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"You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has Por... - 11/29/2009 9:35:55 AM

slaveluci

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"Porn is entertainment, not a how-to manual. If men want to know what really turns women on, hetero porn is the last place they should look"..............

http://www.alternet.org/sex/144228/%22you_like_that_baby%2C_you_like_that%22%3A_has_porn_made_men_bad_at_sex

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RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has... - 11/29/2009 9:49:37 AM

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Porn is great for a kick start, but personally i have never been turned on by a guy talking like a porn star while in the middle of things, actually, it kinda turns me off and i go into auto pilot "oh yea oh yea give it to me baby that's it harder now come on make me cum!" The whole time i'm thinking about my to do list, laundry that needs done, what i'm going to make for dinner tomorrow, going to the grocery so i can make dinner tomorrow, etc. randomly thinking, is he done yet? i have other things i really need to be doing. Don't get me wrong, talking dirty to me gets me hot, but i want to hear what You are thinking and saying, not what some porn star's lines are.

my $.02 worth

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RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has... - 11/29/2009 9:56:46 AM

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I think the key for women being turned on or not is if it's genuine. Whatever the guy is saying/asking/commenting on - if it's something he 'thinks' he's supposed to say ( a line from a porno) then I would venture to say it'll leave his partner flat as opposed to something he wants to say in the heat of the moment. So if you're playing a part you saw in a porn film it usually feels blah and the woman wonders if she's an interchangable part in the scenario. If he's responding to HER and letting her know how much she turns him on it has a much different feel to it.

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RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has... - 11/29/2009 10:15:52 AM

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Ask him if he can last like a porn star before he can act like one..then time him

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RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has... - 11/29/2009 10:21:34 AM

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I tried talking like a porn star once - "Hi, I'm the pizza delivery boy." It didn't work.

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RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has... - 11/29/2009 10:30:20 AM

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quote:

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I tried talking like a porn star once - "Hi, I'm the pizza delivery boy." It didn't work.

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That's because you forgot to wear the "Ask About Our Big Meat Lovers Pie" hat silly.

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RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has... - 11/29/2009 10:32:49 AM

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Crap. Now I want some Big Meat Lover's Pie..

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RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has... - 11/29/2009 10:37:34 AM

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LMAO me toooo
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RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has... - 11/29/2009 10:43:11 AM

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When porn actors have sex for enjoyment, in their own relationships, they tend to have normal missionary sex, like anyone else.

The athletics and theatrical positions are erotic to watch, but just damned uncomfortable to do.

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RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has... - 11/29/2009 10:46:33 AM

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When porn actors have sex for enjoyment, in their own relationships, they tend to have normal missionary sex, like anyone else.

<---wonders how AnimusRex knows this

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RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has... - 11/29/2009 10:56:24 AM

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I think I know Holly... the images in my head are yummmy:)

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RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has... - 11/29/2009 10:58:09 AM

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I think I know Holly... the images in my head are yummmy:)

if your images are anything like mine......:::::THUD:::::

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RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has... - 11/29/2009 11:22:09 AM

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It is good to read we were good before.

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RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has... - 11/29/2009 11:27:06 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

I think I know Holly... the images in my head are yummmy:)

if your images are anything like mine......:::::THUD:::::

Nodding happily

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RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has... - 11/29/2009 11:49:31 AM

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I don't know that porn has made men "bad" at sex; I think an awful lot of guys are bad at it, no matter what (and a number of women, too). The worst effect porn probably has is creating unreasonable expectations for people.

Semi-related topic: I heard on the radio the other day, that women test almost identical to men, in terms of how quickly they become aroused, watching porn. Interesting...

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RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has... - 11/29/2009 12:39:46 PM

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I think porn gives a man the impression he has to "preform" in bed.
I don't want a performance...i want HIM.

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RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has... - 11/29/2009 1:11:02 PM

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I can't do it, just can't. If I ever even think about going into "Porno" mode, I just get flashes of Barry White...or more specifically the vibrator I saw once which played Barry White while buzzing...

Now that's enough to put you off your stroke.

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RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has... - 11/29/2009 1:17:22 PM

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is funny, I could never get aroused if Ron Jeremy was in the scene...still cant, yet I think as a personality/character/person he is most excellent, but definitely a turn off during porn.
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RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has... - 11/29/2009 2:12:07 PM

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I've only experienced one porn-star wannabe with a scripted orgasm... "oh yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah, OH OH YEAH BABY OH YEAH!!" I nicknamed him Mr. Kool-Aid.

Porn is, well, visual fantasy. Even if you are limber enough to attempt some of those positions, it's usually just not worth it. When you do have really truly good sex, it's nice to not have to worry about what you look like - but I still leave the lights on. Hmmm, maybe in that way real sex is even less inhibited than porn...

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RE: "You Like That Baby, You Like That?": Has... - 11/29/2009 3:18:07 PM

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Many years ago a woman asked me to talk "really nasty" to her while we were doing it.
I said "OK, you stupid bitch, you dumb cunt!"
She said; "NO!!! Not like THAT!!!"

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