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Preparation - 3/17/2006 3:12:26 PM

littleone35

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I am posting this on an idea from my Master. Please forgive me if it has been posted before i am still not sure how to look up previous posts. This is more for subs/slaves who do not live with their Master/ Dom/ Mistress.

When i am going to see my Master there is a certain way i have to prepare my body for him. Does anyone else have prepare their body in a certain way?

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RE: Preparation - 3/17/2006 8:38:47 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

I am posting this on an idea from my Master. Please forgive me if it has been posted before i am still not sure how to look up previous posts. This is more for subs/slaves who do not live with their Master/ Dom/ Mistress.

When i am going to see my Master there is a certain way i have to prepare my body for him. Does anyone else have prepare their body in a certain way?

Matt's littleone

The only one who can answer that is him. I mean I can tell you that you should just wear jeans, a t-shirt and sneakers, but really, will that mean anything to you?

Lots of doms enjoy slaves to shave, to dress sexy and slutty and overtly sexually (the traditional uniform being fuck me heels, white sheer blouse and short tight black skirt with thigh highs). But everyone is different. It would be like asking how he likes to prepare his coffee.

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RE: Preparation - 3/17/2006 9:55:32 PM

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If I were to collar another trik, you can bet your boots that Neets would be in her ear as to how I like my coffee, what scents i like to be worn, the dress variations I prefer etc etc.. Even how to deal with me on the rare (

) occasions I'm cantancerous. The other technique would befor me to have an instruction manual on dealing with a Bearish Person)

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RE: Preparation - 3/18/2006 9:25:56 AM

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I except my subs/slaves to show up knowing full well how to be prepared, and the always comply. You should be glad that your Master has told you what he expects from you, and it should indeed make your life easier, as you know exactly how to appear to make him happy, and let's face it, aren't you there for that sole purpose?
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ORIGINAL: littleone35

I am posting this on an idea from my Master. Please forgive me if it has been posted before i am still not sure how to look up previous posts. This is more for subs/slaves who do not live with their Master/ Dom/ Mistress.

When i am going to see my Master there is a certain way i have to prepare my body for him. Does anyone else have prepare their body in a certain way?

Matt's littleone

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RE: Preparation - 3/18/2006 9:48:57 AM

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he gave me a list of rules... just ask your Owner what he expects

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RE: Preparation - 3/18/2006 10:12:14 AM

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Maybe i stated this wrong i know what he expects he told me. (Master Buckeye i live to please him). I am glad to prepare the way he not only instructed but the first time showed me.

My question was do any other Master expect things like this from their slaves/ subs?

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RE: Preparation - 3/18/2006 12:33:24 PM

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I think its a fairly common practice to prepare oneself for service to his or her Dominant, whether you live together or not. Dominants have specific ideas about how their sub/slave should be prior to service. And particularly when you are apart and can not be together regularly, who wants to waste time preparing for service when you are together? Especially when that time can be used bonding with your Dominant, cementing the relationship, being trained, etc?

For some its dress and makeup. For others it may be complete hygeine including a douching and an enema before service. For myself, my Dominant wants me clean *except the enema which is something he does*, freshly shaved, and appropriately stretched for use. *Due to his size, I have to be prepared prior to play, which includes installing things either the day before or the day of play depending on how tight he wants me to be*. I am also not permitted to wear panties that show panty lines through my clothing ever. In the past, I have had other things such as what I should or should not be wearing in terms of toys, clothing, makeup, how I do my hair, what jewelry I wear, etc.

On a side note, I find that at least for myself, the preparation I go through before meeting with my Dominant serves a dual purpose. First it focuses me on serving my Dom and puts me in the appropriate head space. Secondly it maximizes our quality time together. Hope that helps!!

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RE: Preparation - 3/18/2006 5:13:49 PM

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Preparation is for us, very definately planned.
We live together as a D/s couple, not bedroom only. And still, he will have me prepare in certain ways.
I will often get a sms message " be ready for me when i return in 1 hr, you are to cleanse yourself inside and out" thats his speak, for im probably going to get my arse fucked and need to have a enema.
or there's the 'be sure you are wearing......'
or 'lay out my tools ready'

We also have a ritualistic way of greeting for him, as my way of requesting things. Whereby i get ready for whatever i am wanting to request, and i pour two glasses of red wine, leaving them on the table for him to see when he enters. That's my speak for i wish to be played with please. Then depending on how nicely i ask/grovel/beg and how he feels, i may or maynot be granted my request.

Generally as a day to day presentation, i must always be wearing my collar, my pubic hair is waxed allways, im always shaven. I always try to be 'appealing' which is difficult at times, living in rural australia heels are a tad difficult lol. but well presented is just me anyhow. Im vain, and like to look what i think is my best i guess.

sometimes, ive been requested to prepare something really odd. And its not until afterwards, i realise, it was never needed, used, or whatever, and ive learnt not to ask why, as 'never you mind' is the usual response.

Personally, i gain a lot from prep. It helps me focus away from work, house, kids, or whatever, and zone in on us, and what it is i am to him and visa versa. Like a meditation thang i guess.

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RE: Preparation - 3/18/2006 5:18:23 PM

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quote:

When i am going to see my Master there is a certain way i have to prepare my body for him. Does anyone else have prepare their body in a certain way?

Oh there were always preperations, wonderful ones most of the time that had me wondering exactly what He planned for our evening.

~~ smiles in remembering ~~

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RE: Preparation - 3/19/2006 9:40:41 AM

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My question was do any other Master expect things like this from their slaves/ subs?

Matt's littleone

Oh absolutely. My date last night had separate outfits for me to wear for daytime, dinner, and after party. Sometimes I tell a partner how to shave or what color to wear, or specific boxers (I love seeing sexy men in loose silk boxers).

And my local partner gets turned on by tshirt, jeans, sneakers and socks 10 times more than any piece of leather could. We're all different.

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RE: Preparation - 3/19/2006 2:40:52 PM

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Yes be prepared little one, just as ur Master prepares a detailed scene for you. My sub must be shaved completely, greet me showing her subjection, and dressed in her birthday suit, waiting on the floor leaving the door open for me, ready to remove my boots. If we are to go out to eat, she will be told what to wear usually a white sheer top, short black dress, tall boots or high heels, a little slutty, but never a bra or panties, sometimes wearing nipple rings, sometimes including a silver bullet ready for my thumb.

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RE: Preparation - 3/19/2006 10:02:39 PM

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My question was do any other Master expect things like this from their slaves/ subs?

i am always instructed exactly how i should be presenting myself when he walks in the door. Some things are a given and no longer mentioned, however.

i teasingly said to him once that i spend all this time curling my hair and he never notices it. He said "I notice it. I notice it in my hand when I am pulling you by it." (seriously though, it is always straight by the time he is finished with me...lol)

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RE: Preparation - 3/20/2006 12:35:30 AM

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My One expects certain things when we are to meet. Always tells me what to wear, and how to wear it. What to bring with me, etc. Also if certain personal preperations are needed to be done ahead of time for our meetings" play time", then he lets me know that also. I enjoy doing all I can to please Him. And if my body needs a little extra preperation for a specific play activity - then so be it.

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RE: Preparation - 3/20/2006 10:11:32 PM

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I have to be wearing skirt or dress, and matching bra/panties (if i am wearing them). I'm not supposed to wear my hair up. I would not dream of seeing him without having my pussy freshly shaven.

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