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amy19808 -> Finding a way to eat (12/13/2009 12:12:59 PM)
I am sure this topic has been debated in the past, but I am looking for advise so that I can explore and fulfill my fantasy. Especially as a crossdresser, where I feel like a woman, I have a fantasy of being forced to eat cum. I have seen a professional dominiatrix, to try to help me fulfill this fantasy, but after orgasm the whole passion just goes away, its like this submissive side of me dies down. What are some tips/advise so that I can fulfill my desire of eating cum.

Justme696 -> RE: Finding a way to eat (12/13/2009 12:15:27 PM)
uhmm why didn't she push you more to make you eat? It is not just about not beeing in the mood..also about obeying if she tells you to.

agirl -> RE: Finding a way to eat (12/13/2009 12:21:19 PM)
Perhaps eat someone else's cum, or bring some with you from a previous wank.... and eat that while you're still up for it. agirl

kanina -> RE: Finding a way to eat (12/13/2009 12:31:41 PM)
its strange to me that the submission side vanish when you have an orgasm...

amy19808 -> RE: Finding a way to eat (12/13/2009 12:32:43 PM)
I would love to eat a previous wank, but I snap out of the mood so fast, that I dispose everything. I dont no if I should just tell the dom that I need to be forced to eat it, or is there a way to get the feeling back quickly so that I can get back in the mood to eat the cum?

amy19808 -> RE: Finding a way to eat (12/13/2009 12:34:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kanina its strange to me that the submission side vanish when you have an orgasm... That is the most strange part of me as well, b/c I get so submissive, and even willing to eat all the precum, but right after orgasm, instantly I snap out.

dreamerdreaming -> RE: Finding a way to eat (12/13/2009 12:43:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: amy19808 quote: ORIGINAL: kanina its strange to me that the submission side vanish when you have an orgasm... That is the most strange part of me as well, b/c I get so submissive, and even willing to eat all the precum, but right after orgasm, instantly I snap out. If this is happpening to you, then your submission mode is closely tied to your hormone levels. When your testosterone level drops, your feelings of submission do also. Duh. [sm=Groaner.gif] [sm=gaah.gif] Why is it that so many guys seem clueless about being ruled by their hormones? [8\|]

Justme696 -> RE: Finding a way to eat (12/13/2009 12:44:49 PM)
quote: about being ruled by their hormones? mm I know times when females have the same ;)

agirl -> RE: Finding a way to eat (12/13/2009 12:49:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: amy19808 I would love to eat a previous wank, but I snap out of the mood so fast, that I dispose everything. I dont no if I should just tell the dom that I need to be forced to eat it, or is there a way to get the feeling back quickly so that I can get back in the mood to eat the cum? *It seems like an idea to tell the dom that you onlyfeel submissive* when you're horny and that you'd have to be forced to eat it.** Other than that , maybe don't be too hasty with dumping your cum from a previous wank. Think ahead if you want to give it a serious go. agirl

breatheasone -> RE: Finding a way to eat (12/13/2009 12:50:36 PM)
quote: dreamerdreaming, Why is it that so many guys seem clueless about being ruled by their hormones? As a woman in her mid 40's i understand the concept intimately.[:(]

amy19808 -> RE: Finding a way to eat (12/13/2009 12:58:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: agirl quote: ORIGINAL: amy19808 I would love to eat a previous wank, but I snap out of the mood so fast, that I dispose everything. I dont no if I should just tell the dom that I need to be forced to eat it, or is there a way to get the feeling back quickly so that I can get back in the mood to eat the cum? *It seems like an idea to tell the dom that you onlyfeel submissive* when you're horny and that you'd have to be forced to eat it.** Other than that , maybe don't be too hasty with dumping your cum from a previous wank. Think ahead if you want to give it a serious go. agirl I guess being forced to eat it is the only way, b/c i have gone to her 2 other times to fulfill this fantasy and it just does not go away, and untill I dont fulfill it, I am going to want to try this over and over again. I have seen two other dom's both who have been unsucesfull. Utlimately its my fault, because I end up convincing them, that I dont want to do this, and it works. I have thought about where I can get two women, and one holds me up forces it down. I have also thought about cumming and being left alone for time so that i can calm down, and then eat it. The problem is that after I orgasm and see my self in panties, bra, etc, it is just to humiliating for me to bear, and its just a shock that I have to get out of it. But here lies the problem, b/c as a crossdresser, I also enjoy being feminized. I am sorry I am being confusing, but its just a complicated topic for me.

wykkidesire2plsU -> RE: Finding a way to eat (12/13/2009 12:58:57 PM)
If you dont want to save your cum and dont want to eat your cum because you just came, cant she introduce a third and you eat his cum before you cum....(uhhh do i get a prize for typing cum that many times?)

lally2 -> RE: Finding a way to eat (12/13/2009 1:00:27 PM)
i think that possibly BDSM submission wanes in much the same way as BDSM dominance wanes after orgasm. Ive noticed how Dominants mellow after orgasm - up until then theyre deadly [:D], i think old cum would be foul. ew! - feel sick.., i would think you wank with one hand and as the cum comes out you catch it in youre other hand and eat it that way.

CarrieO -> RE: Finding a way to eat (12/13/2009 1:02:04 PM)
So, I guess you didn't like the answers you got when you posted a similar question on the "Ask a Mistress" forum. http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=2890348

amy19808 -> RE: Finding a way to eat (12/13/2009 1:23:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CarrieO So, I guess you didn't like the answers you got when you posted a similar question on the "Ask a Mistress" forum. http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=2890348 I liked the answer, and appreciate it them, but I was trying to find sub/slaves to get a different prespective.

dreamerdreaming -> RE: Finding a way to eat (12/13/2009 1:26:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wykkidesire2plsU If you dont want to save your cum and dont want to eat your cum because you just came, cant she introduce a third and you eat his cum before you cum....(uhhh do i get a prize for typing cum that many times?) GREAT IDEA!!! [:D] writing it down for later

ranja -> RE: Finding a way to eat (12/14/2009 12:41:18 PM)
personally i find it strange to 'eat' cum... like how? would you deposit it on a little plate and use cutlery? i just swallow the stuff , or lick it up... maybe you could combine it with a nice sweet treat like syrup or mars mellows to make it more palatable...

Missokyst -> RE: Finding a way to eat (12/14/2009 2:03:10 PM)
This is going to sound gross but it will work. Get yourself a small capped apothecary jar, the type that hold a few ounces of liquid. Find some time to wank and make sure that you drizzle that into your new jar. You can freeze it if you want and pull it out again until you can fill the thing (those lid openings are tiny!). Once it is full thaw it out to room temperature (frozen should not count!) Next time you have the urge to be forced to eat it will be handy. Personally I don't get why men have this fantasy or they are afraid of tasting themselves. I am sweet, and never had an issue with licking up my own juice, before or after orgasm. quote: ORIGINAL: amy19808 I would love to eat a previous wank, but I snap out of the mood so fast, that I dispose everything. I dont no if I should just tell the dom that I need to be forced to eat it, or is there a way to get the feeling back quickly so that I can get back in the mood to eat the cum?

petitbateau -> RE: Finding a way to eat (12/14/2009 2:05:27 PM)
although I didn't indulge in the practice too much, for obvious reasons of health, I must say that cold cum is horrible indeed. it must be tasted directly or nearly from the source. >,> not everyone likes the taste or the smell too... you should just start on a low level, probably tasting your own cum a litte bit and every time a litte bit more... even if your submssive side "disappear" at least you should keep the curiosity or the fantasy about it, isn't it? °__° step by step, that's the best option. involving someone else would be easier though (but hence health risks involved >,> )

dragonseeker -> RE: Finding a way to eat (12/14/2009 11:08:23 PM)
If you are flexible enough you might just be able to cum in your own mouth. Easiest way would probably be to lay on your back with your legs and feet above your head on the floor, see the yoga position 'Halasana' . Don't know if you would be able to cum in a position like that, but you might want to give it a try.

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