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Andalusite -> RE: insecurity and fear (12/20/2009 2:31:06 PM)
I started out as a Domme for about 5 years before ever trying bottoming, and was involved in BDSM for about 10 years before I felt submissive to anyone. Drivel like your post made me much more resistant to the idea of submitting to anyone than I otherwise would have been. I've dated openminded vanilla guys, and men who were interested in BDSM, but hadn't had a chance to try it before, and it didn't make me "stronger" than when I dated that first man, who identified as submissive (but not as a slave) when I started out.

PeonForHer -> RE: insecurity and fear (12/20/2009 2:43:03 PM)
I'm sorry, Anda . . . I do try not to write drivel [:(]

LadyAngelika -> RE: insecurity and fear (12/20/2009 3:03:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer I'm sorry, Anda . . . I do try not to write drivel [:(] I think she did a fast reply and was addressing the OP. What you wrote was not drivel. I usually notice you writing stuff right on the mark. - LA

GYPSYMAMBO -> RE: insecurity and fear (12/20/2009 3:10:22 PM)
Op: WHO ARE YOU?? really? are you donkey man's brother? GM

LadyAngelika -> RE: insecurity and fear (12/20/2009 3:13:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GYPSYMAMBO Op: WHO ARE YOU?? really? are you donkey man's brother? GM I think he's actually the donkey man himself! - LA

Andalusite -> RE: insecurity and fear (12/20/2009 3:14:00 PM)
Peon, if I'm directing a post to someone other than the OP, I always quote them, or mention their name specifically. Putting "FR" in every single time seems redundant. [;)]

PeonForHer -> RE: insecurity and fear (12/20/2009 3:26:03 PM)
I know, Anda. I just wanted to make you feel guilty. I've discovered that a man never has a woman more under his control than when she feels guilty about something she's 'done' to him. As a submale wishing to start a relationship with a Domme, I'm sure you'll understand why I need to get the practice in.

LadyAngelika -> RE: insecurity and fear (12/20/2009 3:32:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer I know, Anda. I just wanted to make you feel guilty. I've discovered that a man never has a woman more under his control than when she feels guilty about something she's 'done' to him. As a submale wishing to start a relationship with a Domme, I'm sure you'll understand why I need to get the practice in. Are you competing with Politesub for the brat of the year award? [sm=crop.gif] - LA

Venatrix -> RE: insecurity and fear (12/20/2009 3:43:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer I know, Anda. I just wanted to make you feel guilty. I've discovered that a man never has a woman more under his control than when she feels guilty about something she's 'done' to him. As a submale wishing to start a relationship with a Domme, I'm sure you'll understand why I need to get the practice in. Are you competing with Politesub for the brat of the year award? [sm=crop.gif] - LA Oh, Peon doesn't need to compete. He wins it, hands down. No offense to the ever-charming Politesub, of course.

Politesub53 -> RE: insecurity and fear (12/20/2009 4:00:54 PM)
Venatrix, maybe i just hide it better. [8D]

LadyAngelika -> RE: insecurity and fear (12/20/2009 4:07:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Politesub53 Venatrix, maybe i just hide it better. [8D] Isn't it time for the Brit boys to go beddy bye now? ;-) - LA

Politesub53 -> RE: insecurity and fear (12/20/2009 4:10:31 PM)
LadyA, thats the best offer I have had today. I am beyond flattered. [;)]

LadyAngelika -> RE: insecurity and fear (12/20/2009 4:12:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Politesub53 LadyA, thats the best offer I have had today. I am beyond flattered. [;)] Well you know, being an insecure Domme and all, I definitely aim to please the boys here! - LA

Politesub53 -> RE: insecurity and fear (12/20/2009 4:15:51 PM)
Ah back to the OP. It was so nonsensical I cant be bothered to answer him.

Venatrix -> RE: insecurity and fear (12/20/2009 4:26:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Politesub53 Ah back to the OP. It was so nonsensical I cant be bothered to answer him. There was an OP?

LadyPact -> RE: insecurity and fear (12/20/2009 4:37:32 PM)
There may have been, but I'm not especially sure that I cared.

LadyAngelika -> RE: insecurity and fear (12/20/2009 4:38:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Venatrix quote: ORIGINAL: Politesub53 Ah back to the OP. It was so nonsensical I cant be bothered to answer him. There was an OP? Yup! He's the same guy who started asinine threads such as: quote: ORIGINAL: bibiswitch mm, because Freud said that masochism is not real in men, it is just supressed sadism in men, because it gives the masochism the opportunity for 'revenge' and he is excited as in his mind he wants to rape, beat, etc his torturer, so I wondered if a sadist watches a weak chick it may find it more exciting to dominate a domme, since she probably gets on his nerves and drives him mad, just a though and posed utter nonsense questions such as: quote: ORIGINAL: bibiswitch do you think the percentage of dommes with history of been abused (either emotionally or sexually, etc) is bigger, smaller of equal to the percentage of female submissives with history of been abused? In fact, I've yet to see a BDSM positive post from this insolent idiot. He is more than welcome to take his little sideshow elsewhere as far as I'm concerned. - LA

Ladynslave -> RE: insecurity and fear (12/21/2009 10:06:05 AM)
quote: maybe because she is insecure that if he is not obedient, she will not be able to manage him? or he will hurt her, abandon her, etc? Well, blackbelt I am not but... I have taken on vanilla men twice my size in physical fights (not by my choice, mind you) and left them cowering in corners. And no, I didn't cheat and go for the crotch shot. So I have to say to this, nope. We want it because it's what we want and quite frankly, BECAUSE WE CAN.

CherokeeRose2 -> RE: insecurity and fear (12/21/2009 10:18:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SomethingCatchy quote: ORIGINAL: CherokeeRose2 If that were true, wouldn't that be the same for ANY dominant, both male AND female? Oh you silly little 'dominant' female. Don't you know anything? Not having a penis and testicles already makes us inferior, and we're just deluding ourselves with our little fantasies. This kind person has just enlightened us, that's all. On the contrary, I have one of the best penises (peni?) that money can buy - I keep it in my night stand ;-)

sweetsub1957 -> RE: insecurity and fear (12/24/2009 8:16:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bibiswitch why would a woman crave an obedient male partner? [sm=Groaner.gif] Why wouldn't She?? Maybe because She can?? quote: ORIGINAL: CherokeeRose2 If that were true, wouldn't that be the same for ANY dominant, both male AND female? [sm=applause.gif] quote: ORIGINAL: Psychonaut23 Now it sounds like every quasi-feminist lecture on the evils of BDSM I've ever been subjected to. Amazing how this sort of bullshit works either direction. [sm=rofl.gif] Finally, I can only wonder, based on past threads the OP's started, if s/he is a troll.....

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