. Well, the fighting is over. He officially collared me on October 24, 2009. My heart was collared long before the actual (Ring of O in lieu of a collar) slid on my finger. I'm so very happy, ecstatic, thankful and grateful that He waited patiently for me.
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Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values. Dalai Lama
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