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fadedshadow -> RE: caning (12/17/2009 10:56:55 AM)

thanks for the comments everyone. i asked this because i wanted to see if some people loved being caned like i do =]



Mercnbeth -> RE: caning (12/17/2009 10:56:59 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact
Some of us like making the marks.  LOL.


Ditto!

So much so, I like a 'clean canvas' when I use them. "Them" not it; I like using a variety over time.

Although at the last get together I traded my think acrylic one to Beach for her 'Simon Legree'. It was worth the trade. After doing a little 'customizing' on the business end, the cut it made in the leather weight curl bench when I was testing it beth's eyes lit up in anticipation.

I think I have at least 10 more in the 'play-room' and I keep miniature one handy in my nightstand. Personally preferring the thinner 'whippy' variety versus the thick deep penatrating kinds.



fadedshadow -> RE: caning (12/17/2009 11:01:34 AM)

is there anything i could do so that i bruise more deeply when caned?



mnottertail -> RE: caning (12/17/2009 11:05:02 AM)

a little aspirin beforehand will help



kdsub -> RE: caning (12/17/2009 11:17:12 AM)

Has anyone ever had the cane split or splay the skin...not just bruise? I sure have...It leaves scars that are hard to explain.






cuckslave09 -> RE: caning (12/17/2009 11:26:48 AM)

i'm in the camp cold caning, hate (but my Owner loves) warm up then cane to please my Owner, anyway She wants it. i do Love the marks and effects felt for days!!



Mercnbeth -> RE: caning (12/17/2009 12:06:25 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: fadedshadow
is there anything i could do so that i bruise more deeply when caned?


Disclaimer: THE REPLY DOESN'T SPEAK TO THE MERITS, OR LACK OF MERITS, OF FAT.
PS - I'm not a doctor but base this position purely on first hand, actually first cane (giving) experience.


FAT doesn't bruise - tissue or muscle does. Cane bruising is greater when the caned target has less fat. The other variables are mass and speed. As I mentioned, preferring the 'whippy' canes; the strips I leave are not commonly "deep", unless I want them to be by applying more power (speed). That acrylic one I mentioned was very thick and heavy and with very little power - made a deep bruise.

So the answer is BRUISE = Mass of cane x Velocity at impact.

I'm sure there is a mathematical formula for this process; however if not - I'm willing to take on a long range study with say, 100 or so, victims - I mean 'subjects' - to establish force to fat proportional guidelines to avoid, or if desired generate, cane bruises. I'm ready to take on this exhausting work if someone wants to give me a grant to do the necessary (VERY necessary) research.

I think it's something that it would be a great 'pork project' for one of the members of Congress from either SF or the Village district in NYC.



lally2 -> RE: caning (12/17/2009 12:19:40 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

quote:

ORIGINAL: fadedshadow
is there anything i could do so that i bruise more deeply when caned?


Disclaimer: THE REPLY DOESN'T SPEAK TO THE MERITS, OR LACK OF MERITS, OF FAT.
PS - I'm not a doctor but base this position purely on first hand, actually first cane (giving) experience.


FAT doesn't bruise - tissue or muscle does. Cane bruising is greater when the caned target has less fat. The other variables are mass and speed. As I mentioned, preferring the 'whippy' canes; the strips I leave are not commonly "deep", unless I want them to be by applying more power (speed). That acrylic one I mentioned was very thick and heavy and with very little power - made a deep bruise.

So the answer is BRUISE = Mass of cane x Velocity at impact.

I'm sure there is a mathematical formula for this process; however if not - I'm willing to take on a long range study with say, 100 or so, victims - I mean 'subjects' - to establish force to fat proportional guidelines to avoid, or if desired generate, cane bruises. I'm ready to take on this exhausting work if someone wants to give me a grant to do the necessary (VERY necessary) research.

I think it's something that it would be a great 'pork project' for one of the members of Congress from either SF or the Village district in NYC.



heh!! forgetit!!!" [:D]



windchymes -> RE: caning (12/17/2009 2:02:16 PM)

Caning is okay, unless it gets too extreme, then I wimp out. 

I hate the leather belt, though.



PrimalConsonance -> RE: caning (12/17/2009 2:06:24 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: fadedshadow

just a random question. to those who have experienced a caning, did you like or dislike it and why?


(CNJDom says:) I truly enjoy giving cane...A good number of people that I've come across, have been either turned off by the cane from a negative experience, or were just plain scared of them from just the thought.  Caning doesn't need to be some harsh and awful experience.  It can be, but the experience can also be very therapeutic and sensual.  I can safely say that I have turned a few from distaste to desire, but it's not for everybody.  Some just will not like that form of impact play or edge play for a number of reasons.  But I love my canes...Being a percussionist as well doesn't hurt either...you know what I mean....



fadedshadow -> RE: caning (12/17/2009 2:28:19 PM)

thank you and i'll try the asperin thing =]



mnottertail -> RE: caning (12/17/2009 2:39:06 PM)

and of course you think about it, ice your ass down for a while beforehand, and go to it, bring that blood up, and maybe pour a little isopropyl on that browneye as well.



littlewonder -> RE: caning (12/17/2009 5:03:48 PM)

I hate canes with a passion!

Why do I hate them?? They fucking hurt like a motherfucker!

I would rather someone tear my eyes out than feel the sting of a cane.




LadyAngelika -> RE: caning (12/17/2009 7:24:20 PM)

quote:

to those who have experienced a caning, did you like or dislike it and why?


The cane is my instrument of choice. I love the precision I can get with it. I also love the delicious stripes it leaves.

I've also experienced being on the receiving end and the occasional masochist in me finds it hot.

- LA



Elizabeth666 -> RE: caning (12/17/2009 7:26:36 PM)

Same here. I have a big bum so you would think that it would hurt less *shrugs*
My back is pretty tough though, it takes a lot to mark it, much to His disappointment lol


quote:

ORIGINAL: Missokyst

I agree with Elizabeth here.. I don't know why it is perfectly OK on my breasts and absolutely unbearable on my bum. It is almost like the hit goes all the way through my body. And since my behind is much more padded than my breasts that just seems odd to me.
I hate caning.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Elizabeth666

I hate caning.....hate it. Well, let me re-phrase. If it's on my breasts or back, not so bad. If He canes my bum, then I hate it. I like pain, just not that pain. I think that's why He uses it if I need to be punished. 5 quick strokes of that and I'm the best little sub in the world





Hierodule -> RE: caning (12/17/2009 8:27:23 PM)

I used to bruise a LOT. Deep and purple. My Master strikes me with the same instrument (a metal antenna) with the same force and I don't bruise nearly as deeply as I used to. I think you are right about what causes the bruise but I think that over time scar tissue starts to build in the small blood vessels (or sum-fin') So it might take more force to cause the same amount of bruising over time.


quote:

ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

quote:

ORIGINAL: fadedshadow
is there anything i could do so that i bruise more deeply when caned?


Disclaimer: THE REPLY DOESN'T SPEAK TO THE MERITS, OR LACK OF MERITS, OF FAT.
PS - I'm not a doctor but base this position purely on first hand, actually first cane (giving) experience.


FAT doesn't bruise - tissue or muscle does. Cane bruising is greater when the caned target has less fat. The other variables are mass and speed. As I mentioned, preferring the 'whippy' canes; the strips I leave are not commonly "deep", unless I want them to be by applying more power (speed). That acrylic one I mentioned was very thick and heavy and with very little power - made a deep bruise.

So the answer is BRUISE = Mass of cane x Velocity at impact.

I'm sure there is a mathematical formula for this process; however if not - I'm willing to take on a long range study with say, 100 or so, victims - I mean 'subjects' - to establish force to fat proportional guidelines to avoid, or if desired generate, cane bruises. I'm ready to take on this exhausting work if someone wants to give me a grant to do the necessary (VERY necessary) research.

I think it's something that it would be a great 'pork project' for one of the members of Congress from either SF or the Village district in NYC.




aneworldcallsme -> RE: caning (12/17/2009 9:58:47 PM)

As a submissive i LOVE being caned and i love the marks and bruises that are left after. And yes sitting down for days after does smart lol. I have pics on another site showing severe bruising and blood from a punishment caning. But i have many there also showing beautiful stripes and welts. I still have marks from 3 weeks ago when i was caned on my butt and stomach.

As a switch i love seeing the marks form and seeing the reaction i have caused. Hearing the sharp intake of air, seeing the spot start to redden, hearing the yelp of pain, watching their body tensing in preparation of the next stroke.



Daddysredhead -> RE: caning (12/17/2009 10:24:43 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Caning and singletails are in a category all their own. When I bottomed I liked intense sensations, so yes, caning good, the cool welts afterward GREAT.


I'm with Hibbie on this.  I LOVE the welts and marks afterwards!!! 

I don't like it when I get the cane without a warm-up, but DB is not always of a "warm-up" mindset, and just likes to "bring it."  However He does it, eventually, I can get my body to accept the strikes and absorb them.



LondonTrainer -> RE: caning (12/17/2009 10:38:10 PM)

quote:

i profoundly hate the cane - i hate that hard bruising that develops afterwards - i just hate it.

.......

that and the crop, two of the most loathed implements in my book.

oddly enough i like stingy - well, i like to struggle to stingy because its more of a struggle but not the cane - its more like a weapon to me and i think theres a sort of punitive undertone to it that just feels horrible to me.


Yeah, I seem to remember you finding it "interesting" ali!

(Grin!)

Robert



beajez -> RE: caning (12/17/2009 11:03:45 PM)

I love caning, cold or sensual... I just dont like it on my back or feet, i think it has to do with the fact there is no padding there. Love the look of the welts and the bruising that lasts. As well as having a selection of canes used from thin to thick.



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