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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 9:39:44 AM   
zephyroftheNorth


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That is my real picture. I was having fun, acting silly and enjoying myself.

And, no, you don't "read" just fine. I never suggested he should pursue a Domina that resembled me, just consider some who don't fit the Hollywood perfect that he has displayed on his profile page. I have my preferences, too, but I do consider prospective boys outside of those parameters - because they're people. Ultimately, what many of us are here for is connection to...wait for it...people.

And please consider not starting something unleasant with someone, just because you're feeling cranky. I was trying to help the OP. Your behavior is petty.

You were rude to the OP needlessly, and i called you on it. Now if you can dish it out and not take it....then i suggest you stop doing the dishing sweetie.



Well no, Candy, it's YOU who was rude. If you reread her post she was commenting on how he only has perfect, gorgeous young women on his profile....which he does. She wasn't saying that the OP should find a Domme who looks like her, it was a comment on the Friends he has on his profile.


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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 9:40:19 AM   
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ORIGINAL: breatheasone

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That is my real picture. I was having fun, acting silly and enjoying myself.

And, no, you don't "read" just fine. I never suggested he should pursue a Domina that resembled me, just consider some who don't fit the Hollywood perfect that he has displayed on his profile page. I have my preferences, too, but I do consider prospective boys outside of those parameters - because they're people. Ultimately, what many of us are here for is connection to...wait for it...people.

And please consider not starting something unleasant with someone, just because you're feeling cranky. I was trying to help the OP. Your behavior is petty.


You were rude to the OP needlessly, and i called you on it. Now if you can dish it out and not take it....then i suggest you stop doing the dishing sweetie.


No she wasn't...  there was no malice or hate in her post at all.  I think you took exception to the post where she called you and yours "average, etc." and this was after it appeared that you misconstrued what she had said to the OP.

Again, with all due respect, as I don't know you very well at all, I have read several posts where you take someone to task and I have not read into their posts what you have.  I know at least one other person on the boards has said the same thing about some of your comments.  Sometimes a post is just a post, no hate, no projection...  just words from one person to another.  It's how third parties interpret those posts that call it into question.

Just my two cents,
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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 9:44:52 AM   
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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 9:46:41 AM   
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To me, she gave the OP a swipe, because he dared have a preference that she objects to. And i said something about it. No apology will be forth coming.


Where did she ever state that the contents of his friends page was objectionable?  What a bunch of projection there, Candy.  Come on...  really?   QR basically said that he may not find the perfect LTR with a Domme who is (in my words) "pageant" material, but there are others out there who may meet all of his other items on his Domme-wish-list, so being open to what may not seem like the perfect match, may be perfect for him.

If you read anything else into her post other than that, I honestly can't figure out where you got it except that lately, you have had a predisposition for pouncing on people when it wasn't really necessary.

ps - I didn't think you would apologize, nor did anyone ask you to.

< Message edited by Daddysredhead -- 12/5/2009 9:49:39 AM >

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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 9:48:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yes, i am aware of the fact that there are people on here that do not agree with my take on things, thats their call. To me QR, reacted sharply because the OP 's preferences didn't agree with her own, she objected to the OP wanting  "young, good looking" partners. i said how i felt about that ...after all she DID put it on a discussion board. If she didn't like what i thought of her post fine...i didn't like hers either.
Edited to add: this is going nowhere fast. Agree don't agree fine. i replied to a post, and now i'm moving on. Chew me up i don't give a shit.


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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 9:50:12 AM   
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A profile with no bio, a big wank gallery including subbies, but here's the kicker, has a puerile '69' in his userid, reads like classic 'do-me' topping from the bottom switchiness. So, OP, if you're looking for that, you're doing great.
But if you're serious about being good subbie material, lose the '69' [dude. seriously. Nothing screams socio-sexual ineptitude like '69'], hide the pics, write your bio, but say what you've got to give to a LTR, not a fetish fantasy list.



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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 9:52:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: breatheasone

Yes, i am aware of the fact that there are people on here that do not agree with my take on things, thats their call. To me QR, reacted sharply because the OP 's preferences didn't agree with her own, she objected to the OP wanting  "young, good looking" partners. i said how i felt about that ...after all she DID put it on a discussion board. If she didn't like what i thought of her post fine...i didn't like hers either.


This is ridiculous please show me where she compares his friends list to her own preferences?


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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 9:56:32 AM   
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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 9:57:07 AM   
zephyroftheNorth


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ORIGINAL: breatheasone

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If you'll noticed, you two typify the look of most BDSMers I have encountered online and in-person - overweight/pasty/average-looking - not Adoniac or Amazonian. That's what I'm telling OP

At least i put Our REAL picture on Our profile. And i read just fine deary.



She never said it wasn't, she just described you and your Dom that's all. And even then she was just using you as an example of real people in contrast to the perfect-looking young women in the OP's profile.


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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 9:59:40 AM   
QueenRah


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Status: offline 		Well, this has been...fun. But, where is the OP, anyway?

Went back to original post date. I see, he posted on the 30th. It's been awhile, hannit?

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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 10:04:45 AM   
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By the way, nice to meet you, QR. 

I'm "Red." 

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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 10:08:43 AM   
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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 10:14:03 AM   
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Hi QR I'm Zeph.


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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 10:17:48 AM   
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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 10:34:04 AM   
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Indeed, I think Red scared him off..........orrrrrrr maybe he's just a HNG who found somewhere else to play.


Hey!!!  I am not scary. 

Or... maybe he has found his "real deal?" 

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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 11:40:28 AM   
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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 11:44:48 AM   
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I didnt see QR's original post as being a slam at anyone, just a suggestion that (based on the OPs profile) that the OP consider looking at folks who aren't supermodel types.


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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 11:47:25 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

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ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

Indeed, I think Red scared him off..........orrrrrrr maybe he's just a HNG who found somewhere else to play.


Hey!!!  I am not scary. 

Or... maybe he has found his "real deal?" 


yeah ya are...

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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 1:03:40 PM   
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(liar just sounds so damn judgmental)

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RE: Looking for an LTR - 12/5/2009 3:05:06 PM   
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