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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 11/30/2009 6:15:34 PM   
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Funny how all the humiliation ideas (except the beer one) did not address public exposure of kink.


Interesting point. The humiliation that has gotten to me the deepest is what goes on only between he and I. Public humiliation is embarrassing, yes, and not my kink whatsoever. Private humiliation, where the Dom I love takes me to the depths and watches and enjoys ... that's the insanely arousing stuff for me. It's baring my soul to him, showing him what I'm capable of enjoying and knowing he loves being the maestro and accepts me 'as is'. Wonderful stuff.


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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 11/30/2009 6:23:41 PM   
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The worst humiliation for me is having to admit that I want what he wants to do to me.  Ohhh gosh it makes me crazy. 

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 11/30/2009 6:31:05 PM   
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For us, admitting I was right - in public. Tee hee

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 11/30/2009 8:03:33 PM   
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when I realized he'd totally mind-fucked me by claiming he was shaving my hoo-hoo with a straight razor, (I was blindfolded) when in fact it was just a disposable Bic....

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 11/30/2009 8:04:08 PM   
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I was humiliated once when a former submissive and I were at a BDSM social, and she was behaving improperly.  It was awful and it not only reflected on her but on myself as well I feel.  Other than that, I don't do or do well with humiliation even as play... not that there is anything wrong with that.  It's just not my way.    

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 11/30/2009 8:30:10 PM   
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The worst humiliation for me is having to admit that I want what he wants to do to me.  Ohhh gosh it makes me crazy. 


*blush* *drool* you hit the nail on the head there...I was going over specific acts in my head....but none of it would have meant anything OR been humiliating if I didn't have to admit that I wanted them *grin*

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 11/30/2009 8:35:47 PM   
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I am deeply humilated by having to wear clashing clothes.

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 11/30/2009 8:41:45 PM   
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Few things are more humiliating than when it's discovered I was actually serving Folgers.


(edited for spelling.  Thank you very much V.)


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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 11/30/2009 8:45:01 PM   
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The sub TOLD you this was the most humiliating thing? Okay. Yeah, sure, that's it.

Cali


To some this may be the most humiliating thing. Being treated like a dog. To some the act of eating out of a dog dish. To some it would be barking and another oinking like a pig. Others, being dragged to the bathroom and pissed on. What humiliates me doesnt humiliate another. Different people, different triggers. None that should be disrespected or made light of as not enough.


Feel free to hit the HIDE button so you don't have to read my posts.  I think I can safely say that most of the people here are well aware that humiliation is an individual thing, but kudos to you for taking the opportunity for yet another chastisement.

For anyone else who didn't get it, the point was that he didn't experience this act first-hand as the one being humiliated, but was talking about what HE thought was most humiliating. 

Cali


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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 11/30/2009 8:59:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

The sub TOLD you this was the most humiliating thing? Okay. Yeah, sure, that's it.

Cali


To some this may be the most humiliating thing. Being treated like a dog. To some the act of eating out of a dog dish. To some it would be barking and another oinking like a pig. Others, being dragged to the bathroom and pissed on. What humiliates me doesnt humiliate another. Different people, different triggers. None that should be disrespected or made light of as not enough.


Feel free to hit the HIDE button so you don't have to read my posts. I think I can safely say that most of the people here are well aware that humiliation is an individual thing, but kudos to you for taking the opportunity for yet another chastisement.

For anyone else who didn't get it, the point was that he didn't experience this act first-hand as the one being humiliated, but was talking about what HE thought was most humiliating.

Cali



Yet another newbie put down. It hurts to see people treated by judgements and arrogance. Guess the newbie didnt do it right. But GREAT suggestion.

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 11/30/2009 10:35:30 PM   
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I was seeing a woman who had only started exploring her submission shortly before we met. She had a bunch of "fantasies", but needed to be led along gradually. We were at a play party in a private home. A lot of people. They had a play room next to the living room, and a lot of people in the living room just chatting, including us. We were standing over by the wall. I told her to take off her pants, spread her legs and start to masturbate. She looked up at me with those big puppy eyes, and said, "Here"?. "Yes, here". "Now?" "Yes, now". One of the worst things that can happen is for a dom to give a new partner an order she wont obey. It can be a potentially crisis, especially when a relationship is new and the bond is just starting to build. But we werent that new, and I was pretty sure she would obey. She did. I really have to give those people credit. They didn't miss a beat. Everyone was watching, but the conversations kept right on going, no one said anything to her or I. She kept looking at me, both for reassurance, which I gave her, and hoping I would let her stop. I didn't. When I told her to cum, I got another look, but she went into high gear. The noises were lovely. When she came, it was rather powerful. Then I made her walk around to everyone in the room, and one by one, thank them for watching her.

The sex that night was amazing.

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 1:36:47 AM   
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thank you for that story sir... just lovely... i would be so shy

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 1:48:55 AM   
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ORIGINAL: peachgirl

when I realized he'd totally mind-fucked me by claiming he was shaving my hoo-hoo with a straight razor, (I was blindfolded) when in fact it was just a disposable Bic....


Actually, shaving with a straight razor isn't that hard. It isn't very dangerous either, if you know how to do it.

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 4:40:21 AM   
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The most humiliating thing for me would have to have been about a month ago. I decided to push some of my limits and asked Him to choose which ones.

Anyway, it ended up with me saran wrapped to a pole, He flogged me, cut me (I love knife play) among other things (hot wax, forced head, cane, single tail. He pulled out all the stops lol)

At one point He had a drink of water then threw the rest on me. Then after more torture He got quiet and still. I was blindfolded and had no clue what was going on. The next thing I know I feel something warm being poured on me and then I realized just what it was. I was in shock, thinking wtf? Then when He was done He put a container between my legs (I was on my knees with my torso wrapped to this pole, a belt around my neck holding my head in place, arms bound above me and blindfolded) and rinsed me off with hot water. After that He told me i would be untied only if and when i peed in the container that was between my legs.

Besides the fact that He peed on me, now I had to do it in front of Him?! Well, to say the least i couldn't do it. Not only because I didn't need to go, but I couldn't bring myself to do it. After about 10 minutes I begged Him to untie me. My legs were killing me and the pain was becoming unbearable. He did and that was that.

But has He forgotten that I didn't do it? Not at all. He wanted me to make a 6 minute video of me describing in detail the things He has done to me and then to pee at the end. Well, I am being punished for not doing ALL He asked. *sighs*

Anyway, this may be calm by some standards, but to date this is the most humiliating thing that has happened to me.

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 4:46:47 AM   
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oh, is it a contest now?
See anyone can beat and piss on someone- thats hot, but its even better when there is that combination of eroticism and degradation.
Ponders an elegant dinner party....

Making her kneel by the entrance doorway naked, wearing nothing but a blindfold. A sign above her head reads "Mouth for use by Gentlemen and Ladies"

Having her kneel naked by the doorway, face pressed to the floor, long hair fanned out around her head, offering her hair for the arriving guests to wipe their shoes upon.

Having her fetch a cut of hot tea, by crawling naked on all fours to the kitchen; whereupon a Mistress places the piping hot china cup filled to the brim on her tender buttock, and she crawls back weaving in between the legs of the guests- knowing that spilling a drop will result in having her head shaved.

Having her sit astride My black leather boot, forced to polish it by rubbing her sex on it until it glistens, then licking it clean while the guests look on and comment.

At the end of the party, her dinner consists of scraps dumped into a dog dish, which she laps up from all fours
*blinkblink*

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 4:53:53 AM   
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Okay, NOW you did it!

I am in the mood for puppy play!

{grrrrr!}


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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 4:55:46 AM   
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Okay, NOW you did it!

I am in the mood for puppy play!

{grrrrr!}


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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 4:56:09 AM   
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Folgers? !!!!!!!!!! OMG you Are HORRIBLE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 5:04:43 AM   
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ORIGINAL: AnimusRex

oh, is it a contest now?
See anyone can beat and piss on someone- thats hot, but its even better when there is that combination of eroticism and degradation.
Ponders an elegant dinner party....

Making her kneel by the entrance doorway naked, wearing nothing but a blindfold. A sign above her head reads "Mouth for use by Gentlemen and Ladies"

Having her kneel naked by the doorway, face pressed to the floor, long hair fanned out around her head, offering her hair for the arriving guests to wipe their shoes upon.

Having her fetch a cut of hot tea, by crawling naked on all fours to the kitchen; whereupon a Mistress places the piping hot china cup filled to the brim on her tender buttock, and she crawls back weaving in between the legs of the guests- knowing that spilling a drop will result in having her head shaved.

Having her sit astride My black leather boot, forced to polish it by rubbing her sex on it until it glistens, then licking it clean while the guests look on and comment.

At the end of the party, her dinner consists of scraps dumped into a dog dish, which she laps up from all fours.



Man, is New Year's still a month away?


omg, that sounds hot

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 5:23:42 AM   
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I had to do a search for this, my post from a while back:

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1199051/mpage_5/key_pee/tm.htm#1830330



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