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osf -> RE: New to this but curious about something... (12/20/2009 11:24:46 AM)

dont you get a free subbie with the purchase of $5 worth of subbie supplies?



AnimusRex -> RE: New to this but curious about something... (12/20/2009 11:58:05 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Roselaure
We were together when we got it, at a flea market where they had the type of collar we had been talking about but hadn't been able to find. 


You sure it wasn't a flea collar?



EbonyWood -> RE: New to this but curious about something... (12/20/2009 12:01:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Roselaure

We were together when we got it, at a flea market where they had the type of collar we had been talking about but hadn't been able to find. 


Have you since noticed a desire to chase cars, dig holes or go on the rug?



LadyPact -> RE: New to this but curious about something... (12/20/2009 12:25:39 PM)

It's My practice to purchase the collar.  In My way of doing things, the collar itself does belong to Me, as well as the s type who wears it.  Should I release him as My submissive, the collar would come back to Me.

For practical reasons, there are two physical collars.  One leather and one necklace for those situations where the leather isn't appropriate.



HisSweetElysium -> RE: New to this but curious about something... (12/20/2009 2:32:07 PM)

Master gave me detailed specifics of what He wanted, and gave it to me as a task to find and get it.  I ended up having it custom made and I paid for it and presented it to Him. He then chose when, where and how to give it to me.  I don't think it's weird or strange, it was a good task for me, I'm a "shopper" and researcher, He doesn't have the patience for that stuff. I often act as His secretary or personal assistant, errands, proof reading, making phone calls and travel arrangements for Him, this was not strange to me at all. 





leadership527 -> RE: New to this but curious about something... (12/20/2009 9:40:14 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ocongalieghsgirl
When one gets collared...does their Master/Dom purchase the collar? 
When Carol first told me she wanted to submit, I did not believe her. So I said, "Fine, you go to a real store, not online, and buy yourself a collar and present it to me and I'll consider it." Well damned if she didn't *laughs*. In general, I suspect that the doms buy the collars, but life always has it's twists and turns.



GYPSYMAMBO -> RE: New to this but curious about something... (12/20/2009 9:51:34 PM)

OP:
I Purchase/craft the collars......sometimes with or without..
I have had a Wiccan wedding and incorperated one in..
I am a jewelry maker so I make different symbols for each that are special.
*One had a pentegram with moonstone
*one had yin-yang symbol..
*one had my intitial..with a little diamond
*one had a horse..( multiple meanings..he was a horse trainer and also had a......... well you know??)
** those were for beloved husbands over a 20+ year period)
 
I also have a collar of consideration..( yes I know.. who the fuk cares? ..and it has been debated endlessly on other threads but I do it..)
so....... each NEW potential sub..if he gets to that point has a collar of consideration...which I purchase..
I do not re-use collars....too much residual energy left..
Some have had several...for public..events..etc...
 
GM
 



Valyraen -> RE: New to this but curious about something... (12/20/2009 9:55:23 PM)

I can only reply for me and mine... but Kitten and I had been together for some years before the talk of collaring her came up. When I decided that the time had come, I purchased a collar that would be significant for the both of us, but that she could also wear out into the 'nilla world without raising too many eyebrows.

On average, I'd imagine that most dominants would purchase the collars... as with everything in this lifestyle though, there's always going to be an exception.



WyldHrt -> RE: New to this but curious about something... (12/20/2009 9:56:07 PM)

I've made 2 custom owner/slave necklace sets (locking collar necklace for the 's', matching key necklace for the 'D') as gifts for friends. Both were given to the Dominant partner in the relationship, even though one was the slave's birthday present. I view a collar as the property of the Dominant, no matter who buys or makes it.





Retfirefighter -> RE: New to this but curious about something... (12/21/2009 6:20:58 AM)

Easy YES. If Master wants might have you pick it but mostly will buy it and apply it.



tiemeupSir02 -> RE: New to this but curious about something... (12/25/2009 6:14:40 PM)

i currently have a training collar and if i ever become Sir's He has made it clear that He will be the one to collar me with His collar. but i do not see Sir much and have had the urge to buy a collar for myself to wear when i go to bed in the privacy of my home when i am not with Sir.



MasterJeff11 -> RE: New to this but curious about something... (12/31/2009 5:27:19 PM)

While in the past, as I was younger the subs I did have were older and often times had collars themselves. Once in a more serious relationship with them I did purchase a necklace that they were to wear, though I bought it (the necklace/collar) as it is my property, that I allow them to wear to show that they belong and serve me.



earthycouple -> RE: New to this but curious about something... (1/1/2010 5:44:40 AM)

I hand made the collar my slave wears today. Because it's handmade it's delicate, relatively speaking and requires great care. When I take him to the Rainbow Room (my place space) I take it off and replace it with a generic stainless choke chain so I don't break it accidentally. I'm in the market currently for a collar he can wear all the time, no matter what I choose to do with him, to him, or when he's in public. I will purchase his collar and the locking mechanism that goes along with.



osf -> RE: New to this but curious about something... (1/1/2010 9:31:09 AM)

i'm not all that much impressed by the collar thing, to me it serves a purpose in appropriate public settings it a sign of property rights or an attachment point

i'm more interested in will she be there, is she in her place, that's what's important to me

that said if she wants one as a special token, i'm ok with it if it helps get me a bj lol



batshalom -> RE: New to this but curious about something... (1/1/2010 8:26:25 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: ocongalieghsgirl

When one gets collared...does their Master/Dom purchase the collar? 


I have several collars. I bought some of them, he bought some of them. I don't wear one every day (I don't really like jewelry.) The first time I showed up in one he didn't buy, he was flattered and fascinated and enjoyed pulling on it from time to time as we walked together. It led to good conversations too. When in doubt, do the unexpected.



MargueriteV -> RE: New to this but curious about something... (1/1/2010 8:47:43 PM)

Pet worked at a pet store so he bought his messy collar.(the one that could get wet or stained.)
I bought one for him too.



PrimalConsonance -> RE: New to this but curious about something... (1/2/2010 9:43:01 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ocongalieghsgirl

When one gets collared...does their Master/Dom purchase the collar? 


(CNJDom says:) I once knew a girl who had her own collar to give, and a few that expected a new collar to call their own purchased for them, and one that didn't care as long as she was in one.  We (my girl and I) found the collar we were both looking for together, and though not completely sure who made the sale, we are both extremely happy of it.  Down the road, I am going to buy her a more formal and symbolic collar, but the one we have now is how we like it:  elegant in it's simplicity, and reflects what we enjoy in our relationship.  Something about it says smooth, simple, functional, and a nice compliment to us on her.  But as it stands now, the next one I'm going to get for her...



PrimalConsonance -> RE: New to this but curious about something... (1/2/2010 9:44:30 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ocongalieghsgirl

When one gets collared...does their Master/Dom purchase the collar? 


(CNJDom says:) I once knew a girl who had her own collar to give, and a few that expected a new collar to call their own purchased for them, and one that didn't care as long as she was in one.  We (my girl and I) found the collar we were both looking for together, and though not completely sure who made the sale, we are both extremely happy of it.  Down the road, I am going to buy her a more formal and symbolic collar, but the one we have now is how we like it:  elegant in it's simplicity, and reflects what we enjoy in our relationship.  Something about it says smooth, simple, functional, and a nice compliment to us on her.  But as it stands now, the next one I'm going to get for her...



adx -> RE: New to this but curious about something... (1/6/2010 1:22:50 PM)

Mine wears a necklace I made.



wisdomtogive -> RE: New to this but curious about something... (1/6/2010 2:08:35 PM)

Sir is having his daughter make the one that i will wear outside, with the beads that i have. Actually am gifting them to her when he moves me to NJ in a few weeks.



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