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Looking for an LTR - 11/30/2009 10:44:24 AM

essenm69

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I'm a very straight sub guy looking for an LTR with an attractive domme. I really am not looking for a PRO. Is this possible today? I've had such relationships in the past, but I had to relocate. Many of the straight sub guys I know have LTRs with amazing dommes. Can I find one on Collarme?

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RE: Looking for an LTR - 11/30/2009 11:29:48 AM

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RE: Looking for an LTR - 11/30/2009 3:01:57 PM

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I think it's possible OP, I'm hoping looking forward to the LTR I will be having with my sub.

But then again it will be a 24/7/365 lifestyle we will be pursuing and from what I've heard that is not for the faint of heart. I'm sure there are some lovely Dommes on this site who are looking for a LTR with a good boy like yourself.

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RE: Looking for an LTR - 11/30/2009 3:17:45 PM

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Wow, let us know how you keep up the LTR without it being realtime first, okay! And I would say that in a world of folks, anything is possible.

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RE: Looking for an LTR - 11/30/2009 4:20:13 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: essenm69

I'm a very straight sub guy looking for an LTR with an attractive domme. I really am not looking for a PRO. Is this possible today? I've had such relationships in the past, but I had to relocate. Many of the straight sub guys I know have LTRs with amazing dommes. Can I find one on Collarme?

I might not be possible today. But it might be possible with time. If you are looking on collarme, I'd suggest that you participate in the forums and get to know the women here. And when you browse profiles, make sure to read them carefully.

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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/3/2009 1:42:44 AM

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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/3/2009 10:52:30 PM

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i too am seeking a LTR with a Domme, haven't been able to find Her yet, but i hope with time and patience it will happen.

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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/3/2009 11:12:56 PM

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get out into the community. MUnches, events, etc. as well as using internet sources.

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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/4/2009 5:03:05 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: essenm69

I'm a very straight sub guy looking for an LTR with an attractive domme. I really am not looking for a PRO. Is this possible today? I've had such relationships in the past, but I had to relocate. Many of the straight sub guys I know have LTRs with amazing dommes. Can I find one on Collarme?

If you have had such relationships in the past, why would you think today would be any different? Unless you think that by starting this thread, an "attractive domme" will read it and contact you. I suppose that is faster than sending out hundreds of emails. Let me know how that works for ya, k?

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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/4/2009 5:06:22 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Wow, let us know how you keep up the LTR without it being realtime first, okay! And I would say that in a world of folks, anything is possible.

Any thing is possible, I remember one girl who considered herself to be a 24/7 slave to a man she had never actually met. But she said she kept her computer on all the time so he always had access to her.

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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/4/2009 6:38:02 PM

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Hi.

I know it's possible to find a Mistress who's not a pro and she's looking for a real sub. All you need to do to find a real Mistress is to be a real slave. We train subs online and real time and some times we come across a sub that wants to be owned and we might own him. But if he's only looking for a roleplay session and not really wanting to be owned full time then that's not LTR.

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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 8:19:46 AM

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If you look for a real woman (not *just* the stunningly gorgeous, young creatures that I see on your profile page) and are willing and able to contribute everything useful in a relationship (at least 50/50 in financial and household support; If you don't expect her to provide soul-sucking micromanagement and "forced" this or that: If you can support her and serve her as *SHE* needs (and you aren't just out to "submit" to what you desire), you may be in luck.

I see lots and lots and LOTS of pics of truly beautiful, slender, young women, on your profile page. There is not a single one who looks anything like me, or the great majority of Female People in this world, except that they are female. I don't see a single thing on your profile that indicates you are willing to provide anything that makes a relationship work.

There MUST be an equal exchange and you must be worthy of the kind of woman you seek. I cannot and do not assume that you are of this mindset; but, if you aren't willing to provide the necessary input for a real relationship, and you aren't adequate to her needs, then maybe a pro-Domme is what you should be seeking.

QR

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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 8:31:05 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: QueenRah

If you look for a real woman (not *just* the stunningly gorgeous, young creatures that I see on your profile page) and are willing and able to contribute everything useful in a relationship (at least 50/50 in financial and household support; If you don't expect her to provide soul-sucking micromanagement and "forced" this or that: If you can support her and serve her as *SHE* needs (and you aren't just out to "submit" to what you desire), you may be in luck.

I see lots and lots and LOTS of pics of truly beautiful, slender, young women, on your profile page. There is not a single one who looks anything like me, or the great majority of Female People in this world, except that they are female. I don't see a single thing on your profile that indicates you are willing to provide anything that makes a relationship work.

There MUST be an equal exchange and you must be worthy of the kind of woman you seek. I cannot and do not assume that you are of this mindset; but, if you aren't willing to provide the necessary input for a real relationship, and you aren't adequate to her needs, then maybe a pro-Domme is what you should be seeking.

QR

WOW, what bee flew in your bonnet?

And really?....he can't have a preference?

and this is a new one.....his prospective dommes have to look like YOU????

Oh boy!

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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 9:02:33 AM

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quote:

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QR

WOW, what bee flew in your bonnet?

No bees, sweetness. I'm just trying to help this guy by being realistic
And really?....he can't have a preference?

Sure. Preferences. But, again, real-life doesn't pair average with stunning, unless average has a huge...checking account.

and this is a new one.....his prospective dommes have to look like YOU????

Oh boy!

You need to learn to read

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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 9:05:36 AM

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If you'll noticed, you two typify the look of most BDSMers I have encountered online and in-person - overweight/pasty/average-looking - not Adoniac or Amazonian. That's what I'm telling OP

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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 9:09:13 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: QueenRah

If you'll noticed, you two typify the look of most BDSMers I have encountered online and in-person - overweight/pasty/average-looking - not Adoniac or Amazonian. That's what I'm telling OP

At least i put Our REAL picture on Our profile. And i read just fine deary.

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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 9:25:00 AM

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That is my real picture. I was having fun, acting silly and enjoying myself.

And, no, you don't "read" just fine. I never suggested he should pursue a Domina that resembled me, just consider some who don't fit the Hollywood perfect that he has displayed on his profile page. I have my preferences, too, but I do consider prospective boys outside of those parameters - because they're people. Ultimately, what many of us are here for is connection to...wait for it...people.

And please consider not starting something unleasant with someone, just because you're feeling cranky. I was trying to help the OP. Your behavior is petty.

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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 9:27:52 AM

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That is my real picture. I was having fun, acting silly and enjoying myself.

And, no, you don't "read" just fine. I never suggested he should pursue a Domina that resembled me, just consider some who don't fit the Hollywood perfect that he has displayed on his profile page. I have my preferences, too, but I do consider prospective boys outside of those parameters - because they're people. Ultimately, what many of us are here for is connection to...wait for it...people.

And please consider not starting something unleasant with someone, just because you're feeling cranky. I was trying to help the OP. Your behavior is petty.

You were rude to the OP needlessly, and i called you on it. Now if you can dish it out and not take it....then i suggest you stop doing the dishing sweetie.

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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 9:33:27 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: breatheasone

quote:

ORIGINAL: QueenRah

If you'll noticed, you two typify the look of most BDSMers I have encountered online and in-person - overweight/pasty/average-looking - not Adoniac or Amazonian. That's what I'm telling OP

At least i put Our REAL picture on Our profile. And i read just fine deary.

With all due respect, I really don't think that you did read it as it was intended by QR. I have read it a few times and have yet to come up with a reading that would elicit the response that you gave her. Just sayin...

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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 9:36:21 AM

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To me, she gave the OP a swipe, because he dared have a preference that she objects to. And i said something about it. No apology will be forth coming.

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