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nubianmuscle -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/26/2009 6:33:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf Actually it is called hypocrisy, and you have displayed it several times before in your posts here. Someone with an inconsistent code of ethics is often prone to hypocrisy, as well as narcissism can lead there as well. I like the fact that many people, you included, reveal so much about their personality and character flaws with the more they talk, or post. Maybe some of this has led to the beliefs you have, and some serious introspection may assist you with overcoming it. quote: ORIGINAL: Eigenaar It is called assimilation! [sm=applause.gif]

AquaticSub -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/26/2009 7:00:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Eigenaar I gave my opinion and went for a few hours. Coming back to this thread I face users addressing me in a hostile manner, claiming I misread, change my story and calling me sparky and dude and stupid and disrespectful, assuming I claim they should listen to me and asking me who I think I am and what I plan to do about (their) worthless behaviour. I do not recognize myself in your words and when I misread it will not be anything on this site. You did misread. I never used the word juggling. Go through my post word for word. If it offends you be corrected politely... well.... I can't do anything about that except suggest you limit human contact.

AquaticSub -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/26/2009 7:02:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Eigenaar quote: ORIGINAL: EbonyWood quote: ORIGINAL: Eigenaar I gave my opinion and went for a few hours. Coming back to this thread I face users addressing me in a hostile manner, claiming I misread, change my story and calling me sparky and dude and stupid and disrespectful, By the way chuckles, no one here is obligated to respect you, as long as the TOS is maintained. Much like the rest of life, respect is earned through one's thoughts, speech and actions. To assume automatic respect would be foolish, and this is possibly a clue as to why you think it should be so. You mean you beat the shit out of old women in the street for not earning your respect? WTF? Where were old women even mentioned in his post? Seriously where? Are you just trying to up your post count?

Level -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/26/2009 7:48:42 PM)
After his "boy" comment, I'm beginning to think he got the "old women in the street" thing from some idea that is some sort of sport that black men participate in. Eigenaar, that was uncalled for, and makes any valid points you might have had difficult to focus on.

AquaticSub -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/26/2009 7:49:58 PM)
Great and I just got off the XBox so I'm automatically wondering what the points value is and if you get a bonus if they have a huge purse. [:-]

Level -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/26/2009 7:53:37 PM)
Yes, and you get extra powers if you knock over one that looks like Aunt May. [;)]

AquaticSub -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/26/2009 7:57:39 PM)
That would be one hell of an unlockable bonus. Maybe a title like "Continuing to hate someone even though he saves your life every other month". [:D]

Llyren -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/26/2009 8:20:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Eigenaar It is called assimilation! Actually, one assimilates -into- something. One doesn't expect an existing community to assimilate into one's standards. Unless you were just trying to call him an ass, and trying to be subtle about it. I've disagreed with EW on these forums. In fact, I felt he was being critical and disapproving, and he felt I had no grasp of irony. But even during the moment of clash I had far more respect for him than I will probably ever have for you. Respect and deference are earned, not assumed because you slap a title on yourself.

thishereboi -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/26/2009 10:32:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GYPSYMAMBO KIWI ETC>> he is saying "I am amused at all of you in a big huff trying to run down what I said.. English is not his first language.. GM Well judging by the differences in age between his posts and his profile, I would say Math isn't on top of the list either.

thishereboi -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/26/2009 10:35:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Eigenaar I was about to start a thread myself concerning the amount of extremely rude and aggressive slaves. Some even ordered me to leave this site after I responded to postings they or their friends made. I totally disagree with that users calling themselves slaves can say what they want as long as one does not own them. I read owners and slaves claiming the slave always has to keep in mind what the owner would think of their outings and the slave should not say things that would discredit the owner, yet I usually notice the opposite. It is rediculous that a slave would even think of publicly questioning the words of a dominant and I would not tolerate this behaviour. The same counts for subs/slaves discussing the sexual drive of her master and/or making fun of their master in these forums. That's nice...how's it working out for ya?

Santoro -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/27/2009 4:53:42 AM)
What others think, their beliefs, their opinions, all belong to them, and have nothing at all to do with you. You have asked questions, read the answers, do not allow emotion to get involved, be objective and thankful for responses, but have the courage of your conviction and allow others the same latitude.

sirsholly -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/27/2009 5:55:20 AM)
quote: Funny about being 50 years old. He says 50 in the profile, but when he made a forum post last year he was 63. My addition says he's 64 this year. I wonder what he told the 23 year old slave or whether, as with his impotence, he feels she must accept him whether he is truthful with her or not. snort

sirsholly -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/27/2009 6:00:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Eigenaar I gave my opinion and went for a few hours. Coming back to this thread I face users addressing me in a hostile manner, claiming I misread, change my story and calling me sparky and dude and stupid and disrespectful, assuming I claim they should listen to me and asking me who I think I am and what I plan to do about (their) worthless behaviour. I do not recognize myself in your words and when I misread it will not be anything on this site. of course you don't.[8\|]

sirsholly -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/27/2009 6:03:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Eigenaar quote: ORIGINAL: EbonyWood quote: ORIGINAL: Eigenaar I gave my opinion and went for a few hours. Coming back to this thread I face users addressing me in a hostile manner, claiming I misread, change my story and calling me sparky and dude and stupid and disrespectful, assuming I claim they should listen to me and asking me who I think I am and what I plan to do about (their) worthless behaviour. I do not recognize myself in your words and when I misread it will not be anything on this site. In a word - bullshit. No one has been hostile towards you, though I wouldn't be surprised, or care, if they had, given your history. What they HAVE been is tolerant of your rant and offered their opinions on your post, which you REQUESTED. If you are unable to take opinions which you have asked for, you probably need to go acquaint yourself with a mirror and ask yourself - "Am I really dominant in nature and true to myself, or someone whose sole intent is to delude myself and then whine to the world when I don't get my way." I did not REQUEST a thing, boy! Wow....can we get a pic of your lightening bolt tats? And by the way dude.....whereas i do not know EbonyWood personally, his posts reflect a quiet character that would never demand respect from a sub/slave...but rather earn it. You would do well by emulating him.

Eigenaar -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/27/2009 6:25:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level After his "boy" comment, I'm beginning to think he got the "old women in the street" thing from some idea that is some sort of sport that black men participate in. Eigenaar, that was uncalled for, and makes any valid points you might have had difficult to focus on. People of all colours can call me as they like and I can not, apparently. You are the one making false racist accusations here. As for the other posters addressing me in this thread, I would like to know what I put in my first post here that it upsets you so deeply and what makes you think I want you to comply to me. I only meant I would not tolerate the behaviour most on here demonstrate from a slave under my wing. I in my naïvety thought you would understand this.

devilishpixie -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/27/2009 6:34:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Eigenaar quote: ORIGINAL: Level After his "boy" comment, I'm beginning to think he got the "old women in the street" thing from some idea that is some sort of sport that black men participate in. Eigenaar, that was uncalled for, and makes any valid points you might have had difficult to focus on. People of all colours can call me as they like and I can not, apparently. You are the one making false racist accusations here. I don't recall anyone but you making racists remarks or bluntly belittling people in this thread. Which is ironic since you are the one whining about people being insulting and disrespectful.

sirsholly -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/27/2009 6:38:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Eigenaar quote: ORIGINAL: Level After his "boy" comment, I'm beginning to think he got the "old women in the street" thing from some idea that is some sort of sport that black men participate in. Eigenaar, that was uncalled for, and makes any valid points you might have had difficult to focus on. People of all colours can call me as they like and I can not, apparently. You are the one making false racist accusations here. No Level is NOT making a false racist accusations here. Your use of "boy" in re to EbonyWood (and ONLY EW....you have used it with no others) is a blatant display of racism. And you know it.

Lucienne -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/27/2009 6:41:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Eigenaar quote: ORIGINAL: Level After his "boy" comment, I'm beginning to think he got the "old women in the street" thing from some idea that is some sort of sport that black men participate in. Eigenaar, that was uncalled for, and makes any valid points you might have had difficult to focus on. People of all colours can call me as they like and I can not, apparently. You are the one making false racist accusations here. I tried to help you. I really did. Validated your sense of injury over a specific incident in the past, and suggested that you let that sense of injury from the past go and learn to better deal with injury in the future. You don't really seem to be interested in that. And you don't really seem to be interested in conversations about general topics and ideas, only things about you. This will necessarily mean that the responses are going to be directed at you, personally, the criticism at you, personally. And I think you're smart enough to know how that goes. So, maybe, you should take some time and reflect on this. I'm trying to think of an explanation for your behavior that doesn't involve narcissism or masochism and I'm coming up short. Also, it'd be one thing if you demonstrated a habit of referring to other doms in terms like "boy," which would just make you silly. But that you managed to pull that out especially for the big black man... I don't know what's in your heart, but your words are racist. Just because he ignored the bait doesn't mean others didn't notice you put it out there.

sirsholly -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/27/2009 6:42:52 AM)
quote: I only meant I would not tolerate the behaviour most on here demonstrate from a slave under my wing. that is fine. what occurs in your dynamic is up to you and the partner who gives consent. If you should demand she show "respect" to every asshole she comes in contact with, fine. You seem to feel that respect should be demonstrated to you by every sub/slave here.....and that is simply laughable. You get what you deserve, dude.

AquaticSub -> RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? (11/27/2009 6:43:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Eigenaar As for the other posters addressing me in this thread, I would like to know what I put in my first post here that it upsets you so deeply and what makes you think I want you to comply to me. I only meant I would not tolerate the behaviour most on here demonstrate from a slave under my wing. I in my naïvety thought you would understand this. I have no clue what you put in your first post since I haven't bothered to track it down and read it - and I'm not even touching the racist crap that you did say though I'll buy that maybe you didn't realize what you were saying. Maybe. As for you on this thread... no you were addressing slaves in general and have only backtracked to try and claim you meant to be more specific and is still an insult as you say "most on here" so that you attributing the bad behavior of a few folks to all of us.

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