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RE: What, if any difference - your view? - 12/2/2009 7:24:23 AM   
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I doubt everyone will consider it a blanket gender thing but I know for me there is an underlying difference.

Over all I am pretty harsh in my judgments of others. I always have been. I have grown to see men as being, on average, the weaker gender. I pretty much expect men to make fools of themselves and they rarely let me down. There are a select few that impress me, but they do exist. I expect differently of women, especially dominant, M-type women and am saddened when I see different. This is based ONLY on my personal life experiences and MY feelings on the matter.

However, if someone readily admits their own weaknesses I am almost always much more patient and gentle with them. For me, it is the blowhards, those that put themselves on some sort of uber whatever pedestal and expect people to defer to them when their weaknesses, proving otherwise, are glaring like blinding neon signs.......those are the people I have ZERO tolerance for. I do not suffer fools lightly. If a person professes, in some way, to BE uberwhatever, they damned well better be able to back it up or I will quickly disregard them as weak and foolish.

I am not at all saying I am right, cool, or that my way is 'thee way'. Just explaining my point of view.

edited because I realized I was contradicting myself.......


< Message edited by LaTigresse -- 12/2/2009 7:27:40 AM >


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RE: What, if any difference - your view? - 12/2/2009 7:31:49 AM   
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Ladies, Gentlemen,

I'm interested in your views on what, if any, difference you perceive between male and female dominants?



Female dominants don't think with their dicks as much as male dominants. This might have something to do with the fact that, in the overwhelming majority of cases, our dicks aren't hard wired but rather strapped-on.

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RE: What, if any difference - your view? - 12/2/2009 7:34:56 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I doubt everyone will consider it a blanket gender thing but I know for me there is an underlying difference.

Over all I am pretty harsh in my judgments of others. I always have been. I have grown to see men as being, on average, the weaker gender. I pretty much expect men to make fools of themselves and they rarely let me down. There are a select few that impress me, but they do exist. I expect differently of women, especially dominant, M-type women and am saddened when I see different. This is based ONLY on my personal life experiences and MY feelings on the matter.

However, if someone readily admits their own weaknesses I am almost always much more patient and gentle with them. For me, it is the blowhards, those that put themselves on some sort of uber whatever pedestal and expect people to defer to them when their weaknesses, proving otherwise, are glaring like blinding neon signs.......those are the people I have ZERO tolerance for. I do not suffer fools lightly. If a person professes, in some way, to BE uberwhatever, they damned well better be able to back it up or I will quickly disregard them as weak and foolish.

I am not at all saying I am right, cool, or that my way is 'thee way'. Just explaining my point of view.

edited because I realized I was contradicting myself.......



Even though I'm a male, I have to agree with you on this. While I also believe that we males are usually stronger in more demonstrative/physical ways, the less noticeable and sublime power of the female will most often times lead/guide the man, family and home. At best, a submissive man can lay claim to "I'm the boss, because She lets me be"..lol.

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RE: What, if any difference - your view? - 12/2/2009 8:58:41 PM   
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I really think all you can do is generalize loosely; my husband uses a much more laid-back, subtle style of domination with caring added that many people would say is more feminine.  I'm the one who is much more interested in physical control and pain. I think, however, that a lot of the dynamics between any two people are going to relate to their relative strengths and weaknesses. While I like physical control, I really can't take too many people and actually force them to their knees. However, a raised brow and a glance to the floor will do the same thing, and, really, it's much more fun to have the mental controlling the physical. 

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