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Female or male subs.. Do pro's contact you? - 11/12/2009 12:31:08 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		I see a lot of moaning and groaning from the other sex about "pro's"  The implication I get is that so called female pro's are emailing these poor innocent sub males and hoping to be paid for play.  I am female, should I be offended that no male pro has contacted me for a pay for play session?  Do female subs get emails from random pro's?  Do male subs get emails from random pro's? 

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RE: Female or male subs.. Do pro's contact you? - 11/12/2009 12:34:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		not random pros, but random scammers......and I think that's the deal. Pros advertise and get their name out there, the ones emailing in shotgun style are clowns looking for suckers.

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RE: Female or male subs.. Do pro's contact you? - 11/12/2009 12:36:01 PM   
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RE: Female or male subs.. Do pro's contact you? - 11/12/2009 12:38:47 PM   
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clowns looking for suckers.

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But Ron. . . I thought that YOU WERE looking for suckers!

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RE: Female or male subs.. Do pro's contact you? - 11/12/2009 12:47:00 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		I always assumed we women got those diminants that were looking to find clueless noobs.  And the males got the people who were not pro, but hoped to cash in on desperate.  Either way I am not getting how one is worse than the other. 
I am still waiting for a legit pro to drop an email my way..

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

not random pros, but random scammers......and I think that's the deal. Pros advertise and get their name out there, the ones emailing in shotgun style are clowns looking for suckers.

Ron


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RE: Female or male subs.. Do pro's contact you? - 11/12/2009 12:47:50 PM   
devilishpixie


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Status: offline 		No, but i did contact a pro dom once. I didn't know there was such a creature until I saw his profile so I was curious if it worked the same as the pro doms.

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RE: Female or male subs.. Do pro's contact you? - 11/12/2009 12:52:17 PM   
Missokyst


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No, but i did contact a pro dom once. I didn't know there was such a creature until I saw his profile so I was curious if it worked the same as the pro doms.

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RE: Female or male subs.. Do pro's contact you? - 11/12/2009 12:56:08 PM   
devilishpixie


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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

No kidding?  I have looked around and not spotted any pro-male types!
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ORIGINAL: devilishpixie

No, but i did contact a pro dom once. I didn't know there was such a creature until I saw his profile so I was curious if it worked the same as the pro doms.



There is one that is local to me in Baltimore. He was very kind to answer my questions, I was truly clueless.

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RE: Female or male subs.. Do pro's contact you? - 11/12/2009 1:00:56 PM   
LadyNTrainer


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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

I see a lot of moaning and groaning from the other sex about "pro's"  The implication I get is that so called female pro's are emailing these poor innocent sub males and hoping to be paid for play.  I am female, should I be offended that no male pro has contacted me for a pay for play session?  Do female subs get emails from random pro's?  Do male subs get emails from random pro's? 


One scam that my male sub buddies have told me about is "stealth pros" who lead them on with the promise of personal interest and then ask for "tribute".  Or "help with their poor sick mother's hospital bills".  Or "money for a ticket to relocate to you".  A lot of them are, no big surprise, from Nigeria.  Common sense and the insistence of a casual real life meeting for a cup of coffee BEFORE making any major personal, emotional or financial commitments will weed out most of these pretty quick.

These are not pro dommes, by the way.  Real professional dominants are honest and up-front about what they are negotiating for, and have an honest work ethic and a sense of responsibility towards their clients.  They don't want something for nothing; they want to do a job honorably and well, and get fairly paid for it.  Anything else is, in my opinion, not worthy of the term "professional". 


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RE: Female or male subs.. Do pro's contact you? - 11/12/2009 1:05:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aylee

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clowns looking for suckers.

Ron



But Ron. . . I thought that YOU WERE looking for suckers!


This made me choke on my tea !!


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RE: Female or male subs.. Do pro's contact you? - 11/12/2009 1:24:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		Nope, not one time. I have had a couple people try and get me to go on instant messenger or email an alt address, but I don't play, and I don't hear from them again.

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RE: Female or male subs.. Do pro's contact you? - 11/12/2009 1:28:13 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		I agree.  I see a value in real professional services.  Heck.. I would buy to try if there were males offering up around here.  Scammers are all over.   Females just get different scams.  Instead of $$$ it is for BJ's.

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RE: Female or male subs.. Do pro's contact you? - 11/12/2009 1:30:15 PM   
devilishpixie


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Status: offline 		I remember a pro sub that used to post on the forums awhile back, I dont remember the nick. I have meet a few local pro subs lately as well.

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RE: Female or male subs.. Do pro's contact you? - 11/12/2009 1:31:07 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		uhhhhhhhhhhhhh, wouldn't be prosub would it?


LOL.



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RE: Female or male subs.. Do pro's contact you? - 11/12/2009 1:32:09 PM   
devilishpixie


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uhhhhhhhhhhhhh, wouldn't be prosub would it?


LOL.



Nope that isn't the nick I am thinking of smarty pants!

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RE: Female or male subs.. Do pro's contact you? - 11/12/2009 4:16:46 PM   
Daddysredhead


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ORIGINAL: devilishpixie

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

No kidding?  I have looked around and not spotted any pro-male types!
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ORIGINAL: devilishpixie

No, but i did contact a pro dom once. I didn't know there was such a creature until I saw his profile so I was curious if it worked the same as the pro doms.



There is one that is local to me in Baltimore. He was very kind to answer my questions, I was truly clueless.


I wonder if that's the same guy who was supposed to meet a gal I know (till she chickened out and cancelled).  She said he was very nice, too.

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RE: Female or male subs.. Do pro's contact you? - 11/12/2009 4:20:08 PM   
Hierodule


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Status: offline 		Nope not once. Ironically, I get contacted by male subs at least once a week.

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RE: Female or male subs.. Do pro's contact you? - 11/12/2009 7:20:05 PM   
soul2share


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Status: offline 		Nope....not by the pros or the not-pros.......{sigh}......

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RE: Female or male subs.. Do pro's contact you? - 11/13/2009 3:28:15 AM   
LadyChallene


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

not random pros, but random scammers......and I think that's the deal. Pros advertise and get their name out there, the ones emailing in shotgun style are clowns looking for suckers.



[color=#663333 size=2]I know that there are scammers, liars, cheats and just plain nasty greedy people without morals and/or scruples around every corner and down each and every hall, and behind every mostly or fully closed door. For people like that it does not matter the gender of the ‘mark’ or ‘target’, they are only interested in ripping off any one they can get close to.
 
[color=#663333 size=2]I used to be a pro-trainer way, way back in the day ( :: laughs softly :: so far back that I like to say “back when god’s sandals were so new that they creaked when he walked because they still needed to be broken in) and I never went, basically trolling for the young and/or inexperienced, or thought about charging anyone to pay for play. It just strikes me wrong, like a slap in the face.
 
[color=#663333 size=2]Lady Challene

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RE: Female or male subs.. Do pro's contact you? - 11/13/2009 6:07:07 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		The only male pros I've seen service the gay community.
But I didn't think those complaints meant various prodommes are spamming all male subs here. I always thought they were complaining that the women they write clueless letters to who are always 19 and gorgeous turn out to be charging for their time and don't want to spend their own money to wear head to toe leather while they do the bottom in the way he wants to be done.

And you know, those outfits are expensive as are the boots with six inch heels.

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