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Topping Yourself? - 3/9/2006 11:35:08 AM

LadySonelle

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I just came off over 2 hours in the gym. WHOOO! I did 10 sets of 10 reps on bench press, overhead pulldown (front and back) butterfly, leg press, weighted ab-crunches, floor work, 30 minutes on the bicycle and elliptical and 45 on the treadmill and floor work (stretching, calisthenics etc) and I feel GREAT!

To do all this, I find I'm actually getting into a split headspace! I'm a Mistress, a domme, a TopWoman... but I *did* intern for a year as a sub and I know the headspace... and I find that I tend to go into Mistress mode and set the regimen, the weight stacks, the speed of the treadmill and elliptical... and then I go into sub space and really work to please My Mistress! Heeheehee! I have found that this really makes for good physical workouts. Overall, I've lost about 20 pounds to please My Domme (She's strict!).

It's actually quite amusing from the perspective of My Top-space to watch Myself busting My buns for Me!

Anyone else do this? Tell!

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RE: Topping Yourself? - 3/9/2006 11:38:51 AM

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I think we should all have that "inner taskmaster" to get our own butts in line when we need to be. I know when I first moved out on my own and fairly overwhelmed with life and its great misconceptions, I'd ask myself "If I were the most mature, disciplined, experienced person I could be, what would I do?" I had to push myself to that level of competent adult.

I think it's people who lack that inner taskmaster who have the hardest time dealing with any sort of discipline- in Ds relationships or otherwise. They haven't internalized the process.

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RE: Topping Yourself? - 3/9/2006 11:52:22 AM

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Self discipline is vitally important, for a number of physical, mental and spiritual reasons. If you cannot rule yourself, it stands to reason you may not do so well ruling others.

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RE: Topping Yourself? - 3/9/2006 11:52:39 AM

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I have what I have called the "logical voice", the part of me that internalizes conflict in my life and says: "this is what you need to do because it will yield this." However, whether or not I pay attention to it is a bit different, although I know I would be better off sometimes paying it heed more often: I procrastinate too much, often only to suffer a consequence, usually something like wieght gain, extra paperwork and BS involving finances, or failing marks. I have gotten better at following that voice though.

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RE: Topping Yourself? - 3/9/2006 12:43:51 PM

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Every now and then... I have to pull out my Mistress... to get this submissive through my PT. Those sadist can put a body through hell sometimes... LOL

Sometimes I have to remind them.. Doc said for me not do something right yet. But boy they sure try to get you further each time.

And for about a day or two after my last PT.. my inner Mistress has to kick this one in the ass to get things done around the house sometimes.. because I hurt so much. She's a mean one when she wants to be... lol

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