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ORIGINAL: KNelson

Ladies, Gentlemen,

I'm interested in your views on what, if any, difference you perceive between male and female dominants?

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ORIGINAL: KNelson

Ladies, Gentlemen,

I'm interested in your views on what, if any, difference you perceive between male and female dominants?

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ORIGINAL: Underumam

I believe it's just a fact of nature that men and women are different in their basic nature.

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ORIGINAL: breatheasone

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ORIGINAL: Underumam

I believe it's just a fact of nature that men and women are different in their basic nature.

This is the truest thing i have EVER read here.

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ORIGINAL: KNelson

Allrighty then. Newbie, obviously -- I should have done a stock search.

However, the question is more about differences in style generally than asking something, IMO, ridiculous like whether female dominance is real or having a set to on the role of physical superior force. On physical superior force any thug can coerce an individual -- that's not what I'm asking about. I do believe that there are differences in the mentality of men and women and I am looking to starting to explore so the question is not idle, either.

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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

I think women in general can be tougher, perhaps even more ruthless!
From what I have personally witnessed with new Dominant men is they are much more cautious when they first start dominating than perhaps a woman would be.
When I was a pro Domme I had a few new Dominant women come to work with me in my dungeon. I found I had to very much curb their sadistic capabilities as they had a tendency to push the client further than he was prepared to go.

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ORIGINAL: Underumam

I'll second that! After a woman goes through childbirth and in general seem to carry the weight of her people on her shoulders(in an emotional sense), she seems to be less sympathetic towards the weaknesses in men and others around her.

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I've worked under/with both males and females in business and education, and while my experiences of working under a female were generally good, I would not have willingly been placed in any position that opposed them. In fact- I at times, have felt very sorry for those who were eaten up and spit out by them in business matters.

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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ORIGINAL: Underumam

I'll second that! After a woman goes through childbirth and in general seem to carry the weight of her people on her shoulders(in an emotional sense), she seems to be less sympathetic towards the weaknesses in men and others around her.

I seriously have high doubts about the accuracy of this statement. I have no idea if this is based on your personal observations, but I have found quite the opposite in my own personal observation. That said, in either account, personal observation doesn't make a proven theory or fact.

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I've worked under/with both males and females in business and education, and while my experiences of working under a female were generally good, I would not have willingly been placed in any position that opposed them. In fact- I at times, have felt very sorry for those who were eaten up and spit out by them in business matters.

Again, depends. Believe it or not, in my organization, there are two men and two women in senior management positions. Of the four, I am the one that people find the easiest to approach because of my nurturing side. I also set clear expectations and boundaries, and to date, have rarely "eaten up and spit any out". To me, that would be loss of composure and an automatic admittance of defeat.

- LA

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ORIGINAL: Underumam

lol. I did not mean to offend, was of course, speaking from my observations only. :) But hey- it was NOT the females who began writing "tear in my beer songs"..lol......

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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ORIGINAL: Underumam

lol. I did not mean to offend, was of course, speaking from my observations only. :) But hey- it was NOT the females who began writing "tear in my beer songs"..lol......

You didn't offend at all! I'm never offended by a difference of opinion. :-)

And tears in beer? Oh gosh... I like making a boy cry... maybe his tears will make beer taste better! You are giving me ideas...

- LA