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RE: Cause We've Got Personality - 12/18/2009 7:19:52 PM

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Yes, luckily for you, you do.

The point was to help us learn about each other, but however you want to express yourself is cool. We're still learning.

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RE: Cause We've Got Personality - 12/18/2009 7:20:44 PM

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for subtee:

Ritualistic or blasé: ritualistic by far. it's one of my favorite facets of piercings and other body mods.

**the entire process. from deciding the type of piercing (temp, perm, location) up to the normal everday cleaning. i have some larger gauges in my ears and they require some special care. i've had piercings done as a way of exhibition, and to provide pratice for those that are learning. outside of piercings, the only other mods i've got experience with is tattoos. the largest one to date has 8 1/2 hours of solid work put into it...and i have plans to flesh it out further****

Sophisticated or simple -i live rather simply however i have a very sosphiticated eye when it comes to art.
**what i mean by the above statement is this: i could give a fuck less if i have have X home, Y car, Z piece of technology. I own very little, especially in this age of conspicious consumerism, and thats fine by me. i will likely never be able to afford 90% of what i enjoy or have an interest in. this however does not temper my love for say.... a good drink, a fab piece of art *i'm a big fan of abstract and surrealism*, or a custom tailored white on black pinstrip suit.....i enjoy these things...but alot of what i like is just way outside my reach.

i enjoy the intricaties and details of all things actually
***i can lose myself by simply taking a walk here in downtown jc and absorbing the sights, the smells, the graffitti, the lights against a night sky (especially now since it's snowing!!)....it eats at the corners of my brain if i don't understand/recognize something...and i will be restless until i've sought it out again. *laugh*

what can i say? i'm a sponge.

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RE: Cause We've Got Personality - 12/18/2009 7:23:27 PM

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Can't help it, gotta perv you now. Totally intrigued...

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RE: Cause We've Got Personality - 12/18/2009 7:34:46 PM

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*laugh*

feel free to.

i'm in a pervy kinda mood.

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RE: Cause We've Got Personality - 12/18/2009 8:38:33 PM

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Yes, that is exactly what I meant...is the author dead; does the text only live in the reader. I'm the thread. It's very interesting and do you believe that?

I have it on very good authority that there are some most excellent Doms who have found Betty Page to be the most...to say the least. (~cough Ron~) How did you find yourself masochistic or "dominated" with that ideal?

With regard to artistic and abusive sadism, might there be a continuum along which something might reveal itself without being "pinned down?"

After all "good pain," "useful violence" and "destructive acts" are subjective, yes? Are you dead, author? Does the experiencing make the reality no matter how you might frame it?

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RE: Cause We've Got Personality - 12/18/2009 8:40:12 PM

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Personally, I have never used a purse analogy.

Just my personality, I guess.

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RE: Cause We've Got Personality - 12/18/2009 8:44:16 PM

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Come on...please indulge me. Please.

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RE: Cause We've Got Personality - 12/18/2009 8:53:24 PM

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quote:

Depends:
Reticent or chatty
Micromanage or hands off
Introverted or extroverted
Spontaneous or scheduled
Sophisticated or simple

Neither:
Zealous or wishy-washy
Too strict or too lax
Too bratty or too agreeable
Flirty or shy
Too moody or too chill
Ritualistic or blasé
Too affectionate or too standoffish
Too emotional or unsympathetic

Both:
Intelligent or resourceful

This makes no sense--do you mean "confident"?
Too competent or needy

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RE: Cause We've Got Personality - 12/18/2009 8:56:45 PM

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Reticent or chatty - would rather a bit more reticence than chatty...verbosity gets tiring.

Micromanage or hands off - controlling definitely, disciplined...not quite to the point of micro-managing.

Zealous or wishy-washy - waaay towards the zealous side, can't stand wishy-washy. Heavens, it's a decision...make it already.

Too strict or too lax - yay! for strict. Lax usually equals wishy-washy or indecisive.

Too bratty or too agreeable - Master? bratty?    But better that than too agreeable.

Introverted or extroverted - somewhere in the middle

Spontaneous or scheduled - somewhere in the middle. Scheduled is nice, consistent, comfortable but spontaneous is just fun.

Flirty or shy - With whom? Everyone else or at home?

Too moody or too chill - waaaay toward the chill side. Moodiness tends towards emotional immaturity (had enough of that with ums)....unless it's a good or playful mood, of course. ;)

Intelligent or resourceful - Intelligent enough to be resourceful? But not make stuff up on the fly.

Too competent or needy - COMPETENT! Lordy lordy, don't need any more needy.

Ritualistic or blasé - Ritualistic is nice, blase is so uninspiring.

Too affectionate or too standoffish - Toward the standoffish side...too affectionate is clingy, smothering.

Sophisticated or simple - "sophisticated simplicity"....sorta like "basic black".

Too emotional or unsympathetic - Would much rather hear "suck it up, buttercup" than "awww, honey, pleeeezzzz?"

one is of the opinion that Master is there for her to look up to, respect and admire. He wears the pants, He's the rock solid foundation. If He were to ever become overly emotional or inconsistent or just plain ol' wishy-washy, she'd be looking for the space aliens that ate His brain. Just because He believes in ritual, discipline and methodical analytical thinking doesn't make Him a robotic lump. It shows the girl more so that He is in control and reliable, He won't cut and run at the first sign of trouble and that He is someone she can trust.

That was fun...can you do another one?

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RE: Cause We've Got Personality - 12/18/2009 9:18:21 PM

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Well.

Yes, it depends. Yes, it's both, yes it's neither.

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RE: Cause We've Got Personality - 12/19/2009 8:00:20 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: subtee
Well.

Yes, it depends. Yes, it's both, yes it's neither.

:(

Ask better questions, get better answers.

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RE: Cause We've Got Personality - 12/19/2009 8:54:24 AM

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For me:

Reticent or chatty

Micromanage or hands off

Zealous or wishy-washy

Too strict or too lax

Too bratty or too agreeable

Introverted or extroverted

Spontaneous or scheduled

Flirty or shy

Too moody or too chill

Intelligent or resourceful

Too competent or needy

Ritualistic or blasé

Too affectionate or too standoffish

Sophisticated or simple

Too emotional or unsympathetic

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For him:

Reticent or chatty

Micromanage or hands off

Zealous or wishy-washy

Too strict or too lax

Too bratty or too agreeable

Introverted or extroverted

Spontaneous or scheduled

Flirty or shy

Too moody or too chill

Intelligent or resourceful

Too competent or needy

Ritualistic or blasé

Too affectionate or too standoffish

Sophisticated or simple

Too emotional or unsympathetic

ETA: I can only answer for him because I know him, I wouldn't be able to answer for a theoretical 'perfect match'.

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RE: Cause We've Got Personality - 12/19/2009 9:04:09 AM

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yf67u4Z8En8

Well.......well...........

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RE: Cause We've Got Personality - 12/19/2009 9:43:44 AM

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Yes, luckily for you, you do.

The point was to help us learn about each other, but however you want to express yourself is cool. We're still learning.

Perhaps I misread the op? I thought you were asking what we want in a partner.
And the choices you gave were all outliers, no middle ground.

I'm not into edge play physically nor in terms of my life. I'm an average soccer mom and that's just how I like it. No extremes. No unnecessary drama.

I find rigidity and extremes do not mesh well with ordinary life. Life has its own drama, I don't need to add more in a relationship. I'm not a roller coaster fan who needs the constant adrenaline surge. And extremes are for those who do.

The one point I would like to make about spontaneous is that it is only spontaneous for the person it's sprung on. The person who brings up the spontaneous act has been thinking about it, has decided it fits in with his/her schedule. And then when you turn them down they get upset because it doesn't fit in with yours. It's like when someone calls you selfish, what they really mean is do it their way, that they should be happy at your expense.

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RE: Cause We've Got Personality - 12/19/2009 10:18:33 AM

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Do you believe most humans are kind hearted? Or have the capability? Or is it something you especially find and/or value in females and/or sub-types?

Most humans kind hearted? We spend a lot of time competing (naturally)....yet we're rewarded most through family and close relationships with loved ones.

quote:

ORIGINAL: subtee

What kind of cakes?

Big fat chocolate cakes.

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RE: Cause We've Got Personality - 12/19/2009 11:23:39 AM

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yf67u4Z8En8

Well.......well...........

This video has been removed due to terms of use violation.

Looks like your link got Perma-banned

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RE: Cause We've Got Personality - 12/20/2009 8:44:04 AM

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cGxGuF9qIdA

try this one.

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RE: Cause We've Got Personality - 12/20/2009 4:48:12 PM

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Reticent or chatty -chatty- like the quick, teasing banter type and i can be chatty, so if he is, i go into the role of listening and being attentive to Him much quicker.

Zealous or wishy-washy - zealous, both of us! Passion in everything makes the world go round.

Too strict or too lax - Strict Sir

Too bratty or too agreeable - want Him to be agreeable, patience is a virtue.

Introverted or extroverted -extroverted- both of us, want someone that is social like me.

Spontaneous or scheduled - He should be schduled to counteract me.

Flirty or shy - Flirty, both of us!

Too moody or too chill - chilllllll both of us.

Intelligent or resourceful - smart and wise please

Oh this was fun.

i am seeing someone i am really feeling the right dynamic with so far, so even though not my Master, He is the only Sir in my life. i compared my answers to how He and i are and i can see why we are clicking, smart little questionaire :)

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