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RE: question for male doms - 12/17/2009 6:25:40 AM

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ORIGINAL: bibiswitch

thanks for your answers, you who answered properly (since my request was not respected)

Maybe you don't understand the format. this is a public forum. anyone can answer to anything you say. That's kind of the way it works. If you want the power to set up rules, go start a private mail list of which you are the owner. If you get posts that you know immedeately are not what you want, skip them.
I don't so much mind when people say what they are looking for in their O.P., but whining that a variety people answered is just silly in a public forum.

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oh, and by the way, since Freud was so wrong, who you would recommend?

thanks

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"If I have been able to see further than others, it is because I have stood on the shoulders of giants."

Try anyone who stood on Freud's shoulders.

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RE: question for male doms - 12/17/2009 6:36:08 AM

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Maybe you don't understand the format. this is a public forum. anyone can answer to anything you say. That's kind of the way it works. If you want the power to set up rules, go start a private mail list of which you are the owner. If you get posts that you know immedeately are not what you want, skip them.
I don't so much mind when people say what they are looking for in their O.P., but whining that a variety people answered is just silly in a public forum.

no whining here at all
silly is to read a topic about male doms and answer a question about male doms, "having" read that specific info is asked

anyway, back to the topic, males doms, not trying to make you doubt your orientation but how much often does the term sadomasochism exists?

also, another question, what would make you more excited? playing with a totally submissive and obedient or trying to break a submissive who objects ? (consensual ofcourse)

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RE: question for male doms - 12/17/2009 6:48:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: bibiswitch

hello

I just wondered how do male Doms, Tops etc react in femdom porn?
do you get aroused? it does nothing to you?

please only male doms answer, thanks

I just wondered how do male Doms, Tops etc react in femdom porn?

Ans: Usually, male Doms, Tops, etc. do not appear in femdom porn! And if they did, they would have a large number of reactions. I can think of three-ways off the top of my head, but I doubt the producers of femdom porn would ask for such a person to appear.

bibiswitch, if you're going to play the "That's not an answer to my question" game, at least get the question right! LOL!

Also, as of this writing, you have ONE vanilla cone and only 7 posts. Now, that's not to say you don't have anything to say or ask, but maybe you should listen carefully to the comments about your original (intended) question a little more seriously, rather than stamping your feet, crying, "I don't want to play that way."

There's a certain culture here. You really should try to understand it! Think of the Corporate cultues you have come across - not every one was to your personal liking, but you must understand that the playing fields of life operate a certain way for good reason. Try to figure out the reason before trying to change it.

In particular , CollarMe message boards are free and open to all posters. Thus, you will get all manner of responses. My least favorite is that of the person who sees the current message fly-by and they answer that comment without doing a full read-thru. Well, guess what? THAT IS LIFE!

Regards, Lance Hughes (who writes with 25+ years in the scene and almost 60 years on this planet)

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RE: question for male doms - 12/17/2009 6:59:30 AM

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In response to your 3rd and 4th questions: START NEW STRINGS!

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RE: question for male doms - 12/17/2009 10:23:23 AM

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Regards, Lance Hughes (who writes with 25+ years in the scene and almost 60 years on this planet)

Lance Hughes is near the top of my list of CM 'what a waste' members (you know, a waste because *I* don't have a penis. Or a mustache, I'm afriad). But at least the post gave me an excuse to go perve You again.

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RE: question for male doms - 12/17/2009 11:26:25 AM

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Because, as we all know, Freud was absolutely correct in all of his other theories as well.

By the way, if you can't hear the sarcasm that was intended with, allow Me to put it more plainly. The idea that masochism does not exist in some males is utter hogwash.

*blinks*

Hmmm...I think that is like saying that ALL females have a slave heart

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RE: question for male doms - 12/18/2009 6:38:51 AM

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Regards, Lance Hughes (who writes with 25+ years in the scene and almost 60 years on this planet)

Lance Hughes is near the top of my list of CM 'what a waste' members (you know, a waste because *I* don't have a penis. Or a mustache, I'm afriad). But at least the post gave me an excuse to go perve You again.

tsatske: THANKS! As to your potential to experience the "Lance Ride," various women have enjoyed being under my hand. I have always played with all genders with a heavy <grin> emphasis on gay males. But after divoricing my wife, my interest in LTRs has been limited to gay males. ..... now I have to go perve your profile.

Well, you are right..... lack of penis and 'stache seem to be a problem for LTR, but otherwise you and I would be chatting on the other side. I like your 5 things very, very much, but that old bugaboo of "Location, location, location" is a deal breaker for us both.

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RE: question for male doms - 12/18/2009 10:29:32 AM

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Because, as we all know, Freud was absolutely correct in all of his other theories as well.

By the way, if you can't hear the sarcasm that was intended with, allow Me to put it more plainly. The idea that masochism does not exist in some males is utter hogwash.

*blinks*

Hmmm...I think that is like saying that ALL females have a slave heart

It is the same as saying it. Neither of which I believe is correct. Masochism, submission, and all kinds of lovely other labels that we use regarding WIITWD, don't rely on whether someone has a penis or not.

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RE: question for male doms - 12/28/2009 8:06:33 PM

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It always cracks me up how defensive and annoyed women get when you bring up the name of a shrink who's been dead for so long.

She quoted 2 women, a man and a couple (not sure if the man or women posted that one). Yet you make it into something "women" do, now that cracks me up. I could give a rats ass about Frued.

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RE: question for male doms - 12/28/2009 8:07:52 PM

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And I said NICE things about Frued in that convo. and I thinks I'm a woman. maybe....

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RE: question for male doms - 12/28/2009 8:15:22 PM

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Yes, you did tsatske. And I perved Steel's pic and he sure looks like a man to me.

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Freud said

I stopped reading after this; I'd advise you to put down the Freud and read someone more modern. Someone whose theories haven't been discredited.

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RE: question for male doms - 1/19/2010 12:28:46 PM

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I like the LOOK of a lot of femdom actresses, from costume to makeup and such. The activities do nothing for me. I react badly in reality to femdom. I was once cuffed to a wooden bed (without prior consent or discussions of a safe word) and my partner wouldn't let me out, just giggled and kept playing. After several attempts to indicate that I wasn't playing and letting me loose was absolutely necessary, I broke the headboard post off and walked out of the house, clothes in hand, one bedpost cuffed to my wrist.

We stopped seeing each other after that.

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RE: question for male doms - 1/19/2010 6:03:52 PM

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ORIGINAL: bibiswitch

hello

I just wondered how do male Doms, Tops etc react in femdom porn?
do you get aroused? it does nothing to you?

please only male doms answer, thanks

is she naked?

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RE: question for male doms - 1/19/2010 9:36:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: bibiswitch

hello

I just wondered how do male Doms, Tops etc react in femdom porn?
do you get aroused? it does nothing to you?

please only male doms answer, thanks

Femdom/male sub...ehh....no thanks. Does nothing for me (insert failure sound effect from Pac-Man video game).
Femdom /female sub? I'll watch that and enjoy because I can relate to that on a common ground sort of level. The first one though...I'm just not going to feel comfortable and enjoy watching some guy getting his junk handed to him.

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