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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 5:31:37 AM

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.....When I told her to cum, I got another look, but she went into high gear. The noises were lovely. When she came, it was rather powerful. Then I made her walk around to everyone in the room, and one by one, thank them for watching her.

Wow, that's hot. For me, the masturbation wouldn't have been half as humiliating as the having to go around and thank them part. Very nice touch

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 5:34:32 AM

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When someone tells me they love humiliation I always inform them, 'my kind of humiliation is possibly very different to yours so be careful what you ask for!'

My fondest memory of humiliating someone was in a club. It involved one very pretty and naked fem sub, 4 prosthetic eggs, a saucepan and an audience.
I introduced her to other Mistresses as my little chicken that could lay eggs and then asked her to lay an egg for me. She had to extract just one egg at a time. Oh and she had to cluck as the egg fell with a clang into the saucepan. With each egg she received a round of applause.

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 5:35:40 AM

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I had to do a search for this, my post from a while back:

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1199051/mpage_5/key_pee/tm.htm#1830330

Interesting. *ponders*

When Sir peed on me He told me to open my mouth, which I outright refused to do. He said He wasn't going to pee in my moth, didn't I trust Him? Well, to be honest, I had a moment of doubt. Would He actually not pee in my mouth or would He do it anyway. Well, I eventually did as he wanted and He didn't pee in my mouth lol.

I like your view on it though, his taking a part of you into him.

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 5:35:45 AM

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When I had passed through all my groceries at the check out and realised I had forgotten my wallet.

So ashamed.

I hear you on that. Thursday morning i went to purchase something and my debit card was denied. I felt really humiliated standing there with groceries and no way to pay for them. I totally could not understand that. Being Thanksgiving couldn't call the bank. Friday morning though they called me and let me know they shut down my debit card and explained why..am a victim of debit card theft. That sucks too, but am glad the bank didnt accept the charges someone tried to use on it.

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 5:44:33 AM

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Folgers? !!!!!!!!!! OMG you Are HORRIBLE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 6:13:20 AM

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This thread has got me recalling a whole bunch of stuff.
I was once taking a guy in a club with a strap-on. It was rough stuff that involved some hair pulling and spitting when suddenly I was aware that the club had gone mysteriously quiet. I turned around and there was two police officers watching me. I smiled, they blushed and hurried out of the club!

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 6:22:30 AM

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When I had passed through all my groceries at the check out and realised I had forgotten my wallet.

So ashamed.

i passed all my groceries at the check out, had my wallet, paid for the damn things (almost 200.00) then left without 'em...

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 6:44:12 AM

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.....When I told her to cum, I got another look, but she went into high gear. The noises were lovely. When she came, it was rather powerful. Then I made her walk around to everyone in the room, and one by one, thank them for watching her.

Wow, that's hot. For me, the masturbation wouldn't have been half as humiliating as the having to go around and thank them part. Very nice touch..............luci

I can't speak for other dominants, but my best tool in dominating is listening. She was, while I wouldn't say very shy, she was uncertain and inhibited. In fact her inhibitions ran much deeper than I knew, and turned out to be one of the factors that eneded our relationship. I found out that she had pretty much been feeding me back what she knew I wanted to hear, especially about her feelings for me and her intentions, and that really all she was interested in was kinky sex. I ended the relationship at that point, and let's just say it was both painful and ugly. In retrospect, while I was listening, all I heard was what I wanted to hear, and I ignored what was buried in between the words. If I had heard what she was really telling me, maybe I could have brought her around to be able to trust, and things would have been different.

But as far as the scene itself, I was almost completely certain that it would go the way it did, even though I never discussed what I was going to do with her. Eventually, you have to walk the tight wire without a rope. Yes, it was the walking around after that truly made the scene. She was very embarressed and vulnerable, still naked from the waist down in a room full of clothed people, some of whom she knew, some who were strangers. She really was beautiful to watch. it was for more erotic, than sexual. I was very pleased on many levels, and told her so. Like I said, great sex is a nice reward. :)

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 7:54:42 AM

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Few things are more humiliating than when it's discovered I was actually serving Folgers.

(edited for spelling. Thank you very much V.)

Now THAT is funny!! I don't think I could get away with that so gracefully by secretly serving pasta from Pizza Hut...but I'm willing.

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 8:10:13 AM

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it's a toss up between sneakers (or flats)...with a short fancy frock and capri pants.

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 9:03:34 AM

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So far, for me, its been finding out that my roommates can hear my vibrator... I drink his urine but strangely, I don't find it in the least but humiliating. I am proud to do it.

ETA: As soon as my Master found out they can hear it he told me to stop using it if there is anyone else home. So I guess he doesn't have a humiliation fetish

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 9:18:28 AM

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Shitting in someone's mouth I think. (never had it happen, but that is my guess.)

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 9:25:03 AM

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when I realized he'd totally mind-fucked me by claiming he was shaving my hoo-hoo with a straight razor, (I was blindfolded) when in fact it was just a disposable Bic....

Actually, shaving with a straight razor isn't that hard. It isn't very dangerous either, if you know how to do it.

ok, I'll be happy to shave yours with a slightly dull one. did I mention I've never used one before?

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 9:32:40 AM

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When I had passed through all my groceries at the check out and realised I had forgotten my wallet.

So ashamed.

i passed all my groceries at the check out, had my wallet, paid for the damn things (almost 200.00) then left without 'em...

LOL. Holly. That has got a name. Alzheimers. But you nowhere near some guy i know. He lives 300 m from the supermarked, but took the car for shopping. When he got out he was a litle bit thirsty and dropped the groceries in to the car and popped in to the pub there. Well he meets some of his mates and the one he wanted became quite a few. When he came out the pub he walked the 300 m home. Next day he woke up and his car was missing so he went to the cops and reported it stolen. 2 days later someone from the supermarket phoned the cops about the abandone car in the parkinglot. They then phoned him where it was. It was in the midle of summer and he had bought both icecream and frozen meat. No wonder he goes under the nick "Fessor".

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 9:49:00 AM

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i would imagine what is humiliating to one person wouldn't necessarily be to another. This is one of those questions thats truly best answered by your partner. Just be double dog sure they WANT, or are into this humiliation thing before you do it, because TRUST me, NOT all s-types (just because they are s-types) like being put down, and/or humiliated.

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 10:35:36 AM

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... and just like that, after reading this thread, Humiliation goes on my list of hard-limits.
Good to know. I was just starting to relax- now I'm petrified and full of doubts again.

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 10:44:29 AM

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I'm not into humiliation either honestly. I am open to it in some ways. But its not something I desire or get off on. Actually, one of my triggers is ridicule. I can't deal with verbal humiliation at all. I don't think all Doms are into it either. Some people want to build you up, not tear you down. Other people love to be treated, or to treat others, like dirt. If you aren't into it, don't do it. No biggy

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... and just like that, after reading this thread, Humiliation goes on my list of hard-limits.
Good to know. I was just starting to relax- now I'm petrified and full of doubts again.

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 10:52:08 AM

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I'm not into humiliation either honestly. I am open to it in some ways. But its not something I desire or get off on. Actually, one of my triggers is ridicule. I can't deal with verbal humiliation at all. I don't think all Doms are into it either. Some people want to build you up, not tear you down. Other people love to be treated, or to treat others, like dirt. If you aren't into it, don't do it. No biggy

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... and just like that, after reading this thread, Humiliation goes on my list of hard-limits.
Good to know. I was just starting to relax- now I'm petrified and full of doubts again.

WELL SAID! Theres no need for that humiliation thing AT ALL if both people don't like it or want it.

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 11:05:11 AM

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Funny how all the humiliation ideas (except the beer one) did not address public exposure of kink.

Interesting point. The humiliation that has gotten to me the deepest is what goes on only between he and I. Public humiliation is embarrassing, yes, and not my kink whatsoever. Private humiliation, where the Dom I love takes me to the depths and watches and enjoys ... that's the insanely arousing stuff for me. It's baring my soul to him, showing him what I'm capable of enjoying and knowing he loves being the maestro and accepts me 'as is'. Wonderful stuff.

I totally agree with this reply. When I was with my ex Dom, I did things I never dreamed I would do...or be aroused by. Nothing public could ever come close to the deep intimacy that fed the humiliating acts.

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 11:28:50 AM

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... and just like that, after reading this thread, Humiliation goes on my list of hard-limits.
Good to know. I was just starting to relax- now I'm petrified and full of doubts again.

Heh heh All part of the plan. What are you doing for dinner tonight? :)

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