RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir.

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You are submissive yet refuse to address Dom as Sir in public.

Agree

28% (12)

Disagree

71% (30)

Total Votes : 42

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Icarys -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 2:00:18 PM)
You do that.

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 2:02:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly quote: , nor do I really give a flying whatever. fuck holly de helpful That'll work [:D] I would have said it myself but I'm too much of a lady

Lucienne -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 2:05:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NihilusZero I, however, see this mentality as indicative of how dysfunctional someone's persona is to their own selves. This is the same sort of mentality that people use to say that allowing two gay men to kiss in public means allowing them to "impose/involve" their homosexuality ontous poor unwilling onlookers. It's silly. If some people still feel awkward about embracing a part of their lives that is genuine and beautiful because they still feel its ugly and unbecoming inside, that is perfectly within their realm of choice however.. I didn't realize it was necessary to be an exhibitionist in order to be accepting of one's sexuality.

Icarys -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 2:06:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lucienne quote: ORIGINAL: NihilusZero I, however, see this mentality as indicative of how dysfunctional someone's persona is to their own selves. This is the same sort of mentality that people use to say that allowing two gay men to kiss in public means allowing them to "impose/involve" their homosexuality ontous poor unwilling onlookers. It's silly. If some people still feel awkward about embracing a part of their lives that is genuine and beautiful because they still feel its ugly and unbecoming inside, that is perfectly within their realm of choice however.. I didn't realize it was necessary to be an exhibitionist in order to be accepting of one's sexuality. One doesn't have to be nor does he have to hide everything.

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 2:09:55 PM)
~FR~ The stupidity of this OP aside, I used to call my previous Master "Master" in public all the time. You know what? Nobody noticed....NOBODY. On the whole people are so wrapped up in their own lives that it takes more than that to turn their heads. I didn't shout it from the rooftops, but we also saw no need to change our dynamic for people who we were never going to see again anyway. I do admit I was nervous and self-conscious at first but after a while I forgot to pay attention and it was one of the most freeing experiences of my life. Everyone must make their own choices and I respect them, I just wasn't going to stop calling him that simply because we were in a restaurant or food shopping.

sirsholly -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 2:09:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NihilusZero quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly we do not involve others in our kink...be it saying "Sir" in front of others, wearing a leash in public, or whatever. The inanity of the way the thread is presented aside... You don't "involve" others. I, however, see this mentality as indicative of how dysfunctional someone's persona is to their own selves. This is the same sort of mentality that people use to say that allowing two gay men to kiss in public means allowing them to "impose/involve" their homosexuality ontous poor unwilling onlookers. It's silly. If some people still feel awkward about embracing a part of their lives that is genuine and beautiful because they still feel its ugly and unbecoming inside, that is perfectly within their realm of choice however.. did i say it is ugly and unbecoming? Did i in any way indicate it is something i am uncomfortable with or ashamed of? We do not wear our kink on our sleeves because, quite frankly, we do not have to. Putting on a show for attention is beneath both of us. My guess is it is not beneath you. Making others uncomfortable by what we do or how we conduct ourselves in public is something we choose to avoid.

sirsholly -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 2:11:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly quote: , nor do I really give a flying whatever. fuck holly de helpful That'll work [:D] I would have said it myself but I'm too much of a lady real ladies don't swipe cookies

Icarys -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 2:12:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth ~FR~ The stupidity of this OP aside, I used to call my previous Master "Master" in public all the time. You know what? Nobody noticed....NOBODY. On the whole people are so wrapped up in their own lives that it takes more than that to turn their heads. I didn't shout it from the rooftops, but we also saw no need to change our dynamic for people who we were never going to see again anyway. I do admit I was nervous and self-conscious at first but after a while I forgot to pay attention and it was one of the most freeing experiences of my life. Everyone must make their own choices and I respect them, I just wasn't going to stop calling him that simply because we were in a restaurant or food shopping. Not that everyone will find it as freeing as you did of course but you never know do ya.

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 2:13:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Icarys quote: ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth ~FR~ The stupidity of this OP aside, I used to call my previous Master "Master" in public all the time. You know what? Nobody noticed....NOBODY. On the whole people are so wrapped up in their own lives that it takes more than that to turn their heads. I didn't shout it from the rooftops, but we also saw no need to change our dynamic for people who we were never going to see again anyway. I do admit I was nervous and self-conscious at first but after a while I forgot to pay attention and it was one of the most freeing experiences of my life. Everyone must make their own choices and I respect them, I just wasn't going to stop calling him that simply because we were in a restaurant or food shopping. Not that everyone will find it as freeing as you did of course but you never know do ya. Of course not, nor do I recommend it in every situation for all people. But then I was surprised by how I felt doing it.

Icarys -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 2:15:07 PM)
quote: did i say it is ugly and unbecoming? Did i in any way indicate it is something i am uncomfortable with or ashamed of? We do not wear our kink on our sleeves because, quite frankly, we do not have to. Putting on a show for attention is beneath both of us. My guess is it is not beneath you. Making others uncomfortable by what we do or how we conduct ourselves in public is something we choose to avoid. This says that you do find it ugly and unbecoming.

Icarys -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 2:16:22 PM)
quote: Of course not, nor do I recommend it in every situation for all people. But then I was surprised by how I felt doing it. To each His/Her own then. Works for me.

Lucienne -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 2:18:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Icarys quote: did i say it is ugly and unbecoming? Did i in any way indicate it is something i am uncomfortable with or ashamed of? We do not wear our kink on our sleeves because, quite frankly, we do not have to. Putting on a show for attention is beneath both of us. My guess is it is not beneath you. Making others uncomfortable by what we do or how we conduct ourselves in public is something we choose to avoid. This says that you do find it ugly and unbecoming. Or, you know, *private. I think I look pretty and becoming naked, but I don't feel the need to share my naked body with the world. Again, not everyone is an exhibitionist. Good for those who are and who exercise their impulses in front of a willing* audience. But it's not the sine qua non of a healthy attitude.

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 2:19:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly quote: ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly quote: , nor do I really give a flying whatever. fuck holly de helpful That'll work [:D] I would have said it myself but I'm too much of a lady real ladies don't swipe cookies Guess that proves Stevie isn't a lady covers mouth and snickers

sirsholly -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 2:21:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Icarys quote: did i say it is ugly and unbecoming? Did i in any way indicate it is something i am uncomfortable with or ashamed of? We do not wear our kink on our sleeves because, quite frankly, we do not have to. Putting on a show for attention is beneath both of us. My guess is it is not beneath you. Making others uncomfortable by what we do or how we conduct ourselves in public is something we choose to avoid. This says that you do find it ugly and unbecoming. Sorry but you are wrong...what it says is that we are not attention whores.

Icarys -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 2:23:06 PM)
quote: beneath both of us. No what that says is that you are better than that.

frazzle -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 2:25:36 PM)
I have without thinking called Him Master in public situations, but as it wasnt screamed from the roof tops noone noticed. There is a time and place, and agrees with holly that it shouldnt be forced on otheres just for effect.

Phoenixpower -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 2:26:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 Maybe just ignore and the attention whore will scamper off.... [sm=yourock.gif][sm=thanks.gif][sm=goodpost.gif][sm=goodpost.gif][sm=goodpost.gif][sm=champ.gif]

Icarys -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 2:29:07 PM)
quote: I have without thinking called Him Master in public situations, but as it wasnt screamed from the roof tops noone noticed. There is a time and place, and agrees with holly that it shouldnt be forced on otheres just for effect. She's talking about doing it at all in public if I'm not mistaken.

Hierodule -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 2:32:40 PM)
I don't see how calling a person Sir in public would even be interpreted as kinky. Couldn't it just be a pet name? My grandma and grandpa called each other mommy and daddy in public no one batted an eyelash.

Icarys -> RE: You are a submissive in public refusing to address your Master as Sir. (11/7/2009 2:38:05 PM)
Kinda silly not to look at the reality of a subject before you start arguing against it huh?[:D] Night.

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