RE: Is this what Dom's really think? (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Master



Message


theroebabe -> RE: Is this what Dom's really think? (9/26/2004 2:50:14 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TheSadisticOne

the question should be, roe, why do you wish to approach a relationship as if the submissive is a clean slate with NO history...


LOL ok someone is getting confused and it could be me, but my history has taught me to be very literal when dealing with doms. So i took it as if the person was a lump not molded a very literal sense versus an artistic one. Hence the discourse in this conversation.

quote:

ORIGINAL: TheSadisticOne
you stated that you understand that this is what submissive natures do, so why the continuing confusion . . . draw a deep breath roe . . . put away the angst . . . I don't want to 'unmake' anyone . . . I do impose My will on the 'grand design' of My submissive . . . if that path is not for her . . . she will find My door has no locks.


Each dom leaves a mark of some sort with a submissive after they have been together for a while, it is the normal part of growing and learning we all so. Hopefully they dont leave too many landmines for the next one to step on. PS my angst is gone, LOL none required on this conversation as i mentioned previously it must have been the phase of the moon when i read the original profile and did not laugh at this wretch's ideas.




TheSadisticOne -> RE: Is this what Dom's really think? (9/26/2004 4:04:42 PM)

quote:

PS my angst is gone, LOL none required on this conversation as i mentioned previously it must have been the phase of the moon when i read the original profile and did not laugh at this wretch's ideas.


good to hear roe . . . I understand. make a note of the moons 'phase schedule' for future post . . . *smiles*. as for the wretch . . . he is harmless...the 'toothless barking dog' that eventually is tuned out by all . . .

be well . . .




Temji -> RE: Is this what Dom's really think? (10/9/2004 2:09:02 PM)

greetings...

~is the Owner of stormi... and simply chuckles...~

be well,

Temji KnightStorm




DiamondDiva -> RE: Is this what Dom's really think? (10/13/2004 10:36:46 AM)

People like that have issues and I place very little energy into their existence.




ehlovindom -> RE: Is this what Dom's really think? (10/16/2004 7:56:06 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: theroebabe


So to all all out there, besides my opinion of this ahem person, not being very high, what do you think?


Um, that it isn't worth my time to comment on such a classless human being?

"Better to remain silent and thought to be a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt." (Mark Twain)




IservBlkKingPaPa -> RE: Is this what Dom's really think? (10/17/2004 1:52:28 PM)

This "man" has only exposed himself as an insecure jerk. this slave doesnt feel people like that are an issue because they wear thier stupidity like a sign around thier necks thats says:
"I AM A JERK DO NOT TALK TO ME!!"


@}PaPa's}slave}--
Every Rose has her Thorns...




theroebabe -> RE: Is this what Dom's really think? (10/17/2004 5:49:53 PM)

HEY V!

Well it seems that i was affected by the moon or the hormones and whatever else i can blame it on by not looking at this little man that popped up on my screen unbidden and the fact that i did not snort and guffaw at his ahem "ad" was my faux pas. some days it just doesnt pay to gnaw thru the straps as they say!




realophelia -> RE: Is this what Dom's really think? (10/17/2004 7:40:21 PM)

quote:

"Some things I despise are smart mouthed, loud women that seem to think they need to prove they are brighter than the men they are around. My opinion is that they don't know their place."

The profile went on to say something about the men being whipped by this type of woman, blah blah.

So to all all out there, besides my opinion of this ahem person, not being very high, what do you think?


I don't like the idea of a Dom who despises women (of any description). Makes me wonder why he's here? I hope he's not looking to SHOW someone their place.

Take care :)
Ophelia







Kinkypupper -> RE: Is this what Dom's really think? (11/1/2004 11:01:15 AM)

No it is indeed not.
One of the wonderful things about this "lifestyle" is that we are ALL different and all are seeking someone "compatable". We also are very accepting of others and their differences.

There are many colors of '"gray" and its just that this ones "perception" is as they write it.
There is a "match" for them as there are for all of us.





TaurusMCMLVIII -> RE: Is this what Dom's really think? (11/4/2004 12:05:37 PM)

quote:

"Some things I despise are smart mouthed, loud women that seem to think they need to prove they are brighter than the men they are around. My opinion is that they don't know their place."

The profile went on to say something about the men being whipped by this type of woman, blah blah.

So to all all out there, besides my opinion of this ahem person, not being very high, what do you think?


This is a rhetorical question, right? There are a lot of mentally and socially-challenged people in the world. The internet seems to have made them more visible.




theroebabe -> RE: Is this what Dom's really think? (11/4/2004 5:51:34 PM)

Yes and every once in a while their profile pops up on my screen and normally i laugh but some days it just gets to ya!




subbreaker -> RE: Is this what Dom's really think? (12/11/2004 1:26:23 AM)

An intelligent woman can make her needs known without putting down the man. I also have seen profiles here from females who seem to take delight at putting men down as well as "slaves" who tell ME how they can serve based on what others have taught her. As a master I believe that any sub has the right to pick and choose BUT if she holds contempt for men that don't fit HER ideas of what a Master should be then shouldn't she be held in contempt by those very same men?
We all have ideas of what we want in a relationship and we should not be ready to condem others because they might be more or less then what WE desire. I know many females and males who just want a sub in the bedroom while others want a total commitment based on trust and total enslavement. A polite "no thank you" is usually the best way to fend off anyone you are not interested in but it does seem that most usually just read and ignore emails.




theroebabe -> RE: Is this what Dom's really think? (12/11/2004 5:48:44 AM)


Yes it seems that for some manners have gone out the window. I do feel pretty strongly that this to me, is NOT my idea of a dominant for me. Nor do i think it is something a dom should be. I guess for me it is calling himself a dominant which bothers me more than his likes and wants. There is someone for everyone and thats great as long as they are happy and healthy. I am not sure that this person was either.

But from a subs point of view, i can understand the rudeness when people send emails and will not take no for an answer, although i try also to answer every email sent with a polite reply.





Nvernilla -> RE: Is this what Dom's really think? (12/11/2004 10:47:38 PM)

Sounds to me like he has self esteem issues...Mike




srahfox -> RE: Is this what Dom's really think? (12/14/2004 9:06:26 AM)

Really that's how I see it. Weither it's that he wants someone to walk all over, or he has somekind of insecurity, at least now we know he's a jerk and can avoid him. If everyone would be as blunt about who they are in their profiles, life would be easier.




wetrope -> RE: Is this what Dom's really think? (12/15/2004 1:28:54 PM)

Think I'll cling to my 10 foot pole.




Jasmyn -> RE: Is this what Dom's really think? (12/15/2004 8:16:22 PM)

quote:

"Some things I despise are smart mouthed, loud women that seem to think they need to prove they are brighter than the men they are around. My opinion is that they don't know their place."

The profile went on to say something about the men being whipped by this type of woman, blah blah.



He reminds Me of men who try to tell Me I just havent found a 'real man' and I should sub to them...pfft...bit like men who say all a lesbian needs is a 'real man' or a bit of cock...charmers some of them...fools all of them. I tend to find Myself dumbing Myself down when around men like this...for fear of making them look inferior in front of their female subs..but by christ if they say something stupid or do something to piss Me off I'll put them in their place. ...sub around or not.

Jasmyn




theroebabe -> RE: Is this what Dom's really think? (12/16/2004 3:08:31 PM)


I have come to realize that there are so many like this out there it is a shame really and so easy to spot for the most part. and yes i do not put up with that BS like one who insisted i call him to confirm i was a woman when he wasnt looking, like um no kiss my fat ass!





MC2044 -> RE: Is this what Dom's really think? (12/17/2004 5:34:27 PM)

Is this what Dom's really think? Maybe some, but definitely not all. Personally such comments smack of shallow, insecure, weak, wannabes. Actually, smart mouthed, loud women can be great fun and wonderful submissives.




theroebabe -> RE: Is this what Dom's really think? (12/18/2004 6:12:03 AM)


I think so as i am one in some ways i can be very smart at times but mostly in fun, and then it can turn into serious fun. ahhhhhhh the good old days lol.





Page: <<   < prev  1 2 [3] 4   next >   >>

Valid CSS!




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy
0.03125