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I have a delima. - 11/13/2009 11:14:06 PM   
MasterK13


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Status: offline 		I have been chatting with a slave online and she wants to move in off the bat. I am in a situation(in between college and home) however where I can not have a live in she seems very persistent on this I never planned on having a live in this soon do I break off contact or make her accept this also shes from the other side of the continet and is 8 years older then me if I introduced her to my family the fact that shes so much older would most certanly raise some eyebrows as well as the fact that she is from texas and I am from Ohio so a cover story for how we even met would be a must for me. I am open to all suggestions.
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RE: I have a delima. - 11/13/2009 11:18:00 PM   
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Say no.


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RE: I have a delima. - 11/13/2009 11:33:11 PM   
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RE: I have a delima. - 11/13/2009 11:59:20 PM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		What LadyP said.

Also, the fact that you are only talking with her (I gather that the two of you have never met in person?) waves all kinds of redflags to me.  Scammer/user/etc.


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RE: I have a delima. - 11/14/2009 12:16:34 AM   
MasterK13


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Status: offline 		Very possible she has yet to answer a single question I will lay down the law and say I will not answer any more until you answer.

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RE: I have a delima. - 11/14/2009 12:28:00 AM   
justagirlinzh


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterK13

I have been chatting with a slave online and she wants to move in off the bat. I am in a situation(in between college and home) however where I can not have a live in she seems very persistent on this I never planned on having a live in this soon do I break off contact or make her accept this also shes from the other side of the continet and is 8 years older then me if I introduced her to my family the fact that shes so much older would most certanly raise some eyebrows as well as the fact that she is from texas and I am from Ohio so a cover story for how we even met would be a must for me. I am open to all suggestions.

Danger, danger, danger. Run away.

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RE: I have a delima. - 11/14/2009 12:54:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		If this were a girl you were going to date, what would be your answer?

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RE: I have a delima. - 11/14/2009 1:16:15 AM   
lally2


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Status: offline 		actually i dont think you do have a dilemma - what you have is a woman breaking all the rules of engagement right off the bat - would any of youre mainstream friends hitch up with someone this fast.

maybe she has an issue with LDR, i dont blame her frankly, so do i, but even so, even if i met Mr.OHsoPHUCKINGRight, i wouldnt demand to move in, quite the opposite to be honest, id be ever so careful not to frighten him off with suggestions of moving in.

i suggest you step back a bit and review everything you have said here - well, apart from the bit when you say youre going to step back abit, lol

< Message edited by lally2 -- 11/14/2009 1:19:52 AM >

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RE: I have a delima. - 11/14/2009 1:20:58 AM   
GreedyTop


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OP..Like I said (and others after me have said)
this "I'll move in right NOW" thing is a red flag.  Run.


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RE: I have a delima. - 11/14/2009 1:22:50 AM   
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Status: offline 		RED FLAG...she is 26 years old and wants to pack up and move across the country to live with an 18 yr old student that she never met.

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RE: I have a delima. - 11/14/2009 1:28:10 AM   
lally2


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Status: offline 		hey scrumptious - and what terrible thing did you do to land youreself 'roof sweeping duty' -

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RE: I have a delima. - 11/14/2009 1:48:40 AM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		it was a volunteer thing.. to save my step dad from doing it...LOL

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RE: I have a delima. - 11/14/2009 1:54:48 AM   
lally2


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Status: offline 		youre a saint and a marvel so you are! (best irish accent applied - twinkle in eye comes as standard with pint of guiness and a sudden desire to dance the river dance up on the roof there with you.

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RE: I have a delima. - 11/14/2009 3:38:59 AM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterK13

Very possible she has yet to answer a single question I will lay down the law and say I will not answer any more until you answer.


You don't seem to get it.

Anyone who would relocate to someone they barely know is a serious head job.  Or in a very bad situation where they are.

Or a scam.

Everyone here is telling you that you need to drop her like a hot potato, and your response is that you will begin asserting yourself on a minor, basic point.  Like LadyPact says, you are not in charge and seem fine with that.

Forget the woman.  She's not real.  She's trying to entice you with visions of endless blow jobs until you're thinking with your dick only.  Then she'll ask you for the money for relocation.

You need to get out and meet actual people and interact with them.  See just how Dom you truly are.  It's a code of conduct and a way of thinking and acting as well as issuing orders in the bedroom.

And try another username.  You calling yourself a Master will get you laughed at in some circles.  Hell, I have six or eight years of experience and I would get roundly laughed at if I presented myself as a Master.

Edited to add:  OP, I just read your profile and the only thing it really says is that you're looking for a woman 18-22.  What reasons did you have to make that range, and why are you willing to go six years outside a four year range?

There will be times when you see a situation that's tempting but will not work, and it's part of your job as a Dom to recognize it as a lost cause and stop things.  I've been there, and it's not easy, but every time I've let things proceed, I've regretted it.


< Message edited by DarkSteven -- 11/14/2009 4:06:44 AM >

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RE: I have a delima. - 11/14/2009 3:51:40 AM   
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Status: offline 		Nah. Not really red flags here. Ships sirens. Both the co2 honker and the big screaming firealarm. Head for the liferafts. Iceberg dead ahead. Just hope for you that you still got room to maneuvre. Would recommend rudder set maximum and screews going top notch in reverse.
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RE: I have a delima. - 11/14/2009 7:34:42 AM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		What Steven said....

And, if there's a supermodel-quality photo on her profile that's got you all gaga, I guarantee you it's a scammer.  Would a 26 year old woman who's that drop-dead gorgeous need to be online looking?  And no offense, but for an 18 year old student?  Try to see it logically....there are lots of gorgeous women in Ohio.  My sons married two of them

Oh yeah....I was born and raised there, too!

< Message edited by windchymes -- 11/14/2009 7:35:23 AM >

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RE: I have a delima. - 11/14/2009 7:37:16 AM   
GYPSYMAMBO


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Status: offline 		OP:
oh honey BE CAREFULL
think with the big head,,

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RE: I have a delima. - 11/14/2009 8:01:23 AM   
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Status: offline 		It's a scam. She'll ask you for the money and that's the last you'll see of her and the cash.
Besides your mother is bound to notice her in your room when she cleans.

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RE: I have a delima. - 11/14/2009 8:11:55 AM   
winterlight


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Status: offline 		agrees with all above..

Can you support her? But the real question is why is she so pushy and who is running things. Her or you?

Finish school, move out whatever you need to do to establish yourself before you take on a relationship.

AND RUN LIKE HELL FROM THE LIKES OF HER! THIS SCREAMS RED FLAGS AND THE LOUDEST SOUNDING HORN IMAGINABLE. SORRY FOR THE CAPS..

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RE: I have a delima. - 11/14/2009 8:14:56 AM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		Good grief man... err boy... this is an important lesson now that you are joining the adult world.
This is a scam. It is not a red flag, it is not a desperate sub, it is not someone who fell wildly in love with you. You are simply a means to an end. She wants out of where she is, or she wants money.

Learn this lesson quickly.

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