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Wolf2Bear -> RE: a FUNC or DYSFUNC PENIS (11/21/2009 4:00:04 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

I've heard that when a man's taken in the ass, he'll be turned on, may well be in utter subspace - but won't have a hard-on.  A gay man I once spoke, who said that he was always the 'recipient' in sex, said he often didn't have a hard-on when he was 'receiving'.  Maybe there is something fundamental about being submissive, male, turned on, but not hard . . . .


Speaking as a gay male, that is not always the case. Some gay men do maintain a hard erection during anal sex, some lose their erection and are still aroused, some gay men get semi erect. The ability to have, maintain and sustain an erection is dependant upon many many factors. Factors such as age, medications, health issues and psychological factors. It is pretty much guaranteed that any man will lose an erection when he is placed under pressure to get "hard" at another's command, after all, the ability to get an erection is mainly an involuntary reaction of the body; much in the same was blinking your eyes or breathing. From my understanding, arousal and erections in a male is a cyclic process which means that erections will soften and become hard again during arousal. Granted a healthy male withopuit medical issues can sustain an erection for 10, 15, 20 mins or more, it will soften and with continual arousal he will regain an erection.




bootkisserboy -> RE: a FUNC or DYSFUNC PENIS (11/21/2009 4:23:08 PM)

Hello Gypsy.  I don't think it is anything wrong with your profile.  In fact, if you were in my area, I would be competing for your attentions and affection. 

I just think it has to do with submissives/slaves.  I think some subs are subs because it is form of sexuality that doesn't always involve coitus (hence no erection necessary).  Many professional and lifestyle Dommes don't want coitus or body worship.  You just need to weed out the impotent subs quickly with this question.  I have been asked right off if I was "functional" by a Domme.  Personally, nothing excites me more or gets me harder than some pain, humiliation, and forced body worship. 




GYPSYMAMBO -> RE: a FUNC or DYSFUNC PENIS (11/21/2009 6:23:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: bootkisserboy

Hello Gypsy.  I don't think it is anything wrong with your profile.  In fact, if you were in my area, I would be competing for your attentions and affection. 



I have made it from here to PHOENIX in 33 hours/...[;)]
NM in 40
GM




LadyAngelika -> RE: a FUNC or DYSFUNC PENIS (11/21/2009 7:10:32 PM)

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ORIGINAL: bootkisserboy

Hello Gypsy. I don't think it is anything wrong with your profile. In fact, if you were in my area, I would be competing for your attentions and affection.



I have made it from here to PHOENIX in 33 hours/...
NM in 40
GM


Damn GM. I thought you would have made him craaaaaaaaawl to you. But I see you are a woman of action! A huntress! I love it ;-)

- LA




SexyBossyBBW -> RE: a FUNC or DYSFUNC PENIS (12/21/2010 2:44:59 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika
Damn GM. I thought you would have made him craaaaaaaaawl to you. But I see you are a woman of action! A huntress! I love it ;-)
- LA
I'd have offered him the directions, and allowed him to choose crawling, driving or flying, but that is moi.

As to the OP, the first three submissive men I met, informed me, that they were never allowed intercourse with the dominant lady, so they were never to expect it.    I explained to them, I had no issue with their prior experience, but with me, these are the rules:    It is not negotiable, whether you have a working penis, or non working one, I reserve the right to amuse myself with it, as I see fit.   If you agree to be my boy, we will discuss the extent to which  you want to be managed/micromanaged, to see if we are compatible.    Two of the gents' still responded to my taking over their organs, and one, was only useful for experimenting of what to do with little limp things.     M




Steponme73 -> RE: a FUNC or DYSFUNC PENIS (12/21/2010 11:34:32 AM)

A lot of men who have ED, are embarassed; plain and simple. It is hard to be a "macho" guy, with a wilted carrot. There are some drugs that help some men. There are other men who do not respond to the drugs. This is not a topic that men like to discuss.
You don't go around bragging about the fact that you can't make it work...




VideoAdminTheta -> RE: a FUNC or DYSFUNC PENIS (12/21/2010 3:53:11 PM)

Rather than bring up a thread older than three months, it is best to start a new thread. This thread will now be locked.

Thank you




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