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ORIGINAL: retox22 
So as a woman, Do you see a man that wants strap-on play and cum eating less of a man? And in your opinion. Is strap-on play different than anal play IE.  Is having a toy strapped to your body that much of a differnce than useing a toy by hand? I understand the phisical is different but I am looking for the mental part of it.

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ORIGINAL: LPslittleclip
you may like to try a feldoe dildoe for female to male play as it helps to stimulate her as well and no straps.

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ORIGINAL: Ladynslave

Another thread in this section mentioned that strap on play was looked upon by Dommes as the the Domme serving the sub.  I never thought of it that way until that moment.  I was under the impression that a sub surrendering his ass was the ultimate form of trust and surrender.  I guess that is just one of the many ways that my thinking more like a man than a woman shows up.  Slave also enjoys strap on play and I provide it for him when he has been a very good boy.  It started in our regular relationship when he wanted to perform anal on me.  While I am quite sure that a lightbulb did not actually appear above my head, it occured to me that if he wanted me to experience that, he should be willing to do so first.  He found the idea exciting as well.  So when the issue of me eating his cum came up, same thoughts went racing.  Now we enjoy both fairly regularly.  I don't think less of him as a man because of either of these things or many more that you are probably not into.  I think more of him because he was comfortable enough with me to express these desires.  As the prostate is the male version of the g-spot, I am surprised that more men don't do this with their women, vanilla or BDSM.  It really is too bad that society labels so often get in the way of some amazing sexual experiences.

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ORIGINAL: Underumam

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ORIGINAL: Ladynslave

Another thread in this section mentioned that strap on play was looked upon by Dommes as the the Domme serving the sub.  I never thought of it that way until that moment.  I was under the impression that a sub surrendering his ass was the ultimate form of trust and surrender.  I guess that is just one of the many ways that my thinking more like a man than a woman shows up.  Slave also enjoys strap on play and I provide it for him when he has been a very good boy.  It started in our regular relationship when he wanted to perform anal on me.  While I am quite sure that a lightbulb did not actually appear above my head, it occured to me that if he wanted me to experience that, he should be willing to do so first.  He found the idea exciting as well.  So when the issue of me eating his cum came up, same thoughts went racing.  Now we enjoy both fairly regularly.  I don't think less of him as a man because of either of these things or many more that you are probably not into.  I think more of him because he was comfortable enough with me to express these desires.  As the prostate is the male version of the g-spot, I am surprised that more men don't do this with their women, vanilla or BDSM.  It really is too bad that society labels so often get in the way of some amazing sexual experiences.

I guess it's different for everyone, but for me, it IS the ultimate surrender and trust.

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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

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ORIGINAL: Underumam

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ORIGINAL: Ladynslave

Another thread in this section mentioned that strap on play was looked upon by Dommes as the the Domme serving the sub.  I never thought of it that way until that moment.  I was under the impression that a sub surrendering his ass was the ultimate form of trust and surrender.  I guess that is just one of the many ways that my thinking more like a man than a woman shows up.  Slave also enjoys strap on play and I provide it for him when he has been a very good boy.  It started in our regular relationship when he wanted to perform anal on me.  While I am quite sure that a lightbulb did not actually appear above my head, it occured to me that if he wanted me to experience that, he should be willing to do so first.  He found the idea exciting as well.  So when the issue of me eating his cum came up, same thoughts went racing.  Now we enjoy both fairly regularly.  I don't think less of him as a man because of either of these things or many more that you are probably not into.  I think more of him because he was comfortable enough with me to express these desires.  As the prostate is the male version of the g-spot, I am surprised that more men don't do this with their women, vanilla or BDSM.  It really is too bad that society labels so often get in the way of some amazing sexual experiences.

I guess it's different for everyone, but for me, it IS the ultimate surrender and trust.

*Wanker Alert*

For me and mine it is right up there with him drinking my pee, as the ultimate form of surrender. I don't use a strap-on, though. I use my hands. I need to be inside him. I use a spreader bar to keep his ankles wide apart, or just have him spread his legs for me.... put him face down, and I use him to my heart's content. He is to remain still and quiet for me while I stroke his prostate and murmur to him that he is a hole for my use, and that is all... I may have him stroke My cock to orgasm, or I may have him keep his hands down in a set position, while just milk him... I may continue on long after he wishes it would be over, because I like to take my time and pay a lot of attention there. Control, humiliation and objectification are my kinks, so ass play is a lovely part of that... MMmmmm...