You are submissive yet refuse to address Dom as Sir in public.

You are submissive yet refuse to address Dom as Sir in public. (Full Version)

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Agree

28% (12)

Disagree

71% (30)

Total Votes : 42

(last vote on : 2/14/2012 7:03:46 AM)
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blacklion -> You are submissive yet refuse to address Dom as Sir in public. (11/7/2009 3:33:47 AM)
You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir.. Thus you flip your submission on and off like a light "switch" <==as to avoid offending the public vs pleasing your master and showing him the respect you clearly think he deserves as you have agreed to meet his terms and or conditions. Yet at any moment will Sir or ma'am the check out clerk at the grocery store and or pharmacy.

wandersalone -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 4:53:32 AM)
Your questions are often too black and white and this is another where neither of the answers on the poll fits for me. I would not be with someone who expected me to call him Master or Sir in vanilla situations however I also do not call anyone else Sir or Ma'am. What I would be expected to do at all times would be to show him and everyone else respect and courtesy and to make him proud of my behaviour in public as it is a reflection of his training.

sunshinemiss -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 5:05:07 AM)
Wow, somebody is really making use of that "poll" feature. Another possibly interesting discussion with no decent leadership. It's a shame.

sirsholly -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 5:08:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: blacklion You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir.. Thus you flip your submission on and off like a light "switch" <==as to avoid offending the public vs pleasing your master and showing him the respect you clearly think he deserves as you have agreed to meet his terms and or conditions. Yet at any moment will Sir or ma'am the check out clerk at the grocery store and or pharmacy. we do not involve others in our kink...be it saying "Sir" in front of others, wearing a leash in public, or whatever.

lusciouslips19 -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 5:11:05 AM)
Maybe just ignore and the attention whore will scamper off....

DarkSteven -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 5:11:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: blacklion Thus you flip your submission on and off like a light "switch" <==as to avoid offending the public vs pleasing your master and showing him the respect you clearly think he deserves as you have agreed to meet his terms and or conditions. WTF? I ordered my submissive to call me Sir in public? When the hell did that happen?!??! Stoopid me... I had thought that since I'd prefer to appear vanilla in public, I should ask her to refrain from doing that. I guess I screwed up as a Dom yet again... [:(] /Searches Dominants' Handbook furiously/

frazzle -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 5:19:54 AM)
Thougt you were hiding that book!!!! Its lies all lies, the subby one has the truth.[:D]

DiurnalVampire -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 5:23:06 AM)
I think Id be a little annoyed if Fox called me Sir in public... maybe I am a bad dominant too? Hey, Steven, can I borrow your handbook when your done?

ChainedExistence -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 5:23:37 AM)
Master doesn't NEED my "Sir"...that's my need being put into words. The "sir" I have for older strangers, and elderly family members is about Southern courtesy, and tradition. The "Sir" I have for Master isn't about a public show-it's about the mood he is creating for me in the moment. He doesn't need a WalMart greeter hear me call him Sir, to know he is one. He knows when he has a handful of my hair in his hand, and my head tilted back waiting for his whispered words...that "Sir" is going to be there.

sirsholly -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 5:26:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: frazzle Thougt you were hiding that book!!!! Its lies all lies, the subby one for RedHeads has the truth.[:D] fixed[:)]

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 5:26:38 AM)
quote: WTF? I ordered my submissive to call me Sir in public? When the hell did that happen?!??! Last Tuesday, I heard it nods

wandersalone -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 5:27:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss Wow, somebody is really making use of that "poll" feature. Another possibly interesting discussion with no decent leadership. It's a shame. Totally agree sunny, this would have been an interesting discussion as I am always interested in learning how others show their dominance or submission in public discretely edited to fix a typo

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 5:28:12 AM)
So frazzle, still able to sit? Enquiring minds (well me actually) want to know zeph the curious

lusciouslips19 -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 5:29:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven quote: ORIGINAL: blacklion Thus you flip your submission on and off like a light "switch" <==as to avoid offending the public vs pleasing your master and showing him the respect you clearly think he deserves as you have agreed to meet his terms and or conditions. WTF? I ordered my submissive to call me Sir in public? When the hell did that happen?!??! Stoopid me... I had thought that since I'd prefer to appear vanilla in public, I should ask her to refrain from doing that. I guess I screwed up as a Dom yet again... [:(] /Searches Dominants' Handbook furiously/ Dont worry Steven. Only immature guys who need public validation do that.

sunshinemiss -> REwrite of the "Sir" question (11/7/2009 5:30:29 AM)
Well let's re-write!!! What are some ways that you find to manage the dissonance between an s-type being respectful to the M-type in public that also manages the need to be respectful of the rest of the world and not subjecting them to your kink? How is the decision made? Feel free to answer from either side of the kneel.

lusciouslips19 -> RE: REwrite of the "Sir" question (11/7/2009 5:33:14 AM)
But I am currently "sirless"[:(] I did submit to a hairdresser recently who told me to turn around and kneel on the chair and bend forward while he cut. I said, "yes sir" to him. He just brought it out in me.

DarkSteven -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 5:33:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wandersalone I am always interested in learning how others show their dominance or submission in public discretely Interesting idea. I'll start a poll.

dreamofthemoon -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 5:35:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly quote: ORIGINAL: frazzle Thougt you were hiding that book!!!! Its lies all lies, the subby one for Brunettes has the truth.[:D] fixed[:)] fixed again [:D]

frazzle -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 5:37:50 AM)
He hasnt got round to reading it yet, prob because i didnt tell him its moved [:)]

SilverMark -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 5:41:20 AM)
I take it it must be against the handbook for a D type to treat an s type with respect and manners outside of thier private times together.....Lord knows we Doms would never wish to be considered Gentlemen or well mannered....we are all oafs who demand blind following......I must be near as good at this as I had always thought.....

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