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Female doms/Mistreses - 3/12/2006 11:27:30 PM   
Mistressfeelgood


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Status: offline 		It seems that female slaves prefer having a male master. It is hard to find subs/slaves for a dominant female as I. Do you see this and why is it?

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RE: Female doms/Mistreses - 3/12/2006 11:55:42 PM   
subtlesubie


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It seems that female slaves prefer having a male master. It is hard to find subs/slaves for a dominant female as I. Do you see this and why is it?


I swear there is more phonies on this site everyday. Christ, if you are going to present an ersatz lesbian fantasy here dude, at least make fathomable. Or pleasant.

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RE: Female doms/Mistreses - 3/13/2006 2:42:31 AM   
Mistressfeelgood


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Status: offline 		Listen subtlesubie,
I dont know who you think you are or what authority you have in talking to me like that. It seems to me YOU'RE the phony. Now I just signed up on this thing yesterday and I dont know what and what not to say on these boards. Your not the one that is going to tell me either, got it?

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RE: Female doms/Mistreses - 3/13/2006 3:33:48 AM   
orfunboi


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Status: offline 		i think that is because there are more straight women on here, than lesbians. Give it a chance, there are a lot of us on here, most just don't talk much.

i personally would start going to local events and try to meet someone in real life. Just seems to make life much easier.

Welcome to the boards, try to ignore the wankers, and don't take ANYTHING anyone says personally. There are a lot of really great people on here, but being the internet, you will also get the losers.

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RE: Female doms/Mistreses - 3/13/2006 3:36:38 AM   
orfunboi


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Status: offline 		If you consider the OP a lesbian fantasy, you need to get some better books. i've seen hotter writing than that in the want ads.

Of course you have been on CM for 2 months, so i guess that makes you an expert on phonies, maybe if your profile was available, your post would make more sense but......

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RE: Female doms/Mistreses - 3/13/2006 4:03:39 AM   
Mistressfeelgood


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Status: offline 		Listen, thanks. As I said, I just did this and I wasn't sure what was ok and what wasn't as far as how graffic and that. Just did this on a whim, a friend told me it would be gret way to find a sub. I live in bumfuck Ky so finding it local isnt all that easy here. I guess they are approving my profile.

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RE: Female doms/Mistreses - 3/13/2006 4:12:33 AM   
Rayne58


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Status: offline 		orfunboi was referring to subtlesubie's profile which has disappeared for some reason, yours is perfectly visible

In reply to your post, I'm a bisexual femsub and have bottomed for a female Top before but never considered having a D/s relationship with one. I'm quite new to being out of the closet (two years) and I'm yet to explore this part of me in any great depth, but Master is quite happy for me to play with a Domme if I wish

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RE: Female doms/Mistreses - 3/13/2006 12:47:00 PM   
Submotive


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I swear there is more phonies on this site everyday. Christ, if you are going to present an ersatz lesbian fantasy here dude, at least make fathomable. Or pleasant.


Really? And you are who? where? what? - No where to be found. What, you just came on here to irritate us and then leave?

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RE: Female doms/Mistreses - 3/13/2006 1:01:31 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		I too am looking for a female sub to play with myself and my male sub. I had an offer from a Master but we couldn't work it out as he didnt want my male sub involved and that was a no go for me. But I keep up hope and I am certainly in no rush, if I don't meet someone here I will meet them somewhere else.

I think there are just more straight subs here, not so many bi/lesbian ones. Good luck in your search.

Lashra

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RE: Female doms/Mistreses - 3/14/2006 7:28:33 PM   
subrob1967


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Status: offline 		I'd say it's for the same reason that a lot of Domme's on here only want female partners, and not male submissives.

I can understand the Lesbian Domme's not wanting males, but every Bi Domme is looking for a female sub/slave.

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RE: Female doms/Mistreses - 3/14/2006 7:34:18 PM   
DragonNphoenix


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ORIGINAL: Mistressfeelgood

It seems that female slaves prefer having a male master. It is hard to find subs/slaves for a dominant female as I. Do you see this and why is it?



We have found that there are even less slaves that are willing to have a couple.]



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RE: Female doms/Mistreses - 3/14/2006 8:50:19 PM   
TeeGO


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ORIGINAL: Mistressfeelgood

Listen subtlesubie,
I dont know who you think you are or what authority you have in talking to me like that. It seems to me YOU'RE the phony...


This putz did the same thing to me. I accidently posted with my Domme's profile (we share the computer) and he starts in like I'm some sort of deviant (well, maybe I am but not the point here) that is posing as a female and a male. That annoyed me but to see him do it again to you tells me you hit the nail on the head, this putz is the phony.

Edited to note this was my magical post number 69.

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RE: Female doms/Mistreses - 3/14/2006 10:41:26 PM   
MarinaBlack


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ORIGINAL: Mistressfeelgood

...I live in bumfuck Ky so finding it local isnt all that easy here...



Hey, I live in downtown Toronto and connecting with a truly bisexual femsub (one who isn't just claiming bisexuality to please a male Top), or a lesbian sub (who isn't put off by the fact that I have married my boy) has not been happening for me either.:)

Perhaps there is a more appropriate venue for bi FemDommes or sites like this one could find a better way of "categorizing" profiles according to sexuality, etc.

Don't know about you, but I went through all the "bi femsub" profiles and at least 9 out of 10 either already had a male Top (and were seeking a "submissive sister") or were seeking a male Top.
Then why say you're bi?!?

Then the lesbian ones were crystal clear about not wanting to be anywhere near a cock or someone who uses one.

Oh, and many of them are really men posing as women - I have a surefire way to see if someone is posting fake pics.

Ok, I had a moment. Gonna have a smoke now.
Oh, btw, welcome to collarme.:)

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RE: Female doms/Mistreses - 3/15/2006 9:58:07 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Welcome to the boards. i am a straight female submissive but i know there are a few bi ones on here. i am sure you will find one that you click with just give it a little time.

Wish you luck.

Matt's littleone

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RE: Female doms/Mistreses - 3/15/2006 12:18:38 PM   
Mistressfeelgood


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Status: offline 		Well in my case, I am a lesbian Dom looking for a lesbian sub. I don't want the male involvment at all. Bisexual females, i couldn't trust that wouldn't happen.
I know of a lot of Dom/sub lesbian couples so they are out there. I just can't seem to run across any.
Thats why I asked the question of why do most want male doms? Even if they are bi. Is it the idea that a male is somehow blessed with more authority?

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RE: Female doms/Mistreses - 3/15/2006 1:25:45 PM   
GoddessDustyGold


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ORIGINAL: Mistressfeelgood

Thats why I asked the question of why do most want male doms? Even if they are bi. Is it the idea that a male is somehow blessed with more authority?


Welcome to the boards...
I don't think so. It is purely as longer term sexual preference. I think a lot of bisexuality is more about being sexually attracted to both genders, and acting on that attraction comfortably with a same sex partner. But for a 24/7 long term, and/or committed relationship, it has been My experience that a bi-sexual female will prefer a male. Doesn't matter if they are Dom or sub. And nothing to do with more or less authority.
So you may have no problem finding some occasional playmates, but you will need to dig for a while to find the lady for your full time relationship.
I have received mail from quite a few lesbian submissives. It may take longer, but there is also a place where people can check if they are willing to relocate. Check out any functions that might be close enough for you to get to IRT, and widen your net on the net.
Hell, I am just looking for a straight male submissive/slave, and I have problems! *Smile* Patience!

< Message edited by GoddessDustyGold -- 3/15/2006 1:27:07 PM >

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RE: Female doms/Mistreses - 3/15/2006 2:27:29 PM   
tendergirl


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Status: offline 		I am a female sub to a male Dom. I am that because I am heterosexual. I am not a lesbian, that is why I do not want a female Domme.

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I also think the below signature on your first post might be slightly offputting if you don't mind me saying so. You also come across a tad bit aggressive. So perhaps your approach needs revision. I forget who on here keeps saying this, but it is true " I am a submissive but not YOUR submissive". Some Doms/Dommes think that all submissives will bow down to them, for me, not a chance.


I want your hot piss pouring over my snatch, Drink your juice. Drink blood from your neck after I slit the skin with my knife. Pull handfulls of hair as I fuckyour ass till it bleeds with my strap on! Mistressfeelgoods signature

< Message edited by tendergirl -- 3/15/2006 2:33:11 PM >

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RE: Female doms/Mistreses - 3/15/2006 6:07:44 PM   
Mistressfeelgood


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Status: offline 		I appologize tendergirl, that you may think me a bit aggressive or that I may put people off in your opinion. However, I can't be someone else besides myself.

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RE: Female doms/Mistreses - 3/16/2006 1:08:02 AM   
Isara


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mistressfeelgood

It seems that female slaves prefer having a male master. It is hard to find subs/slaves for a dominant female as I. Do you see this and why is it?


I can't speak as a submissive, but I know I'm more emotionally attracted-at least generally to females and physically attracted to men. Searching will take time, finding someone wonderful and gaining a D/S relationship doesn't happen overnight, it takes time and work and I wish you the best of luck.

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RE: Female doms/Mistreses - 3/16/2006 6:07:31 AM   
tendergirl


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Status: offline 		All I am saying is that as a female submissive, that signature would have worried me.

It was just a suggestion, not a criticism of who you are. For every pot there is a lid, your's is out there somewhere.

love from tendergirl

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