DesFIP
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Joined: 11/25/2007 From: Apple County NY Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: honeygirl Dagnabbit, you beat me to the trademark, MM!!! This totally resonates with me! Like you, I'm not indicating this is better than what non-BDSM partners feel, just that I, personally, never felt *this* when I dated people not interested in BDSM. Mmmmm....so good That's because you're wired for this kind of relationship. You couldn't feel this way in a nonBDSM relationship because you weren't wired for that and therefore couldn't have all your needs met. But someone who is wired for an egalitarian relationship would think of a submissive partner as someone incapable of making a decision and would think of a dominant partner as a control freak. They wouldn't feel like this in a bdsm relationship because they aren't wired for it. It isn't something special about what we do, it's that we are in relationships that fulfill us totally where our authentic selves are known and welcomed.
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