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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar
I only meant I would not tolerate the behaviour most on here demonstrate from a slave under my wing. I in my naïvety thought you would understand this.

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After his "boy" comment, I'm beginning to think he got the "old women in the street" thing from some idea that is some sort of sport that black men participate in.

Eigenaar, that was uncalled for, and makes any valid points you might have had difficult to focus on.

People of all colours can call me as they like and I can not, apparently. You are the one making false racist accusations here.

I tried to help you. I really did. Validated your sense of injury over a specific incident in the past, and suggested that you let that sense of injury from the past go and learn to better deal with injury in the future. You don't really seem to be interested in that. And you don't really seem to be interested in conversations about general topics and ideas, only things about you. This will necessarily mean that the responses are going to be directed at you, personally, the criticism at you, personally. And I think you're smart enough to know how that goes. So, maybe, you should take some time and reflect on this. I'm trying to think of an explanation for your behavior that doesn't involve narcissism or masochism and I'm coming up short.

Also, it'd be one thing if you demonstrated a habit of referring to other doms in terms like "boy," which would just make you silly. But that you managed to pull that out especially for the big black man... I don't know what's in your heart, but your words are racist. Just because he ignored the bait doesn't mean others didn't notice you put it out there.

What makes you several times mention the ''injury from the past'' as you put it, referring to a past thread in which the rampage hurdle acted as a lynch mob, wanting me to leave this site because I as a non-native English speaker was supposed to not understand what was being said? This behaviour of belittling dissidents is omnipresent here, even you have been a victim to this. I have no idea why you say I only want to talk about myself, furthermore, raking up my former posts yourself. Regarding the ''boy'' comment: the general idea I understand is that you can call other users what you want as long as they did not earn your respect. One could as well call EW and others racists for using several terms for faeces and what we have more while addressing me. In another thread it was said African-American is a politically correct term after which I responded that it is not because the site has no European-American option which makes this very site racist. It is a matter of mindset. People really should not have such long toes, some users have to wage there words while the regulars and sympathizers can foul-mouth and offend into eternity. Why not stick to the op and granting others their right to have an opinion instead of throwing with shit constantly as soon as a persons opinion differs from the mob, is what I would like to know.

If you truly believe this site to be racists why are you still here?

Where has anyone but YOU been racists in this thread?

If you want others to stick to the OP and not attack other posters. Why not follow your own advice instead of attacking other why not simply stick to the OP?

I attack? I am not aware of this, I gave my opinion in a post and have to dug for the shit thrown at me since. I did not attack a soul. You think I should apologize for having an opinion and being on a racist planet calling Obama the first black US president when he is as white as he is black? I will stick to the op now, which means I will leave this thread since I already gave my opinion in my first post.

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ORIGINAL: devilishpixie

Not trying to be a smart ass but an honest question but trim your quotes?

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Thanks Aquatic Sub, now I know. However, I see people quote long strings of stuff all the time so I never thought it was an issue until now. I guess it is one of those unspoken rules. -shrugs-

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Hit the preview button a couple of times to make sure you have the hang of it. You can really manage those quote windows. And you can always seperate them out by typing [/quote.] *what you want to say* and then going back into the quote with [quote.] - just without those little periods. [:)]

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Shocking, that.

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We love you anyway.

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Hit the preview button a couple of times to make sure you have the hang of it. You can really manage those quote windows. And you can always seperate them out by typing [/quote.] *what you want to say* and then going back into the quote with [quote.] - just without those little periods. [:)]

i still screw it up [:D]

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Most of the rules in this Protocol are fairly standard in the modern Master/slave tradition

Extension of the Master. The slave should always remember that she is an extension, reflection, and representative of her Master, and behave accordingly. In all ways, she should strive to make her actions reflect well upon herself, her Master, and upon Master/slave relationships in general.

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Respect and Courtesy. The slave shall be courteous and respectful to all people, at all times, in demeanor, words, and actions.

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In fact, the slave should not argue with anyone. If the slave has a difference of opinion with someone, the slave should discuss the difference in calm, respectful tones. The slave should never raise her voice in a discussion. If she finds herself unable to refrain from doing so, she should excuse herself from the discussion until she calms down.
The slave should strive to never directly contradict anyone. If the slave believes that someone is in error, or is pursuing an unwise course of action, the slave should express her disagreement non-confrontationally.