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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/10/2009 1:53:16 AM

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I'm fit & healthy,i would trust my captors to decide how mild or extreme they wish to be.

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/10/2009 1:57:14 AM

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The abuse is secondary & totaly up to my captors,it's the prolonged restraint that intersts me most.I would trust my captors to use there common sense.

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/10/2009 2:25:14 AM

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The abuse is secondary & totaly up to my captors,it's the prolonged restraint that intersts me most.I would trust my captors to use there common sense.

I think their common sense would say not to do it because if anything goes wrong their butt is in jail - to be blunt, torturing you for a few days isn't worth that. I think you are so caught up in your fantasy that you are unwilling to acknowledge that reality.

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/10/2009 2:35:10 AM

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Being tortured isn't what i want primarely,prolonged restraint is the most important thing to me.I am looking for captors that like addministering chair restraint,i would hope they would have the common snce to ensure my life is not threatened but also i would like to take the scenario as far as possible.I have experienced prolonged chair restraint & i have no doubt that i could have taken it much much further if sercumstances would have allowed.As far as i am concerned it is entirely possible.

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/10/2009 2:40:28 AM

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I realize that. But the bottom line is that if you are restrained you need to be monitered. If you are thinking, five hours then that is easy. If you want days or weeks, that is much more complicated.

Leaving you alone while bound, at any point, means that something could happen to. Regardless of how low the risk or how many times you have done it in the past something could happen. About once a year we hear about someone who died in the news because those "freaks" left someone tied up and gagged. And in the end, they are responsible for the death - even they escape jail, that is a heavy burden to carry.

So your kinkster who is using their common sense is, more likely than not, going to realize that really you have made this all about you. This is all about what YOU want because YOU want to be tied up. You aren't caring about what happens to THEM if anything goes wrong and you aren't willing to scarifice your kink by being untied. While you say you don't want the control, you ARE in control here because it's all about you.

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/10/2009 2:55:59 AM

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It's not realy all about me.I am looking for someone who likes to addminister restraint as much as i like to recieve it so it would be an equal thing,there getting what they want & i'm getting what i want.There are ways of monitoring without having to be phisicaly there & i would ensure that these would be in place.There are dangers in most bdsm & indeed in everyday life in general,we don't stay in all day on the off chance that we might get hit with a car if we go outside.I realise that what i am looking for is a bit extreme but i don't take it lightly,i know the dangers & it would ultimately be an agreement between me & my captors.I am not just going to give myself to the first person that asks,i will make sure that the scenario is discused at some legnth until all parties come to a practical & workable agreement that siuts all.

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/10/2009 3:08:53 AM

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It's not realy all about me.I am looking for someone who likes to addminister restraint as much as i like to recieve it so it would be an equal thing,there getting what they want & i'm getting what i want.There are ways of monitoring without having to be phisicaly there & i would ensure that these would be in place.

You keep talking about these ways but don't go into them. Why not share the knowledge?

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There are dangers in most bdsm & indeed in everyday life in general,we don't stay in all day on the off chance that we might get hit with a car if we go outside.

Yes. However, if I am randomly hit by a car, my owner doesn't go to jail. Big difference.

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I realise that what i am looking for is a bit extreme but i don't take it lightly,i know the dangers & it would ultimately be an agreement between me & my captors.I am not just going to give myself to the first person that asks,i will make sure that the scenario is discused at some legnth until all parties come to a practical & workable agreement that siuts all.

I'm not really talking about your risk here. I'm talking about theirs, something I don't think you've considered nearly enough.

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/10/2009 4:37:02 AM

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It is a beauty, metal with a lightly cushioned black leather seat/backrest. It has restraint points at the head, shoulders, waist, and legs.. which btw are attached with legs spread open. hmmm.. It didn't occur to me until now how oddly sexual that is for an official police restraint chair..
It has wheels for ease of transport from one room to the next. I got it from someone who bought it at a county auction from the local sheriffs office. :) it still has the county ID.
Great chair, very fun.. and only cost me 80 bucks.

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Cool. It is something I have considered for a few hours, since I do own a police restraint chair in my stash of stuff.

Where did you get it!? That is all kinds of awesome! I'd love to have one of those in my chambers. Hmm, if you ever want to get rid of it, let me know.

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/10/2009 6:30:50 AM

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I have long dreamed of being kept strapped to a chair by,preferably,a group of sadists for a prolonged & long term period without any option of being released should i request it.This situation would be totaly under the control of my captors & i would give full written consent & relinquish my right to freedom.I long to feel the psycological & physical effect of being tightly strapped to a chair & gagged knowing that i must remain there for the foreseeable future regardless of any negative effect this may have on me.To this end i have,after a great deal of thought over a long period of time,finalized a workable scenario which i would dearly love to put into practice.If anybody out there would like to become my captors or knows of anyone who likes to addminister such treatment i would very much like to hear from you so we can take the relevant steps to make this happen.Thankyou.

(CNJDom here:) I'm sure that the OP has been given notice of the sin pertaining to the posting of personal ads in the forums. This sounds like a fantasy without the whole thought process being exercised completely. Besides someone devoting time to watch over you while you are bound, the other wonderful things like hygiene and muscular atrophy, not to mention the other physical side-effects of circulation problems and other unrealized problems manifesting themselves, I would say it would be something to be thought out and worked on more. Maybe build up first like training. If you want to try suffering, then have you sit there with NO binding and punish you when you try to get up...all things are negotiable at one point with that sort of thing. Just a thought...

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/10/2009 6:33:52 AM

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It is a beauty, metal with a lightly cushioned black leather seat/backrest. It has restraint points at the head, shoulders, waist, and legs.. which btw are attached with legs spread open. hmmm.. It didn't occur to me until now how oddly sexual that is for an official police restraint chair..
It has wheels for ease of transport from one room to the next. I got it from someone who bought it at a county auction from the local sheriffs office. :) it still has the county ID.
Great chair, very fun.. and only cost me 80 bucks.

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Cool. It is something I have considered for a few hours, since I do own a police restraint chair in my stash of stuff.

Where did you get it!? That is all kinds of awesome! I'd love to have one of those in my chambers. Hmm, if you ever want to get rid of it, let me know.

Now that chair sounds interesting!

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/10/2009 10:39:06 AM

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Yes there is always room for compromise.I would not jump into something like this without discusing it thoroughly with any wouldbe captors and a sensible arrangement is aggreed to.

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/10/2009 11:04:03 AM

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There is no sensible agreement that comes anything close to what you want... in my opinion. You have been given some good advice and things to think about. You continue to defend your fantasy and wish to talk about it more... which comes as close to having your fantasy as any sane person will go with you... so more power to ya. My last comment unless I must answer a response to someone is... seek medical information and I don't mean by way of google.

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/10/2009 11:52:35 AM

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Wouldn't it just be easier to have a goldfish?

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/10/2009 1:40:29 PM

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I have have a similiar fantasty of being chained to the radiator in my apt. by an ankle shackle. However, in my fantasy the chain is long enough for me to move through out my apt. to function and do what I need to do. I would also have the key for an emergency.

With long term restraints keep in mind blood circulation, who's going to care for you, what about your job ect?

Me too. I even imagined a device based on those supermarket trolley locks attached to the ankle bracelet that I would snap the end of a chain into, then when I moved to another room I would have to snap that room's chain into the device to release the first one and so on. So I could move around the house and do things whilst still being confined to the house for long periods of time. I wonder if there's anyone out there with engineering skills that could let me know if this would work in reality?

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/10/2009 1:52:09 PM

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Yes there is always room for compromise.I would not jump into something like this without discusing it thoroughly with any wouldbe captors and a sensible arrangement is aggreed to.

Like what? The sensible is to untie you for part of the day so they don't incur any risks of jail and/or lawsuits. You keep saying you've figured out ways, why don't you tell us?

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/11/2009 3:54:47 AM

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I have no dobt that anyone who may be interested in participating in this scinario would not be willing to put themselves at risk of lawsiuts &/or imprisonment so it is for this reason that dialog would have to be had to agree a stragegy that would suit all involved.I am always ready to compromise,what i have explained so far is a starting point,my ideal scenario.It seems that most replies i have recieved so far all seem to assume that any suiters will not have the inteligence to know the moral or leagal limitations,i credit people with more sence than that.

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/11/2009 5:17:53 AM

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I have no dobt that anyone who may be interested in participating in this scinario would not be willing to put themselves at risk of lawsiuts &/or imprisonment so it is for this reason that dialog would have to be had to agree a stragegy that would suit all involved.I am always ready to compromise,what i have explained so far is a starting point,my ideal scenario.It seems that most replies i have recieved so far all seem to assume that any suiters will not have the inteligence to know the moral or leagal limitations,i credit people with more sence than that.

No... we are crediting them with the sense to know to stay away. That's why we are telling you that your odds are slim.

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/11/2009 7:54:34 AM

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Is it wrong that I keep picturing that woman whose ass fused to the toilet seat?

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/11/2009 7:56:58 AM

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Oh god... every time I think about I have to wonder why her boyfriend wasn't concerned that she hadn't gotten off the toliet for TWO YEARS!

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/11/2009 7:28:43 PM

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Just as a tip, the top probably wants another sub or two to keep a constant watch, water and exercise of the restrained sub, since they need to watch them even when asleep, as well as poke them regulary and get them moving to prevent DVT. Punish the free sub's by getting them to clean the bound sub.

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