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mikeyOfGeorgia -> RE: Is there a difference between being a submissive and a slave (2/22/2010 10:47:09 AM)

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Is there a difference between being a submissive and a slave?


yeah, a submissive can tell a Dominant where to get off, while a slave can only dream of it...LOL




sleepingbeauty2 -> RE: Is there a difference between being a submissive and a slave (2/22/2010 7:47:30 PM)


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ORIGINAL: shinylight7

A slave= you consent once. After that it's either do or leave.
A sub=you consent each and every time. You have a choice in what happens to you.

I Disagree!

A slave is a servant who has consented to being treated lowly. A slave is weak.
A sub gives service from his/her heart all the time every time. A sub is strong.



Sorry but this sounds quite retarded to me.




sleepingbeauty2 -> RE: Is there a difference between being a submissive and a slave (2/22/2010 7:56:51 PM)

I think that you can actually be both. I feel being a slave is a natural extension of being a submissive. If was with someone who did not want to be Master, I could be submissive with but if someone wanted to extend it further I would be able to adapt to that. I think the challenge is in the harder of the two, which of course is being a slave. That is why I think that the person who said a slave is weak is an idiot. It is MUCH harder!




Smutmonger -> RE: Is there a difference between being a submissive and a slave (2/22/2010 7:57:36 PM)

Intent.




stella41b -> RE: Is there a difference between being a submissive and a slave (2/22/2010 8:18:18 PM)

Submissives have tighter orifices as they haven't been subject to as much extended usage as slaves.




NihilusZero -> RE: Is there a difference between being a submissive and a slave (2/22/2010 9:12:34 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sleepingbeauty2

Sorry but this sounds quite retarded to me.

Which may be why the user totaled 5 posts since 2009.




mikeyOfGeorgia -> RE: Is there a difference between being a submissive and a slave (2/22/2010 9:30:55 PM)

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Is there a difference between being a submissive and a slave


about $30,000 a year...LOL




Smutmonger -> RE: Is there a difference between being a submissive and a slave (2/22/2010 10:15:09 PM)


Maybe even more-if you get the slave the right sort of education.

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ORIGINAL: mikeyOfGeorgia

quote:

Is there a difference between being a submissive and a slave


about $30,000 a year...LOL






graceadieu -> RE: Is there a difference between being a submissive and a slave (2/23/2010 6:05:57 AM)

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ORIGINAL: mikeyOfGeorgia

yeah, a submissive can tell a Dominant where to get off, while a slave can only dream of it...LOL



I don't think anybody - sub, slave or vanilla - could tell their partner to "where to get off" without it having a serious impact on the relationship.




mikeyOfGeorgia -> RE: Is there a difference between being a submissive and a slave (2/23/2010 6:14:12 AM)

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ORIGINAL: graceadieu

quote:

ORIGINAL: mikeyOfGeorgia

yeah, a submissive can tell a Dominant where to get off, while a slave can only dream of it...LOL



I don't think anybody - sub, slave or vanilla - could tell their partner to "where to get off" without it having a serious impact on the relationship.


it was a joke, silly [:-]




whiteslavebitch -> RE: Is there a difference between being a submissive and a slave (2/23/2010 11:27:01 AM)


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ORIGINAL: QueenPenelope

To me it seems that a submissive has limits and will not do or tolerate certain things. But a slave will not have any limits and will tolerate anything. Is that true and can someone elaborate more on the differences between the two for me?
-Queen Penelope 


Not necessarily. I have limits that were discussed when we met, before we became M/s.
They are still in place now, almost 5 years later. All of my limits except one are also his, he would like to do that one, and I have been recently reconsidering it because I don't like holding anything away from him that he desires.

He still considers me to be his slave even with this limit in place.




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