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RE: Strength/Weakness: Blowjobs - 12/16/2009 2:03:36 PM

LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

I knew you were just kidding around, Peon. What I always wonder is: since your front side is so cute, why are you always showing us your backside, here?

I mean, come on..... Throw us a bone....

To get back to MoGa's fabulous subject: YES, I adore giving head, and NO, it is not submissive of me at all when I have my slaveboy submit to it. Its yummy.

THAT was funny as hell.

My sense of humor really does get twisted when discussing topics that turn Me on. Thank you so much for adding to it.

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RE: Strength/Weakness: Blowjobs - 12/16/2009 2:07:21 PM

GoddessImaginos

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

Hi everyone,

I havent started a thread in a very long time so I thought I would give it a shot

I can't tell you how many times I have read threads in which someone will comment "If a Domina sucks cock, then she is submitting or bottoming to her submissive".

I am a Domina and I love to suck cock. It is my choice to do so because I enjoy it, if he enjoys it too, then groovy for both of us, but I have no shame in admitting that I am a highly sexual woman who enjoys a good cock sucking session, with a bit of cbt thrown in for good measure I absolutely have no problem lying between his legs and just doing what I love to do. Do I think it makes me submissive to him? Hell no. It is still MY decision as to whether I do it or not, so how is choosing to do what *I* want to do, being submissive or being a bottom?

My question to the Domina's here is this. Do you believe that by sucking your subs cock, you are somehow submitting to him? If so, why?

If submissives/bottoms want to answer this, my question for you is this. What are your feelings about your Mistress giving you a blowjob? Does it show weakness on her part in your mind at all?

This post was inspired by Anne. *Hugs!!* http://www.collarchat.com/m_2890348/mpage_3/tm.htm#

MoGa

Edited to add the link to Anne's comment.

~*AMEN and AMEN*~
THANK YOU for making a bombin' good point. Sucking cock is no more an especially "submissive" thing than doing housework is. and like housework.. sometimes, you just gotta, yanno..?
I do it and I *LOVE* it.. which is why I do it, and why I'm apparently very, very good at it. Thanx for reminding Me that iz nawt alone in these presumptions and qualities..

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RE: Strength/Weakness: Blowjobs - 12/16/2009 2:08:54 PM

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Strength Through Head.

God bless you one and all.

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RE: Strength/Weakness: Blowjobs - 12/16/2009 2:09:29 PM

GYPSYMAMBO

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GA...
my boyz are the CARRIERS of my cock...ITS mine to so with what I want..and love cock sucking...

THE first thread I started on here a while back was how femdom movies rarely have the DOM fucking but in a man dominating a woman she sucks and he fucks her.

it is like penetration is DOMINATING..
nope....
If I am riding my sub..sucking him...I am in CHARGE OF the FUCK..( got that saying on here)
using all of him...and believe me I DO..
That cock is MINE to flog..make it dance..make it squrit..bite it..suck it..or a combo

I love to throw down my little dusting house wife and make MY cock hard..ride it til I cum then send him on his way house cleaning again.

MINE

GM

< Message edited by GYPSYMAMBO -- 12/16/2009 2:13:55 PM >

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RE: Strength/Weakness: Blowjobs - 12/16/2009 2:21:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

When you get to know me, DD, you will realise that I am, in fact, much sweeter than Elan. Please bear that in mind in future.

How utterly true!!

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RE: Strength/Weakness: Blowjobs - 12/16/2009 4:27:24 PM

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I love to suck cock too. I have spoken to a couple of subs and, one didn't like getting it and the other would get it, but has never cum from it.. So I think for some subs it seems too submissive. Whatever, I'll do as I please.

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RE: Strength/Weakness: Blowjobs - 12/16/2009 4:30:08 PM

GoddessImaginos

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ORIGINAL: UrMyboi

I love to suck cock too. I have spoken to a couple of subs and, one didn't like getting it and the other would get it, but has never cum from it.. So I think for some subs it seems too submissive. Whatever, I'll do as I please.

Exactly.
I was apparently by far and away the best of only three women who had ever been able to finish off My Husband like that. The first time.. He howled..

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RE: Strength/Weakness: Blowjobs - 12/16/2009 4:31:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

Hi everyone,

I havent started a thread in a very long time so I thought I would give it a shot

I can't tell you how many times I have read threads in which someone will comment "If a Domina sucks cock, then she is submitting or bottoming to her submissive".

I am a Domina and I love to suck cock. It is my choice to do so because I enjoy it, if he enjoys it too, then groovy for both of us, but I have no shame in admitting that I am a highly sexual woman who enjoys a good cock sucking session, with a bit of cbt thrown in for good measure I absolutely have no problem lying between his legs and just doing what I love to do. Do I think it makes me submissive to him? Hell no. It is still MY decision as to whether I do it or not, so how is choosing to do what *I* want to do, being submissive or being a bottom?

My question to the Domina's here is this. Do you believe that by sucking your subs cock, you are somehow submitting to him? If so, why?

If submissives/bottoms want to answer this, my question for you is this. What are your feelings about your Mistress giving you a blowjob? Does it show weakness on her part in your mind at all?

This post was inspired by Anne. *Hugs!!* http://www.collarchat.com/m_2890348/mpage_3/tm.htm#

MoGa

Edited to add the link to Anne's comment.

MoGa!! I am the Anne on page 3? lol. I just had to go look and there was my post. I love you sexy thing. Okay give me a few minutes to give this the attention it deserves I just wanted to say thanks, that makes me happy happy that you said that! Hugs back dear sweet lady.

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RE: Strength/Weakness: Blowjobs - 12/16/2009 4:41:41 PM

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If a Mistress wants to give me a BJ, who am I to argue. I just lay back and think of England.

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RE: Strength/Weakness: Blowjobs - 12/16/2009 4:51:49 PM

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LOL Polite...

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RE: Strength/Weakness: Blowjobs - 12/16/2009 4:52:35 PM

DarkSteven

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Funny. I think of scening as "The Top does things to the bottom." I consider getting sucked by a sub to be the most Dominant things she does to me!

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RE: Strength/Weakness: Blowjobs - 12/16/2009 4:54:52 PM

Lockit

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Because it makes you weak in the knee's and you fall to them?

(Hey a gal can hope ya know!)

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RE: Strength/Weakness: Blowjobs - 12/16/2009 5:07:36 PM

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MoGa!! I am the Anne on page 3? lol. I just had to go look and there was my post. I love you sexy thing. Okay give me a few minutes to give this the attention it deserves I just wanted to say thanks, that makes me happy happy that you said that! Hugs back dear sweet lady. .

Yes Anne, you ARE the inspiration for this thread. I adored what you said about you and your Master. Truly honest and open. Love it!

And a special LOL out to Fran! So subtle..lmao!

MoGa

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RE: Strength/Weakness: Blowjobs - 12/16/2009 5:08:04 PM

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

If a Mistress wants to give me a BJ, who am I to argue. I just lay back and think of England.

The things we do for our country...

GM

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RE: Strength/Weakness: Blowjobs - 12/16/2009 5:11:33 PM

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...and our countrymen

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RE: Strength/Weakness: Blowjobs - 12/16/2009 5:13:14 PM

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A domme giving her sub blowjob is not submitting...If I feel like sucking his cock, I'll suck it when and where I feel like it...

Diane

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RE: Strength/Weakness: Blowjobs - 12/16/2009 5:16:45 PM

MistressOfGa

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~*AMEN and AMEN*~
THANK YOU for making a bombin' good point. Sucking cock is no more an especially "submissive" thing than doing housework is. and like housework.. sometimes, you just gotta, yanno..?
I do it and I *LOVE* it.. which is why I do it, and why I'm apparently very, very good at it. Thanx for reminding Me that iz nawt alone in these presumptions and qualities..

No, you are not alone GI. I have to make special mention about someone here, I won't mention her name but she is definitely the queen of blowjobs. While visiting her, we watched a video of her giving head...Good gracious, oh Lordy! I don't think that I have seen ANYONE swallow 10 inches before!! Right down to the trunk! And no, she didn't gag. Hope I haven't embarrassed you too much, you know who I am talking about

Impressed MoGa

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RE: Strength/Weakness: Blowjobs - 12/16/2009 6:27:10 PM

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As we see from the posts, it's all perspective isn't it? Those who say it is being submissive, in my opinion, are the ones who go for the whole "on your knees, bitch" mentality. To them, they think that they are "forcing" their sub/slave/woman/partner to suck their cock. Personally, a woman sucking a man's cock is all about the woman's power, not the man's. Mind you, face fucking is something completely different. But when a woman goes down on a man, she is in control of his orgasm. How long is she going to play? How long will she stroke, lick, suck? Teeth or no teeth? I don't think there is a woman alive, not even the dommes who at one point in their life gave their partner a blow job just for the sake of pleasing him (after all, we all have moments where we may not be in the mood, but want to make our partner happy). Nothing wrong with that either. I know that there have been times I haven't necessarily been in the mood but did because I knew it would make my guy happy, and I like to make him happy. But then there are those times when he gets his cock sucked because it is what I want to do and then everyone is happy. After all, are there really guys out there who DON'T want a blow job?

So essentially, again in my opinion, I think that men just like to delude themselves into thinking that their girl is submitting to them by giving them a blow job. Especially those guys whose girls are really good at it. I mean really, do you honestly think her talent for it is because YOU want them? No, her talent for them is because she is enjoying it. And regardless of what all you doms may think or say would happen if your girl bit you or didn't do exactly as you say....ok, keep believing that.

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RE: Strength/Weakness: Blowjobs - 12/16/2009 8:03:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: GYPSYMAMBO
my boyz are the CARRIERS of my cock...ITS mine to so with what I want..and love cock sucking...

If I am riding my sub..sucking him...I am in CHARGE OF the FUCK..( got that saying on here)
using all of him...and believe me I DO..
That cock is MINE to flog..make it dance..make it squrit..bite it..suck it..or a combo

I love to throw down my little dusting house wife and make MY cock hard..ride it til I cum then send him on his way house cleaning again.

MINE

Thank You, GM,
i knew that i could count on You to bring the proper perspective to this discussion.

As a submissive male, i can assure You that there is nothing submissive about sucking cock. As Gypsy Mambo stated, a Domme can be in complete control of any sexual act. There is no act that is inherently submissive, particularly if it is an act that the Domme enjoys.

i have been on the receiving end of many scenes which were exactly as Gypsy Mambo described. There was absolutely NO DOUBT that i was not the one doing the f*cking, nor was i in charge.

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RE: Strength/Weakness: Blowjobs - 12/16/2009 8:05:55 PM

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Okay... Oral fixation here... I like having things in my mouth *laughs*

Now, as to the unsubmissiveness of it all... picture the sub tied down and me with my fang caps in...thats right, the nice sharp pointy ones...
If anyone EVER tells you size doesn't matter - it is right at that point they learn it just might. ;)

Usually being nipped on the inner thighs during those moments also dispels any idea that I'm too nice.

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