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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/12/2009 3:33:37 AM   
strapchair


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Status: offline 		I have visited many bdsm sites but they all seem to be filled with people just wanting to play silly games.They say 'be carefull what you wish for coz you might just get it'.I'm a massochist who likes it rough & prety extreme & theres many of us about & doubtless there are many sadists who like the same so heres hoping.

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/12/2009 3:38:33 AM   
strapchair


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Status: offline 		That's a very nice idea.I was thinking more along the lines of cctv,voice monitors & remote electric collar,the dog control kind,for remote supervision.

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/12/2009 3:40:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ok... so now those who believe in common sense and not doing things that could get them sent to jail/live with someone's death if something goes wrong are playing silly games? Good to know...

I really don't what your response has to do with any of my posts so that is pretty much all I can gather from your post.

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/12/2009 3:44:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		When you are restrained you are free of responsibility. How lovely....we all want and need that sometimes.

All the responsibility is on the Master/Dom. He is responsible for your safety in all ways, from environmental to physical and emotional.

Long term restraint, as you are asking for as opposed to a normal session, would be a huge undertaking that would put the Dom in the role as caretaker...unable to leave the home, meal preparation and feeding/hydrating the sub, monitoring the physical condition of the submissive, from circulation to blood sugar, as well as ensuring they are emotionally well.

And they get.....what in return?


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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/12/2009 8:10:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		I doubt if anyone here will be able to convince this guy it is not all about him. His mind is set and we all know how people can get so locked on to something they will continue to harp on it until people start to peg them as beyond hope.

I do think it is possible to find someone to help him in this, though they may not be doing that to help him get freaky. And if that sort of lunatic gets his hands on the guy well.. then the OP deserves what he gets. I hold no sympathy.

Finding someone who is as into this kink as he is AND who is willing to take the risk along with the responsibility will be difficult. It would probably be much easier if the OP was female. Although when we read about females being kept as slaves in the news, they are generally also forced to labor in the household, you know.. like regular slaves. Not the sort that want their balls kicked in every 10 mins.

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/13/2009 9:33:01 PM   
strapchair


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Status: offline 		Yes i deserve what i get.Hope it comes soon.Thanks for your input,but your just as closed minded as me.you just don't relize it.I hope all your dreams come true but don't look down on me coz there diferent,each to his own.Merry christmas.............................................................Know your mind coz your mind is all you got.

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/13/2009 11:49:46 PM   
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I think the point of several other posters, and certainly my point is, what -does- the other party get out of this?  Okay, you're there, immobile, happy as a clam, doing NOTHING.  So they get to sit there and watch you do nothing?

Most people who are into this sort of thing, I'm assuming, as I don't know any personally, want the alleged victim to fight and scream and protest and try to escape.  Not just sit there, happy as.. you know, the clam analogy is pretty good, as they also just sit there doing nothing. 

Until you can explain to us why someone would want to devote their lives to caring for your immobile self, I don't see how you can object to our being curious about it.  If I wanted someone immobile, I'd save up for a RealDoll. 




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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/14/2009 2:00:27 AM   
strapchair


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Status: offline 		I'm looking for someone who likes this & also in my restrained state they can do whatever they want with me,beating,asphixiation,electricution,genital torture etc etc what ever turns them on.Nice eh.If there willing to ensure my continued safety then i am willing to grant them a plaything to carry out there every sadistic desire,if safety is the correct word allthough you'll probably dissagree,but bdsm by it's nature isn't supposed to be lovey dovey.I'm a realist,believe it or not,& i'm frankly fed up with so caled misstresses & masters who profess to being doms who in reality only want there own needs satisfied & believe that a sub only exists to siut them & make there lifes easier but believe it or not even subs have there needs,i think its no coinsidence that all bdsm sites i've been on all seem to be filled with people,the same people year on year,who never seem to get what there looking for,i've decided to be honest & truethfull about what i want so there is no mistake.However extreme it may be to you it's what i want & dreamed of for many years &,fully aware of the dangers,i'm willing to take my chances,we only live once.

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/14/2009 2:21:53 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have read an account of a male sub who managed to be imprisoned privately but for real quite a few times... once or twice he managed to escape and was disappointed that he had managed to get away...
i would not know how to look for the thread, but it was a very interesting read and i was quite sure the man was speaking the truth... sometimes you come across these gems here... i hope you post your experiences should you succeed...
There was also a thread a while back on the first experiences board about kidnapping which was very good... written by a professional Domme who might play like this with the right 'client'... the 'client' wrote in too, he was delighted with her work.

I totally agree with you that there is nothing wrong with having these desires and trying to realise the scenario... and i hope for you that your perfect match is out there. I suspect you have most chance if you look for a professional Domme.

Maybe you could improve your chances by compromising on your duration time... maybe 2 weeks max rather than indefinitely will make your search easier...
If the experience is enjoyed much by all parties you can always repeat a few months later eh?

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/14/2009 3:16:43 AM   
strapchair


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Status: offline 		Thankyou for your possitive reply,it's the only possitive one i've recieved.I would compromise on most aspects of this scenario but it is extremely important to me that i don't have a timetable for release.Even if the captors aggreed to keep me restrained for a year or more just knowing that i am going to be released would spoil the entire experience.It's the knowlege that i am there for the juration without any control or prospect of release for the near future that realy excites me.I have been restrained to a chair for ten days,it was extremely uncomfortable & i felt moments of panic & at times felt periods of claustrophobia & allthough they were freinds we agreed that they would have the would have the run of my house as long as i was restrained.I was'nt beaten or abused aside from a few slaps & genital squeezing but i was left for prolonged periods,the most being almost 2 days,without supervision,until they came to 'water me'.Despite the periods of panic,claustrophobia,cramp & hunger the most dissapointing aspect was being released,allthough i was relieved,more phisycaly than psychologicaly,when i was released it was only a very short time before i felt the longing to be put back in that chair,minutes rather than hours.We did agree to repeat the scinario with a few modifications,the chair was built quickly without much thought to comfort or strapping arrangement,but unfortunately they split & went there seperate ways so it never came to pass but it did teach me a few lessons regarding prolonged restraint & i have never wanted something as much as this ever since.I sincerely believe that there is someone out there who would like to addminister this type of scinario as much as i like to recieve it,i just hope there on this site.

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/14/2009 3:24:28 AM   
ranja


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Status: offline 		You have to search threads and hopefully you come across a poster that you might be interested in... i don't know how to make a link for you but
i found this: RE: Insane situation? - 1/26/2009 11:09:52 AM 
it was not the one i meant but relatively recent and sounded reasonable at least to have some email exchange with him maybe?

I understand that a desire can be overwhelming... but i would think it is a good thing if you could rationalize your overwhelming desire into a more managable two week treat... suitable for repeat... like taking holidays from reality... work your brain around it and you might get almost what you want, which is better than nothing...

good luck

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/14/2009 4:03:49 AM   
strapchair


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Status: offline 		Thankyou for your help.

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/14/2009 2:20:28 PM   
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quote:

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I won't tell if they don't.



I seem to recall an incidence where a mentally ill woman stayed in her boyfriends bathroom sitting on the toilet until the toilet grew into her butt.
The boyfriend finally called EMS, and he ended up going to jail for abuse of a mentally incompetent.
Wheither they tell or not, they are responsible for what happens to you - because you sound a bit cracked. Personal opinion from someone who HAD to spend 13 hours in a very small, very cramped seat, restricted movement, and paid over $1000 for the privilige (flew to New Zealand). Definitely not an erotic experience for this kiwi!

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/14/2009 3:10:06 PM   
strapchair


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Status: offline 		Yes i keep being told about the woman fused to the toilet seat,unfortunately i can't find the story.I suspect this is a case of abuse,by that i mean someone to whom this has happened without there consent & from what i can gather,by someone who clearly is at least impertial to there wellbeing/concern for what ever reason.What i am asking for will be with thought,planning & compromise,i suspect that you may have rushed into your scinario & then thought too much about the negatives afterward.I too have had such an experience,although i did'nt go to new zeeland for it,& i too did it without the thought & attention that such a scenario deserves,as a result i felt all the negative aspects of the situation,hunger,thirst,cramp,aches & pains etc & on being released i could bearly move for 10 mins or so.It did however glean some inportant ponderings & it did give me some food for thought.Unlike you i felt,in spite of the phisycal discomfort that preceded,i felt that once i was mobile again i realy wanted to be put back in the chair,unfortunately the couple that agreed to carry out this scenario & also agreed to a future re enactment of the same scenario split & left me with an overwhelming desire to precure this scenario.Unfortunately that has'nt been the case as yet but it has had me thinking about the situation & unlike you my overiding memory has'nt been nagative,indeed i have thought about this scenario as a viable & workable proposition to anyone who cares to 'give it a go'.I am not the sort of person that lives in a dreamworld & i am only too aware of the dangers & pitfalls that such a scinario invites but i am also aware that,despite it's cruel & dangerous nature,there is someone out there who would be willing to enstate it.This is the only perv i have & appart from this i am an ordinary,boring,everyday joe,i'm getting too old to put this off for much longer so it's now or never.I know it's extreme & i know its not everyones cup of tea but it's mine & it's the only one i've got.Pain is pleasure,imobility is paradise,the feeling of having thick leather straps pulled around ancles,wrists,arms & body is something joyeous & the thought of remaining there at my captors will to be used & abused unable to do anything about it is all encompassing,i suspect that all doms would enjoy this & all subs also,i just want to take it to it's infinate & ultimate limit,doms willing.

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/14/2009 10:10:00 PM   
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Here you go.  One link.

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/23595533/ns/health-more_health_news/


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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/15/2009 8:37:40 AM   
strapchair


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Status: offline 		Thankyou for that.A strange story.Seams they both have psycological problems.

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/15/2009 5:19:45 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Llyren
Here you go.  One link.
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/23595533/ns/health-more_health_news/


That's demonstrates of one of the unwritten rules of Domming, which is why us safety nazi's are giving some much advice. Tolerance of SSC/RACK is good, but at some stage you have to say, "Speaking as the Bitch in charge, the way you're planning to do it, is just plain wrong, and will get worse the more you do it!".

I'd seriously recommend StrapChair finds a nursing textbook, which covers bedridden care. There's a century of experience on the right and wrong ways to keep the immobile, alive, healthy and enjoying their bodies. Coma patients and the nutty do what he does, everyday. But it takes more work than you'll think. And every vanilla professionals get it wrong with bedsores, DVT, fungal growths, nappy rash, limb loss, death.....

Life requires effort, if you're not doing your minimum, someone else has to do it for you.

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/16/2009 12:37:17 AM   
strapchair


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Status: offline 		I would be quite happy to allow the captors to release me from the chair when they wish to do so for what ever reason ie bathing,exersise etc but i would prefer to keep this to the absolute minimum whilst maintaning health.After all i want this experience to continue for as long as possible so illness would not be of any advantage.This sort of scenario,by it's very nature,requires a certain level of fitness in order to sustain it.Lookily i am fit & healthy which is a good starting point.I realise you personaly are not comfortable with what i am proposing & i also know by talking to countless doms that most are very tame but i don't like tame i prefer to stretch the scenario to it's near limits.Thats my kink & i know that finding someone to help me realise it will be difficult but i'm not getting any younger & after a lifetime of 'normal' relationships i've decided to go for it before its too late.I don't want to look back in ten years time & regret not trying.

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/17/2009 2:40:13 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: strapchair

I would be quite happy to allow the captors to release me from the chair when they wish to do so for what ever reason ie bathing,exersise etc but i would prefer to keep this to the absolute minimum whilst maintaning health.After all i want this experience to continue for as long as possible so illness would not be of any advantage.This sort of scenario,by it's very nature,requires a certain level of fitness in order to sustain it.Lookily i am fit & healthy which is a good starting point.I realise you personaly are not comfortable with what i am proposing & i also know by talking to countless doms that most are very tame but i don't like tame i prefer to stretch the scenario to it's near limits.Thats my kink & i know that finding someone to help me realise it will be difficult but i'm not getting any younger & after a lifetime of 'normal' relationships i've decided to go for it before its too late.I don't want to look back in ten years time & regret not trying.


Sorry to rez the thread but I wanted to draw attention to this in the hopes that the OP comes back to think about it.

You will allow your captors to release you? And you doubt, for a second, that this isn't all about you?

Try to find it all you want but own the fact that they aren't the tops here and they aren't in control. Just pay someone to scratch your itch.

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RE: long term prolonged restraint - 12/17/2009 2:51:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		there was a guy who kept a fatgirl on the toilet so long her skin grew on the toilet.....any link pullers around, it was news around here!!!! (obviously the Dom wasn't getting any assplay.....)

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