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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/29/2009 7:56:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

This is not about me, I am speaking of the average slave on here behaving like a hooligan.
again...you have been voicing the same complaint throughout this thread.


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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/29/2009 8:08:09 AM   
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Status: offline 		So what? Well maybe you could explain what it benefits one to behave like a hooligan while listing as submissive or slave and why users having a different opinion are put away as imbeciles lacking balls and brains. If your definition of a slave resembles the definition of hooligan and others reject it does not mean they order you to behave as their definition but that they have a different opinion, which is fine. It does not make them objects to kick against.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/29/2009 8:14:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		So just ignore them. I cannot imagine going through life so upset over people I will never meet. I'd rather interact with those people I enjoy interacting with and not pay attention to those who upset me. But the choice is yours Eigenaar.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/29/2009 8:18:08 AM   
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ORIGINAL: moutas

A long while ago I put down here a little text and there were a little inexactitude about myself and I saw a flight of aggressive slaves(?) to destroy all my thought and all the interest of the subject...?
They don't hesit to break the general meaning...
I wonder what is the subtility of this behavior?
Very often I see that same behavior here with other topics.
I wonder why slave girls think that here it is "Gunfight at the O.K. Corral"?
I also wonder if they merit the name "slave"!
Sorry, I like subtle and tactful slaves…!



If they aren't your slaves why do you care? I personally admire subs or slaves that have the ability to use their mind and speak up for themselves. Slave does not mean one cannot think or have opinions for themselves. I am a slave but I am also fiesty, assertive and able to take care of myself and that is what Master loves about me. He wants a slave that has personality and intelligence.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/29/2009 8:21:27 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

So what? Well maybe you could explain what it benefits one to behave like a hooligan while listing as submissive or slave
. I have no clue, as i do not behave like a hooligan, nor do i see too many that do.
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and why users having a different opinion are put away as imbeciles lacking balls and brains.
No hon...it is not users who have a different opinion that are treated as imbeciles lacking balls and brains. Rather...it is those who present as clueless urberdoms, who strut their silly ass, pound their silly chest, and demand respect because they slap a Master banner where their balls should be.

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If your definition of a slave resembles the definition of hooligan and others reject it
My definition of a slave is who and what i am. It is personal and private and not up for criticism or comment by you. Nor is it up for rejection by you. If you feel i am a hooligan because i do not kiss ass, do not keep my mouth shut, do not refrain from speaking my mind, and/or anything else you find offensive to your Masterly mind-set....might i say: tough?!!!

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/29/2009 8:23:04 AM   
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Status: offline 		I am not upset, I notice this ungoing behaviour of ridiculing other users in these threads, spelling out things for them like they don't understand when all they have is an opinion and this thread is about the undesired behaviour of slaves. Telling users to let things go and leave a thread is as belittling.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/29/2009 8:28:40 AM   
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Status: offline 		You don't get a word I say. You can call yourself slave and kill dominants for my part, what I mean is I don't have to agree and not sharing your view does not mean people don't have a brain or balls.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/29/2009 8:37:14 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

I am not upset, I notice this ungoing behaviour of ridiculing other users in these threads, spelling out things for them like they don't understand when all they have is an opinion and this thread is about the undesired behaviour of slaves. Telling users to let things go and leave a thread is as belittling.


Again, ignore and/or block....


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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/29/2009 8:41:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think the problem is that you see yourself as a dominant, whereas other people just see you as a person.

Let me clarify by using an example with which I am familar. My job requires that I clean up virus and spyware infected computers. In the course of doing my job I have run across more than a few minors (under 18) who have profiles up on various websites with screen names that have slave, or master in their title. One of those young men was a regular on a chat site I used to visit.. which I never knew until I cleaned up his computer and saw the login name. That kid, who I always found to be a blowhard ass, seemed to be great at hooking up with "slaves" in the chat room who would fall for his brand of dominance. In his head and theirs, he was dominant. In my head he was just a blowhard ass who I often put on block because he was an ill-mannered idiot in my view. I saw him as an idiot long before I found out he was a minor.

He claimed to be a master. Some believed him, some did not.

See.. online, people can claim what ever title they wish. It MIGHT be true, or it might not be. What is true is that we are all humans. I don't expect people to act a certain way to me based on some title I might identify with. I don't treat anyone better or worse based on their self imposed title. For me, they are just human as am I. And humans will react in a variety of ways of which I have no control.

The best advice I have seen in this tread was from Zephyr
[So just ignore them. I cannot imagine going through life so upset over people I will never meet. I'd rather interact with those people I enjoy interacting with and not pay attention to those who upset me.]

quote:

ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

I am not upset, I notice this ungoing behaviour of ridiculing other users in these threads, spelling out things for them like they don't understand when all they have is an opinion and this thread is about the undesired behaviour of slaves. Telling users to let things go and leave a thread is as belittling.


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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/29/2009 8:53:33 AM   
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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/29/2009 9:41:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Missokyst
The best advice I have seen in this tread was from Zephyr
[So just ignore them.]
What exactly do you mean with ignoring who? I now and then give my opinion in these threads, it is what we all do, after which it is not unlikely to be called names and be confronted with strangers shouting everything you say is bs, supported by a herd of adepts repeating what the first hooligan said. It is this behaviour I do not understand. This thread is about slaves but most dominants on here behave the same. They think you mean they should adopt your different view and vigorously defend their unfounded visions they in return try to shove down other's throats.

What I am trying to get across is that these threads are meant to exchange thoughts and broaden one's mind. I think most would agree on this. Due to the behaviour of the majority of users acting like unguided missiles calling one's words donkey poo and posting threads saying ''whuohahahahahahaha'' users with a brain will be less and less triggered to share their view.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/29/2009 9:46:18 AM   
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What exactly do you mean with ignoring who?


Ignore the slaves who piss you off with their behavior, although I really don't think there are all that many. I mean really "herds"? If someone says something that pisses me off, I ignore and move on.  My offline life is stressful enough, when I come here it's to chat with people I like. So when I encounter someone who makes me stressed, I just ignore their comments.  It really isn't that difficult.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/29/2009 9:50:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

quote:

ORIGINAL: Missokyst
The best advice I have seen in this tread was from Zephyr
[So just ignore them.]
What exactly do you mean with ignoring who? I now and then give my opinion in these threads, it is what we all do, after which it is not unlikely to be called names and be confronted with strangers shouting everything you say is bs, supported by a herd of adepts repeating what the first hooligan said. It is this behaviour I do not understand. This thread is about slaves but most dominants on here behave the same. They think you mean they should adopt your different view and vigorously defend their unfounded visions they in return try to shove down other's throats.

What I am trying to get across is that these threads are meant to exchange thoughts and broaden one's mind. I think most would agree on this. Due to the behaviour of the majority of users acting like unguided missiles calling one's words donkey poo and posting threads saying ''whuohahahahahahaha'' users with a brain will be less and less triggered to share their view.


it very much helps if you read responses. I asked a clarifying question.. and ya ignored me, to repeat what you'd already said..

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/29/2009 9:50:34 AM   
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Due to the behaviour of the majority of users acting like unguided missiles


Again, doubtful. The majority of people I've seen on these boards are polite. They don't always agree with what I say and vice versa but that can result in a really great convo. Anyway we seem to just be going round and round and it's time to stop. Obviously you believe what you believe and I can keep saying it's not so until I'm blue in the face, you aren't going to change your view that there are so many nasty slaves who dare have an opinion of their own so I'm stopping here. There is a limit to how much energy I'm willing to put into this and I've reached it.


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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/29/2009 9:59:22 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

You don't get a word I say. You can call yourself slave and kill dominants
and you do not get what i am saying. I call myself a slave/owned BY ONE. To everyone else, i am Holly. I am not a sub/slave in any way unless it involves him. Do you understand that?
quote:


I don't have to agree and not sharing your view does not mean people don't have a brain or balls.
i don't give a dead rats ass if you share my opinion or agree with me. The issue i have with you is how you have presented yourself : "I call myself a Master/Dom and how DARE a slave disagree with me??!!??"


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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/29/2009 10:06:42 AM   
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? I now and then give my opinion in these threads, it is what we all do, after which it is not unlikely to be called names and be confronted with strangers shouting everything you say is bs, supported by a herd of adepts repeating what the first hooligan said.


Damnit...now i'm confused. Who are the adepts and who are the hooligans???

Zeph...if you get the hooligan title and i don't, i am gonna kick your skinny ass!

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What I am trying to get across is that these threads are meant to exchange thoughts and broaden one's mind. I think most would agree on this. Due to the behaviour of the majority of users acting like unguided missiles calling one's words donkey poo and posting threads saying ''whuohahahahahahaha'' users with a brain will be less and less triggered to share their view.


Dude...with all due respect...if you want to exchange ideas, do so! But allow me to tell you, when you start the urberdom crap that no sub/slave should disagree with you because you call yourself a Dom...all bets are off and you are going to find yourself ducking some shit.


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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/29/2009 10:10:22 AM   
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Zeph...if you get the hooligan title and i don't, i am gonna kick your skinny ass!


Holly just for calling my ass skinny you can have the hooligan title


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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/29/2009 10:15:08 AM   
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ORIGINAL: onlyfreelycaged
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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

No matter how you put it I don't think much of an owner allowing his slave to offend people without being provoked by the addressed. If this makes more sense. And this happens all the time in these threads.

So.. what you're saying is that if a slave offends someone without being provoked, it speaks poorly for the master?
But, I offend people every single day. Just because I'm a woman who works. I have male friends. Sometimes.. hell when I was a slave, just being a slave is offensive to people.
so... what you're saying is that I can't be a good slave unless I give up my job, and loose the male friends? .. wait to do that, I wouldn't be able to be a slave..


it very much helps if you read responses. I asked a clarifying question.. and ya ignored me, to repeat what you'd already said..
I did read your response and did not reply because I took it for a rhetorical question not having to do with what I said but more with you projecting a person on me I do not identify with.
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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

i don't give a dead rats ass if you share my opinion or agree with me. The issue i have with you is how you have presented yourself : "I call myself a Master/Dom and how DARE a slave disagree with me??!!??"

That is your interpretation, not what I said.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/29/2009 10:30:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

i don't give a dead rats ass if you share my opinion or agree with me. The issue i have with you is how you have presented yourself : "I call myself a Master/Dom and how DARE a slave disagree with me??!!??"

quote:

That is your interpretation, not what I said.

your exact words....
quote:

It is rediculous that a slave would even think of publicly questioning the words of a dominant





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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/29/2009 10:40:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sirsholly




quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

i don't give a dead rats ass if you share my opinion or agree with me. The issue i have with you is how you have presented yourself : "I call myself a Master/Dom and how DARE a slave disagree with me??!!??"

quote:

That is your interpretation, not what I said.

your exact words....
quote:

It is rediculous that a slave would even think of publicly questioning the words of a dominant




It really is not the same, dudette.

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