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DemonKia -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/29/2009 10:42:20 AM)

Eigenaar, my experience is that you project stuff onto the other posters & then profess confusion when they don't agree with you . . . . So the following quote of yours seems very pertinent to how you have been interacting with these boards . . .

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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

I did read your response and did not reply because I took it for a rhetorical question not having to do with what I said but more with you projecting a person on me I do not identify with.


& this, too, seemed so pertinent to your experience of these boards as hostile to you:

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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

That is your interpretation....


The only thing I can ever change is my interpretation, my perspective. I find that to be a powerful tool. I suggest you strive to see the postings of these message boards as an opportunity to practice seeing things from many different points of view.




Eigenaar -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/29/2009 10:51:37 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DemonKia

Eigenaar, my experience is that you project stuff onto the other posters & then profess confusion when they don't agree with you . . . . So the following quote of yours seems very pertinent to how you have been interacting with these boards . . .

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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

I did read your response and did not reply because I took it for a rhetorical question not having to do with what I said but more with you projecting a person on me I do not identify with.


& this, too, seemed so pertinent to your experience of these boards as hostile to you:

quote:

ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

That is your interpretation....


The only thing I can ever change is my interpretation, my perspective. I find that to be a powerful tool. I suggest you strive to see the postings of these message boards as an opportunity to practice seeing things from many different points of view.
It is not a secret you like to psychoanalyse users on the boards while blocking them for messaging you only once without ill-manners but you really have to come with something more substantial than this.




zephyroftheNorth -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/29/2009 10:59:14 AM)

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It is not a secret you like to psychoanalyse users on the boards while blocking them for messaging you only once without ill-manners but you really have to come with something more substantial than this.


It's also no secret that she tends to be right. I'm assuming that you are talking about having messaged her and that she blocked you afterwards. Well knowing Kia as I do, I SUSPECT that she didn't block you for no good reason and that your message (if indeed there was one) was probably not quite so abuse-free.




starshineowned -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/29/2009 11:14:58 AM)

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ORIGINAL: moutas

Most of the rules in this Protocol are fairly standard in the modern Master/slave tradition

Extension of the Master. The slave should always remember that she is an extension, reflection, and representative of her Master, and behave accordingly. In all ways, she should strive to make her actions reflect well upon herself, her Master, and upon Master/slave relationships in general.

Greetings..This is fairly close to how Master views things for us and his home. It is the base foundation where as the remainder of quoted section is considered personalized preference areas of the Master/Mistress.

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Respect and Courtesy.
The slave shall be courteous and respectful to all people, at all times, in demeanor, words, and actions.
In fact, the slave should not argue with anyone. If the slave has a difference of opinion with someone, the slave should discuss the difference in calm, respectful tones. The slave should never raise her voice in a discussion. If she finds herself unable to refrain from doing so, she should excuse herself from the discussion until she calms down.
The slave should strive to never directly contradict anyone. If the slave believes that someone is in error, or is pursuing an unwise course of action, the slave should express her disagreement non-confrontationally.


In conjunction with this segment though also comes a primary aspect from the Master/Mistress, and for this household are not separated..that being if the Master/Mistress has issues with a slaves behavior..they address the owner and not the extension there of..Which ultimately supports the 1st segment of this quoted section.

About the best that can come from exchanges like this is you find a few souls that carry similar views and understandings as you do, and go from there.

starshine






Eigenaar -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/29/2009 11:18:21 AM)

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ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

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It is not a secret you like to psychoanalyse users on the boards while blocking them for messaging you only once without ill-manners but you really have to come with something more substantial than this.


It's also no secret that she tends to be right. I'm assuming that you are talking about having messaged her and that she blocked you afterwards. Well knowing Kia as I do, I SUSPECT that she didn't block you for no good reason and that your message (if indeed there was one) was probably not quite so abuse-free.

I will take your advice and ignore you from now on because of your behaviour.




zephyroftheNorth -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/29/2009 11:24:45 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

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ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

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It is not a secret you like to psychoanalyse users on the boards while blocking them for messaging you only once without ill-manners but you really have to come with something more substantial than this.


It's also no secret that she tends to be right. I'm assuming that you are talking about having messaged her and that she blocked you afterwards. Well knowing Kia as I do, I SUSPECT that she didn't block you for no good reason and that your message (if indeed there was one) was probably not quite so abuse-free.

I will take your advice and ignore you from now on because of your behaviour.


Go right ahead..I was trying to be helpful, please show me where I said anything that would warrant blocking...this post however confirms that those slaves aren't nasty they just disagree with you. It also confirms that what I said about you being blocked by Kia because of a nasty message.




LaTigresse -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/29/2009 1:28:15 PM)

Good gawd, some people really are quite clueless aren't they?!?!




zephyroftheNorth -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/29/2009 1:29:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Good gawd, some people really are quite clueless aren't they?!?!


And here I was thinking I had hidden it well [:D][:D]




sirsholly -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/29/2009 1:31:04 PM)

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ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Good gawd, some people really are quite clueless aren't they?!?!


And here I was thinking I had hidden it well [:D][:D]

you can't buffalo LaT...she is a mom.




GoddessImaginos -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/29/2009 1:32:00 PM)

Hi zeph, hast thou a new chew toy for Me..? Do I need to bring condiments? Some broken glass, perhaps?
[sm=argue.gif][sm=banghead.gif][sm=boxer.gif][sm=club.gif]




zephyroftheNorth -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/29/2009 1:32:19 PM)

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you can't buffalo LaT...she is a mom.


I can see that....damn why did she have to post, I was doing so well [>:]




zephyroftheNorth -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/29/2009 1:34:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: GoddessImaginos

Hi zeph, hast thou a new chew toy for Me..? Do I need to bring condiments? Some broken glass, perhaps?
[sm=argue.gif][sm=banghead.gif][sm=boxer.gif][sm=club.gif]


Sorry but no....apparently I chewed him right up and there's nothing left. If only you had said something earlier [sm=dunno.gif]




sirsholly -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/29/2009 1:34:34 PM)

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ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

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you can't buffalo LaT...she is a mom.


I can see that....damn why did she have to post, I was doing so well [>:]

you...you...hooligan!!!




zephyroftheNorth -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/29/2009 1:36:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

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ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

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you can't buffalo LaT...she is a mom.


I can see that....damn why did she have to post, I was doing so well [>:]

you...you...hooligan!!!


I...I...I'm sorry *starts to cry*




LaTigresse -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/29/2009 1:38:06 PM)

I have to say I have always adored the word 'hooligan' myself. It's very....grandmotherly.

"settle down you little hooligans!!!"




sirsholly -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/29/2009 1:41:28 PM)

*nods*

personally...i have always appreciated "tart".






LaTigresse -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/29/2009 1:43:06 PM)

'Tart' is lovely also, very fruity. I do not recall my grandmother using it except to describe a flavour. I think she was a tart behind closed doors though.




AquaticSub -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/29/2009 1:49:07 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

Coming back to this thread I would like to know why users would call themselves slaves and are called property by their owners when the majority of users in this thread agree a slave can offend and foul-mouth and belittle and make fun of others without restraint and without any foundation other than that users who think differently are idiots and should be called names and relocate their balls for having an opinion. I would not even consider a vanilla partner behaving like the current slaves on here.


Well that's your problem isn't it?

Frankly, you have still failed to point out where anyone insulted you before your racist and disgusting comments. Any wrath you have faced, you earned. The fact that you can't accept it speaks badly for you as a dominant and master.




sirsholly -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/29/2009 1:49:49 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

'Tart' is lovely also, very fruity. I do not recall my grandmother using it except to describe a flavour. I think she was a tart behind closed doors though.
you hooligans were peeking through the keyhole...weren't ya???




LaTigresse -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/29/2009 1:54:23 PM)


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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

'Tart' is lovely also, very fruity. I do not recall my grandmother using it except to describe a flavour. I think she was a tart behind closed doors though.
you hooligans were peeking through the keyhole...weren't ya???



Oh good god no!! I will not even allow myself to imagine that visual!




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