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Fetishes and submission - 11/7/2009 12:05:07 AM

TenderBlade

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Do we develop more fetishes with time ?
A fetish resulting into another fetish?
Finally turning a person into a complete submissive ,who has all kind of fetishes. .
Anything which is an act of submission?

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RE: Fetishes and submission - 11/7/2009 12:10:40 AM

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it depends on the person.

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RE: Fetishes and submission - 11/7/2009 1:54:09 AM

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I would agree, it depends on the person. As time goes by i'm always looking for new avenues of excitement.
As for being submissive, if you are a submissive, you will be a submissive for life.

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RE: Fetishes and submission - 11/7/2009 4:04:13 AM

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i tend to gain fetishes that long term partners have, ex, i knew a girl big into drag/forced cross dressing which influenced my own fetish list, iv tried things that i got sick of as well. it depends on the person, i find my own grow and fade over time.

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RE: Fetishes and submission - 11/7/2009 6:10:27 AM

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A person who is driven by fetishes is slave to the fetish, not to a dominant.

Now if you're talking not a true fetish but just interest in different play activities, not necessarily. Could just turn them into a kinky bottom with a wide range of interest.

Liking to get spanked does not mean you want someone else directing your life. Likewise, the fact that you enjoy inflicting pain makes you a sadist, it does not de facto make you someone who wants control over when their partner washes the dishes, or changes jobs.

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RE: Fetishes and submission - 11/7/2009 7:01:24 AM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

A person who is driven by fetishes is slave to the fetish, not to a dominant.

Thank you, Des. This is very specifically where many males confuse the two and then wonder why no one has interest in their "submission". Being fetish driven does not a submissive make.

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RE: Fetishes and submission - 11/7/2009 7:15:01 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TenderBlade
Do we develop more fetishes with time ?
A fetish resulting into another fetish?

i wouldn't say that one necessarily develops more fetishes with time. However, i have found that the more things i am exposed to, the more things i find that i like.

If you are an open-minded sub and are open to trying new things, most Dommes/Doms can probably introduce you to new activities that you may find that you enjoy. Personally, i had to be introduced to areas like rope play, electrical play, knife play, wax play, public play, being cuckolded, and forced feminization. i was surprised to find that i enjoyed several of these activities. i wouldn't say that any of them became "fetishes", but with time and experience, the list of activities that you enjoy is certain to grow.

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RE: Fetishes and submission - 11/7/2009 12:57:54 PM

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i wouldn't say that one necessarily develops more fetishes with time. However, i have found that the more things i am exposed to, the more things i find that i like.

Truer words have not been spoken.

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RE: Fetishes and submission - 11/7/2009 1:23:39 PM

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From my perspective, I don't think one develops fetishes as one ages. I think most fetishes are developed while quite young. Just my opinion. You could probably beat me out of it.

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RE: Fetishes and submission - 11/7/2009 8:11:42 PM

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Yes. I have known many slaves who learn of new fetishes they have as they experiment and get to know themselves more. Also a person who likes someone maybe attracted to them so much that they are willing to try a new fetish and begin to like it because they like that person so much. There are a number of reasons.

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RE: Fetishes and submission - 11/7/2009 8:37:54 PM

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Yes.
My vampire fetish became also a hypnosis fetish and they developed into plain old submission.

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