LadyPact -> RE: Have you ever scared a sub too much? (11/5/2009 4:00:00 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Venatrix PFH, in answer to your other question about whether not being able to take the pain was psychological, what I think is much more likely is that they've fantasized about taking a good deal of pain, then find out that fantasy and reality don't quite match. The problem arises when they say, "I am a pain slut", which implies a certain level of experience, rather than, "I'd like to be a pain slut" or "I hope I'm a pain slut". Exactly. It happens most often with those who have little to no bottoming experience when it comes to pain play. There's nothing wrong with having limited experience, but fantasy and reality are two different things.
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