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Sub Love (tm) - 12/21/2009 3:28:30 PM   
MMagic


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Status: offline 		With a sick child and being to tired for my subconscious mind to hide things from me or lie to me, I've had some revelations.  In talking with my friend about her new Master she said something to me I thought to be profound and filed it way until the past few days when I had to come to terms with feeling the way she was that particular day.  She said she loved her Master but it wasn't like...love love. It was something different she couldn't quite describe. I immediately said Sub Love and we laughed.  But now that I think about it, that's pretty accurate.

Anyone following my sleep deprived meanderings please feel free to comment.  Would some of my subby sisters and brothers say they have an indescribable feeling towards their dominant that's love like but not love at the same time?  Any Doms have a version of this as well?  And yes I'm officially trademarking this term, lol.  I'm thinking of writing an essay or something.  Ok let the comments come and be nice folks, I'm exhausted so I may be making no sense at all.


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RE: Sub Love (tm) - 12/21/2009 3:31:45 PM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		No. I just... love him. I also love my friends and family. There are many different types of love. I don't really feel like I should label it beyond simply love. I can't compare the love I have for him with the love I've had for anyone else because he's not them.

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RE: Sub Love (tm) - 12/21/2009 3:40:48 PM   
dreamerdreaming


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Status: offline 		I have pizza love.

And cold pizza love. That's different. And yes I am trademarking the terms.

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RE: Sub Love (tm) - 12/21/2009 3:52:51 PM   
MMagic


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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

I have pizza love.

And cold pizza love. That's different. And yes I am trademarking the terms.


LOL!! I'm sorry I already own the TM and domain name for pizza love, too late!


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RE: Sub Love (tm) - 12/21/2009 3:57:36 PM   
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...Would some of my subby sisters and brothers say they have an indescribable feeling towards their dominant that's love like but not love at the same time?...
 
some might, but this slave wouldn't have any use for the term "sub love". it makes no sense to her, much like the terms "sub frenzy", "sub drop" or "sub feelings".

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RE: Sub Love (tm) - 12/21/2009 4:33:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		sub love cute!

i sorta know what you mean. i think, trying to get my tired brain around things tonight too. should go to bed. no xmas tree, everyone has run out, so im a bit phased right now.

maybe its all about how people who might feel this feeling process their submission. for me, being with someone who dominates my life in lots of ways makes me feel safer than if i was with someone who placed no parameters around me. in a way, i guess, i process one part of my submission as a feeling of being under their control and focus. on the whole thats not the usual relationship you have with most of the people in youre life and so that feeling of 'sub love' is tied into the feelings youre dominant taps into, more than any other relationship you have with anyone else. hence the feeling of 'differentness'

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RE: Sub Love (tm) - 12/21/2009 4:40:05 PM   
Underumam


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Status: offline 		Love is love...Expressions are different, imo. (except whe there's good sex potential- that changes everything)..lol.

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RE: Sub Love (tm) - 12/21/2009 4:40:59 PM   
sweetpuppy77


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Status: offline 		Loving someone (which btw should be done very carefully) is the same.....yes there are different kinds of love but its all about trusting them enough to chance it.

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RE: Sub Love (tm) - 12/21/2009 4:43:35 PM   
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Yeah, i know what ya mean...and YES its great!


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RE: Sub Love (tm) - 12/21/2009 4:46:20 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		For me, this is true love. Deep. powerful and as close to unconditional as I've ever known or ever will. But we've been together 8 years now so any new sub feelings of awe or fear have long since disappeared. I know him, good traits and bad, and love all of them.

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RE: Sub Love (tm) - 12/21/2009 5:08:03 PM   
leadership527


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Status: offline 		Nope. I'm not going to find yet another word or phrase to make WIITWD unique and special.

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RE: Sub Love (tm) - 12/21/2009 5:44:58 PM   
MMagic


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ORIGINAL: lally2

sub love cute!

i sorta know what you mean. i think, trying to get my tired brain around things tonight too. should go to bed. no xmas tree, everyone has run out, so im a bit phased right now.

maybe its all about how people who might feel this feeling process their submission. for me, being with someone who dominates my life in lots of ways makes me feel safer than if i was with someone who placed no parameters around me. in a way, i guess, i process one part of my submission as a feeling of being under their control and focus. on the whole thats not the usual relationship you have with most of the people in youre life and so that feeling of 'sub love' is tied into the feelings youre dominant taps into, more than any other relationship you have with anyone else. hence the feeling of 'differentness'


Exactly. <nods>


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RE: Sub Love (tm) - 12/21/2009 5:59:51 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		not useful at all to me. I simply love him like I would love any man I am with.  I don't have any need to make it sound like it's something even more special just because I call him "Master".  That's not why I love him.

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RE: Sub Love (tm) - 12/21/2009 6:41:14 PM   
MMagic


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Status: offline 		Now I'm finding interesting the two that are saying they don't believe the love they share is any different from love they would share with any man. Now I'll present another view to those two.  I'm assuming that both of you are very much into the lifestyle; would you say you'd have this same happiness and feeling of being complete with a man who wasn't in BDSM or would you feel something was missing?

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RE: Sub Love (tm) - 12/21/2009 7:11:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MMagic
Would some of my subby sisters and brothers say they have an indescribable feeling towards their dominant that's love like but not love at the same time?  Any Doms have a version of this as well? 


Hello,

When i describe my feelings for Master i say that i adore him.  It isn't the "love of an intimate partner"--though that is certainly in there and this is not a new relationship. I quite simply adore (1. to regard with the utmost esteem, love, and respect; honor) him.

Best,
aj


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RE: Sub Love (tm) - 12/21/2009 7:38:55 PM   
MMagic


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Status: offline 		Beautifully put alittleevil

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RE: Sub Love (tm) - 12/21/2009 7:51:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MMagic

Now I'm finding interesting the two that are saying they don't believe the love they share is any different from love they would share with any man. Now I'll present another view to those two.  I'm assuming that both of you are very much into the lifestyle; would you say you'd have this same happiness and feeling of being complete with a man who wasn't in BDSM or would you feel something was missing?


Simple answer. Yes
Been there done that and was extremely happy with him just as I am with Master and no I never felt as if something was missing.


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RE: Sub Love (tm) - 12/21/2009 8:33:15 PM   
MMagic


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

quote:

ORIGINAL: MMagic

Now I'm finding interesting the two that are saying they don't believe the love they share is any different from love they would share with any man. Now I'll present another view to those two.  I'm assuming that both of you are very much into the lifestyle; would you say you'd have this same happiness and feeling of being complete with a man who wasn't in BDSM or would you feel something was missing?


Simple answer. Yes
Been there done that and was extremely happy with him just as I am with Master and no I never felt as if something was missing.




Very interesting and so juxtapose to so many here, myself included. Where the BDSM is more a need as in something we simply must have.


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RE: Sub Love (tm) - 12/21/2009 8:48:53 PM   
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Of all the men, kink and before that vanilla, that I have ever been in a relationship with, I loved my former Sir more than any of them, and I also adored Him.  Damn I miss Him. 


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RE: Sub Love (tm) - 12/21/2009 9:10:19 PM   
breatheasone


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i personally took the OP to mean... When she was talking to a friend who is also an s-type, they were expressing that feeling "we s-types" have for our "D-types" of course its not universal... but i took it as a "Hey, do you guys know what i mean?"

So to the OP....yes i can dig it...


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