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RE: I have a delima. - 11/14/2009 10:38:55 AM

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I already had my opinion of what was going on I just wanted the opinions of u guys to see if I was justified in my suspicions consider the potatoe dropped.

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RE: I have a delima. - 11/14/2009 10:41:12 AM

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Now you're thinking straight.

And you won't regret it.

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RE: I have a delima. - 11/14/2009 10:44:12 AM

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My reasons were that I ccould easily pass a sub/slave in that range off as my girlfriend without raising a few eyebrows I made it after I met the one girl.

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RE: I have a delima. - 11/14/2009 11:50:02 AM

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Try thinking outside the box, you can be both a dom and a boyfriend, a son and a brother. A student and a burger flipper.

She doesn't have to be one or the other any more than you do. You simply have to find a relationship that works for both of you.

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RE: I have a delima. - 11/14/2009 12:46:09 PM

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Dude, run. Just run.

More importantly, give your bloody head a shake. Get you act in gear before you go looking for a relationship or you're going to screw up more than just yourself. I can't believe you even considered accepting a slave from the other side of the world you just started talking to, who doesn't seem to listen to what you say, is way older than you, and you have no personal connection with.

I mean everybody is free to do what they want, but come on. You asked for advice on the matter, and there it is. Figure yourself out!

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RE: I have a delima. - 11/14/2009 12:47:53 PM

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Good advice so far. When I read the OP, I thought "Who is the Dominant in charge here? You? or her?" You're the Dom, just tell her "NO. You are not moving in with me, so get over it." She wants to move in now.....she hasn't answered any of Your questions.....why has she got You so over a barrel? Start thinking above the waist. Even if she is the hottest thing on earth You've ever seen, there are lots of pretty, submissive gals out there. Be the Dom and lay the law down, for REAL. IMO, she is probably trying to get a free ticket out of wherever she is now.....whether or not she actually starts living with You, she will probably ask You for the $$ to move with, that is if she hasn't already.

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RE: I have a delima. - 11/14/2009 12:50:51 PM

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quote:

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If this were a girl you were going to date, what would be your answer?

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What she said!

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RE: I have a delima. - 11/14/2009 12:52:54 PM

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I am waaaaaay farther down the life AND relationship path than you and this girl are and I still am not living with my partner. Why? He said no. That all changes soon, but for now that is the way it is. He has told me why that is as a matter of course, but it was none of my business to ask. I obey. Plain and simple. If not red flags of common sense, I do see red flags when it comes to being a good submissive partner.

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RE: I have a delima. - 11/14/2009 12:54:16 PM

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figure it out yourself

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RE: I have a delima. - 11/16/2009 12:33:43 AM

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Hello All,

I'm new but I think it's really love. Did anyone believe that at all? Anyone? Anyone at all?

Ok, sub demanding move in is fake or crazy or faking crazy.

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RE: I have a delima. - 11/16/2009 12:46:13 AM

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And helloo to you, Silentstyles, welcome.

As to the OP, I think everything has already been said.

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RE: I have a delima. - 11/16/2009 1:12:49 AM

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