TheTopHat
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Just to be petty -- Slaves are subordinate not inferior, and in relation to these meetings there is no role of slave / master, it is a first date at best. I maintain common courtesy is the rule for all parties here, and any expectations be it of latitude in time of arrival or anything else should be equal. BTW I presume you are suggesting that if 2 parties are equal the "correct" wait time would be 15 minutes? ;) quote:
ORIGINAL: jamesthehumanrug greetings,mistress of ga permission ,to-reply to your post.... in reguards,to most formal and informal rules,of thumb.... quote:
ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa Recent posts have me wondering about this. If a Dom/sub is meeting someone in real life from online, and they are late, without a phone call or any contact (The one waiting may not have a cell) how much time do you feel the one waiting should wait before questioning the integrity and honesty of the one who is late? An hour? Two hours? 9 hours? If the person is late by 4 hours, should the one waiting automatically assume that they have been "played"? I am not just talking about truesub4u, (she has a phone, I can't imagine why he hasnt called her) but there have been countless posts on this forum from people who were just crushed and thought that they had been played, only for it to turn out good in the long run. Then again, there have been the optimistic ones who felt that it would work out, only to find out that they had been played. Thoughts? Opinions? usually the unspoken residual rule is 20 minutes if waitng for a superior, or teacher ;professeur;at a designated time; place; etc ;and , only ten minutes waiting time for a late student, or sub, or slave, by the top waiting for a bottom, that's considered:normal; expected,or fair ;considerate;and, legal; cause life's too short to be abnormal ,and, annoying , about anything; then you can get on and, proceed;take the next step ,from there.... in an executive position ;one has to be able to make every executive decision,not be left with a position ,of indecison. "he who hesitates is lost"(some vip said that....). in college ; 10 minutes wait for students ,if your gonna' teach something....and ,20 minutes wait, if your gonna' learn something.... ....,that's considered RESPECT. in sum= 10 minute wait, for a inferior and 20 minutes waiting time ,for a superior. its:simple rule, that if broken says :somethings quite not rite...or interesting????? thankyou goddess; misstress;( top), for your time and considerations, for my information ,at your service,to serve one,of THE-most revered online goddesses..... however:an expected informal rule of service is ,that, AS A DRIVER; 24/7 LIFETIME (slave),in-SERVICE FOR MY MISTRESS ; I WAIT, FOREVER!(no-time-clocks), UNLESS SIGNALED TO DO ,OTHERWISE ;MY TIME MEANS, NOTHING ;there is no time, that doesnt evolve around her alone.... I WILL,ALWAYS BE THERE ; WHERE EVER SHE WANTS;AS HER 'TIN-SOLDIER,' TO WAIT,IN A displayed,and,DICIPLINED MANNOR, in other words: she can ignore me; i am ,at attention.....
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TheTopHat (and Cane) Just my 2.31 cents (In Canada you see)
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