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What do you consider effective punishment? Of course this depends on the individuals involved, but what's worked for you as a dominant, and what's worked on you, as a submissive?

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ORIGINAL: IronBear


I really can't comment on your post because you stipulated D/s relationship of which I have no experience in that specific scene.

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ORIGINAL: DragonNphoenix

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What do you consider effective punishment? Of course this depends on the individuals involved, but what's worked for you as a dominant, and what's worked on you, as a submissive?

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Well, punishment is different than discipline and correction. Punishment only occurs for me when i have done something that is totally disrespectful or inconsiderate. Then, i have to experience something i hate, hate, hate - not being permitted to communicate with Master for a specified period of time, or having my collar removed. But these are 2 very severe punishments for me.

If corporal punishment is administered i don't enjoy the pain because emotionally i'm not at all in the same place as i am when i receive pain for the pleasure of it. It actually feels totally different to me, so i don't seek it out in the form of punishment.