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Pssssst.... - 11/6/2009 10:25:55 PM

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Psssst, Hey you! Come here, i want to ask you something. Between you and me, have you ever found something a turn on to watch, or think about, but would never in a million years actually do?? Have you?

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RE: Pssssst.... - 11/6/2009 10:29:30 PM

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Struggling scenes, I loved watching them, but I could never do one.

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RE: Pssssst.... - 11/6/2009 11:12:24 PM

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Sure... often what many refer to as FANTASY.

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RE: Pssssst.... - 11/6/2009 11:14:54 PM

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Yeah, me too....mine is... Oh man i can't say it...its SO gross.....but for some reason it trips my trigger for masturbation purposes.

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RE: Pssssst.... - 11/7/2009 5:59:34 AM

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As already said, this is what makes it a fantasy as opposed to something I'm interested in trying.
I see a lot of profiles where the guy says he specializes in turning fantasies into reality. That makes me roll my eyes because he obviously doesn't understand that you can be turned on by the idea but turned off in reality.

People have all kinds of fantasies; being dismembered by a chain saw, tortured by evil villains working for the opposition, tentacles, Klingon sex. None of these are things you want to happen. And often, they're impossible to make happen.

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RE: Pssssst.... - 11/7/2009 6:05:58 AM

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I participate in sexual age play and pretend incest. But I would never in a million years EVER approve of or participate in actual sex with a child or incest.

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RE: Pssssst.... - 11/7/2009 6:14:38 AM

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I've got a couple of ideas, like rape play and pee play, that I would either get turned on by or else be disgusted by, and I won;t know till I see them.

I get turned on when I watch fireplay and would if I saw breathplay, but no way will I try them myself.

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RE: Pssssst.... - 11/7/2009 7:37:47 AM

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yes.

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RE: Pssssst.... - 11/7/2009 8:48:57 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

As already said, this is what makes it a fantasy as opposed to something I'm interested in trying.
I see a lot of profiles where the guy says he specializes in turning fantasies into reality. That makes me roll my eyes because he obviously doesn't understand that you can be turned on by the idea but turned off in reality.

People have all kinds of fantasies; being dismembered by a chain saw, tortured by evil villains working for the opposition, tentacles, Klingon sex. None of these are things you want to happen. And often, they're impossible to make happen.

Agree. Some fantasies are too implausible for reality. Some fantasies have a solid basis in reality but they are dramas we project on the movie screens of our minds. We are our own producers, directors, and actors. When a live person comes along they just get in the way and fuk it all up. Need to keep fantasy apart from reality. Reality tends to be a spoiler, although of course reality has its own uses. One thing i have noticed about fantasies is that they have to be rewritten quite often. The same old same old do tend to get boring and er unuseful. I suppose the same can be said for "reality" which is often also just a fantasy in three dimensional flesh and bone. wtf?

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RE: Pssssst.... - 11/7/2009 8:52:49 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I've got a couple of ideas, like rape play and pee play, that I would either get turned on by or else be disgusted by, and I won;t know till I see them.

I get turned on when I watch fireplay and would if I saw breathplay, but no way will I try them myself.

Sorry for the hijack, but fireplay is incredibly erotic

just saying.

As for the topic there are a lot of things I enjoy watching, but quite a few that I wouldn't try myself. That's what porn's for. It's a fantasy as Des said that's what it is to trip your trigger for whatever you use it for being turned on, getting off etc...

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RE: Pssssst.... - 11/7/2009 10:22:23 AM

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One thing i have noticed about fantasies is that they have to be rewritten quite often. The same old same old do tend to get boring and er unuseful.

I've had the exact same fantasy for 30 years. I never get tired of tying her up and assaulting her in my mind.

bdsm allowed me to act out that fantasy on real live humans.

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RE: Pssssst.... - 11/7/2009 10:57:02 AM

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Man.... i didn't envision getting what i got from this thread. i guess even when you are trying to be light hearted and fun you should watch what you ask for. So i hope this is a fun thread...i wanted it to be.... but i'll not be commenting anymore.

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RE: Pssssst.... - 11/7/2009 11:29:11 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: breatheasone

Psssst, Hey you! Come here, i want to ask you something. Between you and me, have you ever found something a turn on to watch, or think about, but would never in a million years actually do?? Have you?

Uh oh. I've done most of the things that have been lifelong fantasies all within the past year. They are a million times better in the flesh than I ever could imagine. The things that I've found that I've enjoyed the most have been more of the edgier stuff...rape, piss enemas, breath play. Really working up to cutting, but I've realized I'm a complete wimp when it comes to that. Still makes me completely wild with anticipation.

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RE: Pssssst.... - 11/7/2009 11:50:09 AM

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(the following is pretty dirty and I would apologize in advance for grossing anyone but this is a kink site so I don't think that is necessary...)

Oooh piss enema that is another fantasy that always got me hot that (I think) I would never try in real life.

Aileen regarding the piss enema: My fantasy was inspired by the book " Under the Roofs of Paris" by Henry Miller. In the novel the piss is deposited inside the colon with the actual penis. He pisses inside her after anal sex. I always thought it was hot but that it was pure fantasy and physically impossible. In your piss enema did someone literally piss inside you or was the piss collected and then inserted in the colon like a "normal" emema?

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RE: Pssssst.... - 11/7/2009 11:51:49 AM

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I don't feel the need to rewrite my fantasies frequently. Same with the real stuff we do, it doesn't get boring, it just is enjoyable. But I'm not an adrenaline junkie and some are.

I'd love to do fireplay but I can't think of where would be safe except lying on the concrete floor in the garage and that's a turnoff by itself. Too many flammables in a house.

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RE: Pssssst.... - 11/7/2009 11:57:25 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Hierodule

(the following is pretty dirty and I would apologize in advance for grossing anyone but this is a kink site so I don't think that is necessary...)

Oooh piss enema that is another fantasy that always got me hot that (I think) I would never try in real life.

Aileen regarding the piss enema: My fantasy was inspired by the book " Under the Roofs of Paris" by Henry Miller. In the novel the piss is deposited inside the colon with the actual penis. He pisses inside her after anal sex. I always thought it was hot but that it was pure fantasy and physically impossible. In your piss enema did someone literally piss inside you or was the piss collected and then inserted in the colon like a "normal" emema?

You just gotta love morning wood. It's not physically impossible at all. He literally pissed inside of me. It was probably one of the hottest things that have ever been done to me especially since I didn't know he was going to do it and didn't realize it until he growled into my ear that he was doing it and then it was pure sensation overload.

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RE: Pssssst.... - 11/7/2009 12:11:57 PM

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thank you, *takes note*

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RE: Pssssst.... - 11/7/2009 12:51:14 PM

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I participate in sexual age play and pretend incest. But I would never in a million years EVER approve of or participate in actual sex with a child or incest.

me too.

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RE: Pssssst.... - 11/7/2009 2:55:33 PM

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There's a good chance I shouldn't admit this here, but I love to see women having sex with dogs. I think because it's probably the most degrading thing they could do. In line with my madonna/whore mental problem, the very idea of any girl I love or respect doing this sickens me...

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RE: Pssssst.... - 11/7/2009 3:08:34 PM

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Klingon sex. None of these are things you want to happen.

Uh, speaketh for thyself! :/ I am equal-opportunity when it comes to Klingons. Tentacles might be possible in our lifetime. They're making simulated ones, anyway, they just have to make them a bit softer for insertion purposes.

Let's see, what are some of mine?

* Being shrunk down to 5 inches tall and kept in some nerdy Japanese kid's drawer.
* being stuck in the mind of a sadistic computer (and, for that matter, not having a mouth)
* Being a living real doll who cannot move or emote.
* Burned at the stake
* Participating in a Dolcett barbecure
* Stranger rape
* There was a time when I wanted to be bimbofied (with lots of surgery) but I think I'd like to keep that one as fantasy these days.

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