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LadyAngelika -> RE: a FUNC or DYSFUNC PENIS (11/18/2009 2:55:11 AM)
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ORIGINAL: kccuckoldmist
Both roles and genders have a certain percentage of people drawn to power exchange as a way to hide/misdirect their sexual abnormalities. Whether abnormal low or non existent sex drives, sexual dysfunction or mental issues causing certain aversions, these people whether to duplicate intimacy many people receive through sex and sexuality and/or the misguided thought of power exchange will hide this unlike more common types of relationships dynamics.
I have seen this mostly in my personal experiences from men who desire things like long term chastity and to be cuckolded and women who think calling themselves dominant will allow them to find a man that will not require sexual things from them.
But I believe that this group as a whole is a pretty darn small minority and think in your circumstances the odds are you are the only proving the exception to the rule unfortunately and finding men with issues.
Agreed. I once had a 36 yr old boy with this problem. He pursued me for a long time but I held back because of our significant difference in kinks. I'm not so much into cuckholding as I'm finding I'm enjoying monogamy with the right man more than polyamory. But that's *me* and that's a whole other topic. But he had originally agreed to put his cuckhold fetish aside in order to see the potential between us.
He was a good looking man, big and strong, healthy lifestyle. However, when we played, I noticed that his bits wouldn't get very hard and when they did, it wouldn't be very long. Now I personally want a boy who's there to fulfill my every pleasure, I would even push it and say that I've come to think of my boy as a stud boy. But for this particular boy, when his cock wouldn't work, he would go to that place saying that his cock wasn't worthy of me, that I intimidated him, that I should probably not use it and find a better one...
Like the OP, I'm looking for a boy who services me when I want and how I want. But I'm also not an incentive bitch. I was truly concerned as this is not normal for such a young, healthy man. When we out of "play" mode, I sat down and gently talked to him about this, saying he might want to talk to a doctor about it. He looked overwhelmed. Needless to say, he ended things not soon after stating that he really needed someone who understood his kink better. Fine.
A year later, I ran into him at a business function of all places (gotta love when this happens). After a while, we stepped away to talk and he told me that he finally went to see that doctor who said that for some reason, he simply had in layman's terms bad wiring which made it that he apparently never was able to get full erections. Now that he found Cialis, he was a new man and definitely wanted to use his cock. He had a whole new kink now, that his Mistress keep the Cialis under lock and key and decide when he would be used.
Oh boy! Some boys really want to make it all about their dicks, huh? Ha ha! But in all honesty, I'm happy for him that he got things checked out because it could have been worse. But the point of all this is that I think kccuckoldmist has quite astutely pointed out that often times (and not always) kinks are influenced by these disabilities.
- LA
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