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How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/7/2009 9:53:13 AM

amy19808

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Hello.
I have sessioned with multiple mistresses, and where I am forced to crossdress, suck on a strapon, humiliated. One thing that I want to experience is being forced to eat my cum. However, everytime the orgasm happens, the desire to be forced to eat cum just instantly disapears, and I have succesfully convinced my mistresses, or blocked them from feeding me cum.

What can I get them to do so that I can be a proper slut and eat jizz so that I can be humiliated?

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/7/2009 9:56:19 AM

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For one, you can stop manipulating them.

Just a thought.

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/7/2009 10:06:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: amy19808
I have sessioned with multiple mistresses

Have you "sessioned" with any of these mistresses more than once? Are you friends with any of them, or is are these strictly (ha ha) professional relationships? (Friends means you go ice skating together or some other nonsexual activity.)

If you're paying them, then maybe they figure "the customer is always right." Maybe they don't trust you enough to believe you're serious that you want your "no" overriden.

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/7/2009 10:09:03 AM

amy19808

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I sessioned with a dom, where I have paid and I have seen many of them couple of times.

I wish I could find a 'friend' that I could hang out be friends with and just tell a girl about what I like.

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/7/2009 10:12:41 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: amy19808

Hello.
I have sessioned with multiple mistresses, and where I am forced to crossdress, suck on a strapon, humiliated. One thing that I want to experience is being forced to eat my cum. However, everytime the orgasm happens, the desire to be forced to eat cum just instantly disapears, and I have succesfully convinced my mistresses, or blocked them from feeding me cum.

What can I get them to do so that I can be a proper slut and eat jizz so that I can be humiliated?

My guess is that the only thing you are submissive to is your kink. Why not identify yourself as a male dom and find a nice femsub to "force" you into your kinks? Femdoms are rarely interested in pretend male subs.

Edited to add: The femsubs probably won't want you, either.

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/7/2009 10:15:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

For one, you can stop manipulating them.

Just a thought.

i second that

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/7/2009 10:17:55 AM

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Hello Amy and welcome to the forums.

I am wondering what you find about eating cum to be humiliating? And why you feel you want to be humiliated?

I have a feeling that it may be tied into your crossdressing from looking at your profile and intro message.

If so, please understand that a dominant female is not a fetish delivery device, but a real person who is going to want something very specific from you - service, devotion, and submission. This has to come from you directly and not be tied to your fetish, nor be dependent on it.

I think if you give it a think and read a bunch of what is here, you will begin to understand more about dominant Ladies and what I mean. It is great that you are girlie, and it is great that you are here looking to find someone to share it with, but the Ladies whom you will contact are going to be looking for something much deeper than just one fetish.

I would give it some thought, and put some things in your profile that detail out what you offer up and bring to a relationship, and what specifically you are looking for other than the nebulous "feminize me" concept. In the end, it is my belief that we feminize ourselves and make it a positive part of who we are and what we offer up. Few Ladies will be willing to take it on because of all of the emotional and mental landmines that are often present. If you deal with it yourself, come to grips with your authentic self, sort through all your baggage surrounding it, and make it a positive part of who you are, you will have a much better chance of finding a Lady to share it with.

A lot of info, and I know you did not ask for it...but we see a lot of males here asking for what you are asking for. There is a standard issue answer and you now have that information. I hope it makes sense and with a little reading here, you will understand the reality of the thing rather than the fantasy of it all.

Be well and again, welcome!

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/7/2009 10:27:21 AM

Lashra

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She can tie you up, put an O ring in your mouth and force you to drink it.
Or you could be submissive and obedient and do as she tells you too. Just a thought.

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/7/2009 10:29:53 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: amy19808

I sessioned with a dom, where I have paid and I have seen many of them couple of times.

I wish I could find a 'friend' that I could hang out be friends with and just tell a girl about what I like.

That's part of the issue right there. You are paying them and there is only a client/pro arrangement.

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/7/2009 10:36:19 AM

amy19808

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quote:

ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

Hello Amy and welcome to the forums.

I am wondering what you find about eating cum to be humiliating? And why you feel you want to be humiliated?

I have a feeling that it may be tied into your crossdressing from looking at your profile and intro message.

If so, please understand that a dominant female is not a fetish delivery device, but a real person who is going to want something very specific from you - service, devotion, and submission. This has to come from you directly and not be tied to your fetish, nor be dependent on it.

I think if you give it a think and read a bunch of what is here, you will begin to understand more about dominant Ladies and what I mean. It is great that you are girlie, and it is great that you are here looking to find someone to share it with, but the Ladies whom you will contact are going to be looking for something much deeper than just one fetish.

I would give it some thought, and put some things in your profile that detail out what you offer up and bring to a relationship, and what specifically you are looking for other than the nebulous "feminize me" concept. In the end, it is my belief that we feminize ourselves and make it a positive part of who we are and what we offer up. Few Ladies will be willing to take it on because of all of the emotional and mental landmines that are often present. If you deal with it yourself, come to grips with your authentic self, sort through all your baggage surrounding it, and make it a positive part of who you are, you will have a much better chance of finding a Lady to share it with.

A lot of info, and I know you did not ask for it...but we see a lot of males here asking for what you are asking for. There is a standard issue answer and you now have that information. I hope it makes sense and with a little reading here, you will understand the reality of the thing rather than the fantasy of it all.

Be well and again, welcome!

Hello.
Thank you for the informative message, i appreciate it. You are right, the part of being forced to eat cum is tied to the fetish I have. While I am new to this matter of submission, I am certainly willing to submit and it would come directly from me. I just want to go deeper into being a girl/submissive especially since I have never tried this. This would a learning process for me, and as I go deeper, I would love to experience other things that the dom wants then simply being a girl.

Any how thanks for the info. I have to now think about how I am going to change my profile from your advise.

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/7/2009 7:10:44 PM

AcademyForSlaves

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It is common for a male to lose his submissiveness once he orgasms if he is only submissive when sexually aroused. A "bedroom slave" or "sex slave".

Plus, you might be enjoying "making" the Mistress cater to your demands and topping from the bottom with a power struggle game more than you enjoy submitting. Could you perhaps be slightly resentful of Women?

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/7/2009 7:13:57 PM

pyroaquatic

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You would think a submissive male would be MORE submissive after orgasm.

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/7/2009 7:23:14 PM

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You would think a submissive male would be MORE submissive after orgasm.

oh no..quite the contrary...it is a "mission or emission accomplished .."done deal" "got to the good stuff"..
thing for many"

Ask *some men* to give you oral or go do dishes AFTER cumming ...

and you usually find...ALL desire for you..for the submission and surrender is gone.......unless you have a rare gem..
GM

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/7/2009 7:27:31 PM

pyroaquatic

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Must be a fight/flight response.

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/7/2009 7:42:30 PM

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Must be a fight/flight response.

Nah. It's an 'I'm a selfish bastard' response. Fortunately, those gems of which GM speaks are out there - though just about as rare as a 35-carat diamond.

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/7/2009 7:45:46 PM

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Can I just say that, as a sub, i know answering her isn't my place, but I find that sort of questioning both counter advantageous and confusing?
How this OP wants to make his Mistress do something? Methinks that he doesn't quite get what subbing is about. Oh and I needed to check as to whether or not the OP was a male or female :s

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/7/2009 8:12:46 PM

pyroaquatic

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I'm definitely no gem.

Perhaps a cheaply made bauble at this point. I'll upgrade soon.

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/7/2009 8:20:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: aladdinsane

Can I just say that, as a sub, i know answering her isn't my place, but I find that sort of questioning both counter advantageous and confusing?
How this OP wants to make his Mistress do something? Methinks that he doesn't quite get what subbing is about. Oh and I needed to check as to whether or not the OP was a male or female :s

You are quite welcome to post in any CM forum!

OP: Since you are paying for the sessions, just pre-arrange your desired outcome. Let your pro-dommes know that you will be resistant, but that they will be expected to prevail. How hard is that?

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/7/2009 8:43:41 PM

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Question, though: if he's paying these women, wouldn't this leave the femdom open to a charge of prostitution? It's my understanding that if any sexual gratification is permitted by local law (i.e., masturbation), the femdom is not allowed even to be in the same room when it takes place.

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RE: How can I get a mistress to get me to eat cum - 11/7/2009 9:24:04 PM

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I know what you mean about eating cum. It's just not that easy once the orgasm is over. The strange thing is that us guys get mega horny seeing our girlfriend take it in the mouth -- and we never think of her as being humiliated. I can't explain why us guys have that double standard except to say before we orgasm we have hormones that allow us to do more things (or make us stupid).

Another time (I had a domme for awhile) she decided to mount me on top and told me that once we are done fucking I will have to clean up the mess. If I was on top, under those conditions, I would have gone as deep as I could so that there would be less cum -- but much to my dismay she had the control and would let my cock get all the way in.

I was in a state of dread as I came and was wishing I didn't have to orgasm. I was praying that my cum was not as much as usual but I just knew by the feeling it was a big load. Every time I squirted I thought about having to lick it up, and the desire waned as my orgasm finished. I could definitely feel cum oozing out of her as she dismounted.

She didn't make me do it though -- just mind fucking me. I thought she was going to facesit me so I would have to lick it. I would have licked her pussy if she told me to though because I always knew if I didn't agree with her I would get a severe spanking that wasn't fun. She wasn't a pro so the situation was different.

I thought of a solution that might work for you. Pay your pro an extra $100 on the condition she will pay it back if you eat all your own cum and swallow it. She could make you cum in a small cup or dish, and I'll bet she will jack you off just to make sure every drop is saved. I'm sure she wouldn't mind, and might think the odds are in her favor of winning.

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