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KateyCaine -> RE: Any way to deprogram myself so I am not into BSDM? (11/27/2009 4:15:22 PM)
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You can't force yourself to be something you are not. It would be like a gay person trying to make themselves straight; or a Japanese person wanting to be African......it doesn't work. Who you are is who you are - don't be afraid of it. Embrace your inherent nature. i spent years trying to "make myself" vanilla, i wanted to be anything except who i am. It didn't work, all i made myself was miserable, depressed and i hated myself all the time, using alcohol and uppers and eating disorders to make the misery stop.
Love yourself for who you are, i know that no one asks to be born the way they are, but don't hate yourself, it will only destroy you from the inside out.
Love and furriness,
katey :)
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