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I think I upset my mistress - 11/10/2009 2:14:19 PM   
Knox52


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Hey,
I have been chatting online with my mistress and I think I upset her. She said that next time we meet she is going to tie me to a chair and blindfold and gag me. I am not comfortable with a blindfold but everything else is fine. She told me to go shopping and pick up a few items. Anyone have some good suggestions so i don't upset her. I don't think I need a gag cause she said she is going to gag me with her panties..Thanks
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RE: I think I upset my mistress - 11/10/2009 2:17:16 PM   
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Yes.  Ask HER what you should pick up. 

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RE: I think I upset my mistress - 11/10/2009 2:23:15 PM   
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I did ask her and she said a switch and use my imagination..

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RE: I think I upset my mistress - 11/10/2009 2:23:28 PM   
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That would be logical.

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RE: I think I upset my mistress - 11/10/2009 2:28:57 PM   
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trying to correspond with a Mistress and feel I have failed in my efforts. I can appreciate your situation. Knox. Is all hopless??


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RE: I think I upset my mistress - 11/10/2009 2:30:20 PM   
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I think that I am going to start with a paddle, cane, and rope..

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RE: I think I upset my mistress - 11/10/2009 2:30:53 PM   
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Forget buying things...it is so out of fashion...you should -give- her things instead. 

I would start by giving her your computer, mouse, keyboard, and monitor...

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RE: I think I upset my mistress - 11/10/2009 2:35:58 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Knox52

I think that I am going to start with a paddle, cane, and rope..


Ok, if you really think you've upset her (as in she is ACTUALLY pissed and this isn't a funishment) why not go the traditional route and, along with all the things that cater to your kinks, buy her some roses? I suggest 2 dozen, long-stemmed with their thorns. Gift cards to Victoria's Secret so she can pick out what she wants or perhaps jewelry.

< Message edited by AquaticSub -- 11/10/2009 3:05:22 PM >


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RE: I think I upset my mistress - 11/10/2009 2:58:24 PM   
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So you joined the site today to tell us the story?

Yep, if I was her, I wouldn't be happy either.


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RE: I think I upset my mistress - 11/10/2009 4:01:32 PM   
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ahem....you upset everyone with this dumb ass post.   Weep like a girl as you taste her panties and can't speak. Pick up a box of cheerios and drop one in the toilet and piss through the hole....BABY   Time to potty train you butt.

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RE: I think I upset my mistress - 11/10/2009 4:07:41 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Knox52

Hey,

Hay is for horses...

I have been chatting online with my mistress and I think I upset her.

 Is this YOUR mistress or A mistress?   Do you THINK you upset her or do you KNOW you upset her?

She said that next time we meet she is going to tie me to a chair and blindfold and gag me. I am not comfortable with a blindfold but everything else is fine.

Is SHE aware you aren't comfortable with the idea of a blindfold?

She told me to go shopping and pick up a few items. Anyone have some good suggestions so i don't upset her.

Go shopping and pick a few items...for what?  The dinner you plan to make for her because you think you upset her?  Or perhaps the items needed for a nice mani/pedi to show her you care?  You may want to be more specific given you don't want to upset her and you're looking for help.

I don't think I need a gag cause she said she is going to gag me with her panties..Thanks


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I did ask her and she said a switch and use my imagination..


Well, a switch could mean something to beat you with (I know, curb your excitement cowboy) or maybe she wants you to bring another person who identifies as a switch.  Hard to say if you don't ask for clarification.  Ahhh, and she wants you to use YOUR imagination...not ours, unless she told you to join today and post this message.
 
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I think that I am going to start with a paddle, cane, and rope..


Why...that sounds like things that would please you.  This is suppose to be about you not upsetting her, right?  If you upset her and you want to make it up, do you think she would be pleased that you went out and bought items that would please YOU?
 
Does this mistress know you're looking for both dominant and submissive women?  Has she read your profile (or empty profile)? 
 
If you want some real advice and not wank ideas, I would suggest you ask her to give you some clarification as to how these items will please her?  I would also show her this thread and ask her if she's pleased with the way you presented yourself and this question. 

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RE: I think I upset my mistress - 11/10/2009 5:26:21 PM   
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OP, I cannot believe that your Mistress would not convey to you whether she was upset or not.  And I have a hard time deciphering what's going on fro your post.

I think both of you could stand to communicate better.


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RE: I think I upset my mistress - 11/10/2009 6:28:09 PM   
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Steven,

You have upset me!  I am going to chain you to the kitchen.  However, no blindfold, so do not worry about that.  Before I get there, I want you to go to the store and pick up a few things:

Large stock pot
3 - 2.5 pound live lobsters
1 - Old Bay seasoning
1 - pound of butter
2 - lemons
1 - pound assorted baby greens
1 - block of feta cheese
1 - bottle of light dressing, raspberry vinagrette
1 - bottle Auslese Wine
1 - pint grape tomatoes
1 - cucumber
1 - carrot
2 - pounds small red potatoes


How is that for communication? 

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RE: I think I upset my mistress - 11/10/2009 6:59:53 PM   
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/Remembers to get the carrot/ 

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"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: I think I upset my mistress - 11/10/2009 7:01:45 PM   
Aylee


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

/Remembers to get the carrot/ 


So instead of being one of those (n-1) people, you are a (n-11) person?

But I gave you a LIST!  Just for that reason! 

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RE: I think I upset my mistress - 11/10/2009 7:09:10 PM   
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Oh, the list... that should be around here somewhere... mebbe I left it at the store... or when I stopped over at Phil's to shoot the breeze...

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: I think I upset my mistress - 11/10/2009 7:11:21 PM   
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quote:

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/Remembers to get the carrot/ 


Steven, you're a dom.  You're supposed to bring the stick, not the carrot.

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RE: I think I upset my mistress - 11/10/2009 7:18:27 PM   
Aylee


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Oh, the list... that should be around here somewhere... mebbe I left it at the store... or when I stopped over at Phil's to shoot the breeze...


Oh NO!  He is going to be crying again about never getting a list.  Damnit Steven! 

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RE: I think I upset my mistress - 11/10/2009 7:20:20 PM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

/Remembers to get the carrot/ 


Steven, you're a dom.  You're supposed to bring the stick, not the carrot.


Ya wanna know where I intend to stick the carrot? 


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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: I think I upset my mistress - 11/10/2009 7:22:34 PM   
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I wanna know how big your carrot grows... you know... Colorado rich soil and all...

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