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RE: Reasons for rejection.... - 12/14/2009 6:31:46 PM   
slvemike4u


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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

One word... democrat.
Clarification please?Is your inference that being a Democrat is grounds for rejection?
I myself have in the past put up with Republican Dommes...we found as long as we didn't discuss politics when in the moment so to speak...there was no real conflict.
Of course in those instances I had the good foresight to only get involved with adult republican woman !

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RE: Reasons for rejection.... - 12/14/2009 6:37:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		It was a friggin joke. Notice the smiley face?

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RE: Reasons for rejection.... - 12/14/2009 6:52:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		Wow...one wonders what meds she is on.  She goes from insta-domme to insecure to prude

I think you should give a prayer of thanks to whomever you pray to that you dodged the bullet on this one.

No collar and she insist on seeing your personal correspondance?  She critiques the pics on your page? which you have no control over by the way.  And seems to me like she doesn't like you being on the boards because she might have to actually prove that she knows what the hell she's doing, less you out her (which I know you wouldn't do, but we are talking insecure here)...which also means she knows you have an ocean of people that you can go to if you questioned any of her tactics.

You my friend just got the greatest Christmas present of all....enjoy!

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RE: Reasons for rejection.... - 12/14/2009 6:55:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

It was a friggin joke. Notice the smiley face?
So was my response...sorry if it didn't come off that way....should have added a smiley face.

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RE: Reasons for rejection.... - 12/14/2009 6:57:20 PM   
slvemike4u


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ORIGINAL: DrkJourney

Wow...one wonders what meds she is on.  She goes from insta-domme to insecure to prude

I think you should give a prayer of thanks to whomever you pray to that you dodged the bullet on this one.

No collar and she insist on seeing your personal correspondance?  She critiques the pics on your page? which you have no control over by the way.  And seems to me like she doesn't like you being on the boards because she might have to actually prove that she knows what the hell she's doing, less you out her (which I know you wouldn't do, but we are talking insecure here)...which also means she knows you have an ocean of people that you can go to if you questioned any of her tactics.

You my friend just got the greatest Christmas present of all....enjoy!
Dammit,I prefer my presents wrapped and with red bows
But all kidding aside,and not just because it reaffirms my own views...but I think your spot on here.

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RE: Reasons for rejection.... - 12/14/2009 7:07:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		Okay just because I'm the curious type,and something DrkJourney said about a lack of control concerning your friends pictures....I went and checked my profile...and clicked the edit profile button....I can't find anyway at all to remove friends once accepted....not that I have any intention of doing so...I was just curious...it strikes me as funny that one can't remove a friend after you have accepted one?Am I missing something here?

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RE: Reasons for rejection.... - 12/14/2009 7:37:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		Wow, Mike, I had no idea you had such a high profile! And as for being condescending, I cannot imagine you behaving that way and not promptly having your ass handed to you on a tray!

It is really hard to say no to someone that you just don't click with. It is really easy to blow off someone you don't care about at all. So, be glad you got some kind of response, goofy or not! You can remove friends, btw, it is on one of the buttons accessed through the friends list. You might have to click on the profile thumbnail.

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RE: Reasons for rejection.... - 12/14/2009 7:58:32 PM   
DrkJourney


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Status: offline 		Actually, I tried before and I couldn't...I'm sure there is a way to do it though, but I'm like you I was just curious, the pics ain't hurtin' me none....lol



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RE: Reasons for rejection.... - 12/14/2009 7:58:55 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: slvemike4u

...before this one "rejected" me she asked to see all of my CM correspondence from the 2 preceding weeks....

This is out of bounds.  Sounds like a control freak.

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RE: Reasons for rejection.... - 12/14/2009 8:00:44 PM   
slvemike4u


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Status: offline 		Well it wasn't my view that I have a "high profile"nor that I am condescending....that was her appraisal.....I'll look into the remove friends thing...but just out of curiousity...I'm not removing anyone!

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RE: Reasons for rejection.... - 12/14/2009 8:02:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yep...thats how you do it...thanks LadyHibiscus

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RE: Reasons for rejection.... - 12/14/2009 8:24:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yay, I got a tech thing right!! I rarely remove friends, even after they have gone from CM... I love to go to my friends list and look at the piccies!



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RE: Reasons for rejection.... - 12/14/2009 9:04:40 PM   
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quote:

Wyldhrt,since I don't think the insecure types make good Dommes in the first place...fuckem,send the friends request and I shal accept.

Invite accepted... and I even updated my profile pic for ya
quote:

You'd just intimidate them right off the page before they even clicked the 'message' button - but hey, that's a big plus! Only those secure in their mastery would be able to move forward!

*blush* Thankies, InvisibleBlack! 


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RE: Reasons for rejection.... - 12/14/2009 9:12:01 PM   
Drifa


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Status: offline 		OP, you are looking at this all wrong. The domme was a blithering head case, and you should be thankful that she revealed unto you that she was a loon early.

Never complain when assholes advertise, it just allows you to ignore them more easily and move on to someone who is a better match.

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RE: Reasons for rejection.... - 12/14/2009 9:12:45 PM   
slvemike4u


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RE: Reasons for rejection.... - 12/15/2009 12:50:58 AM   
lally2


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Status: offline 		being judged by others on this site is all part of the panoply - you get used to it. in the end theyre only seeing the cyber-you, not the real person behind the words that generally speaking only fill in a teensy weensy bit of who you are and even then possibly not since things change and change all the time as we change and change.

her calling you on a photo you had no control over taking and would have seemed petty and unkind to reject from a friend is just silly.

the fact that she made a fairly personal attack at you for having it there is completely uncalled for and makes more assumptions about you than she had a right to, since shed only been cmailing you and hadnt met you. personally i wouldnt give it another thought.

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RE: Reasons for rejection.... - 12/15/2009 1:46:18 AM   
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does the stated reason for the rejection matter?
it is not a BDSM thing at all, but a human thing. If there is rejection, of course we want to know why.

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RE: Reasons for rejection.... - 12/15/2009 3:46:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		Mike... pretend she is in the politic's section and tell her to fuck off. I know I am less than productive here... but damn... she sounds like a bitch and not worth the time to even think twice about.

Shall I change my profile pic just to piss her off more? hehe

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RE: Reasons for rejection.... - 12/15/2009 6:31:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		Obviously she and you have different value systems; nothing wrong with that. Do not take it personally. Move on and find someone more compatible with you. Simple as pie

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RE: Reasons for rejection.... - 12/15/2009 8:27:38 AM   
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Beth,I have a feeling we could exchange some stories concerning growing "pains"...so yeah it wasn't so much the "rejection"..that shit rolls off my back...it was the irrational reasons given that motivated this thread.


this slave never imagined that someone's coloring---skin, eyes, hair---was a rational reason for rejection, yet that was the reason this slave was given for being considered NOT friend material, in her formative years and also for not being considered relationship material later on by a couple of dolts who honestly believed the negative stereotypes about natural redheads.
 
accepting that others are often prejudiced and firmly believe in negative stereotypes helped this slave get to a point where she doesn't give a crap about the irrational, or even the rational reasons that someone would reject her.  why would she care about an ignorant asessment from a virtual stranger?

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