LafayetteLady
Posts: 7683
Joined: 5/2/2007 From: Northern New Jersey Status: offline
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FR- Things like bolding, italics, underlining even changing font colors are fine. Several people here have one screen name but are two people, the OP and Mercnbeth are good examples of that. They each post in a different color which I find wonderfully helpful. Helps me to know who is "speaking." I will say that if someone actually told you that the example you gave was offensive, THEY have a problem, not you. You shouldn't be worried about offending someone for something so petty. I know that I do not capitalize "dom" or "master" when typing because I am rarely using it as a proper noun. It isn't someone's name and in any case, they are not MY dom or master. I'm sure that offends many. I type a person's screen name as they have it unless it is all caps, but that's just me. Now if you were doing one of those AlTeRnAtInG upper and lower cases, I would still not say it was "offensive" just annoying, and I probably wouldn't read the post. Same if someone changes font colors so frequently (like every other word), uses a font that is difficult to read because it is too small, or a color that is difficult to see. Not "offensive" but it makes the reading so difficult that I will just ignore the post. Likewise for the whole I/i slashy speak, it drives me crazy and if the post is so full of it that my eyes start to strain, whatever the poster says becomes irrelevant. I try to type in just simple, normal english. I don't follow any unwritten BDSM posting guidelines and don't intend to start. I will admit though that when I do see something in ALL CAPS, my mind translates it as shouting and I get a headache. Go figure.
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