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Hello, from Canada! - 12/21/2009 8:15:14 PM

vulpes

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Hi, everyone.

I'm also new to the site/kinks/fetishes/BDSM/the lifestyle.
A little about me - I'm a lesbian, through and through. Currently working in a bakery as a Baker's Assistant. Submissive. Monogamous. I like the term 'kinkster' because it's open to the imagination. What I hope to accomplish by being here... I hope to meet like-minded friends.

I just don't have a clue how to make my profile stand out. I want it to be unique and draw the right kind of attention, but I also don't want to write my life story for all to see. Finding a happy medium between boring and imaginative is... enough to make a person feel lost.

And... do lesbian tops exist? I feel as though I'm in a competition with all the male submissives seeking a FemDom (FemDomme?). And, if vibrators and dildos are considered kink, are all lesbians who use toys involved in BDSM, at least, to a degree? Since, I haven't seen healthy relationships exist where there isn't a Top/bottom dynamic?

I suppose I'm still a little confused.

Cheers, and I look forward to chatting with you all!

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RE: Hello, from Canada! - 12/22/2009 1:16:31 AM

sirsholly

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PICKED UPON
TECHNO-DOLT
MEMBER OF THE SUBBIE MAFIA
GRACEFULLY CHALLENGED :::::splat:::::
BOOT WHORE
VAA/S FAN

GIVES GOOD HEART (Lushy)

CREATOR OF MAYHEM (practice)

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RE: Hello, from Canada! - 12/22/2009 3:08:55 AM

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RE: Hello, from Canada! - 12/22/2009 5:25:53 AM

DarkSteven

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Baker's Assistant, huh?

/Makes Dom puppy eyes in hopes of cookies/

To answer your question - yes, there are lesbian Dommes, and some of them post here. But the forums here are mostly a motley mixture of friends, not really a matchmaking place.

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"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: Hello, from Canada! - 12/22/2009 5:31:12 AM

sirsholly

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quote:

/Makes Dom puppy eyes in hopes of cookies/

DON'T DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Do not feed the resident cookie thief.....

/glares at Stevie/

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PICKED UPON
TECHNO-DOLT
MEMBER OF THE SUBBIE MAFIA
GRACEFULLY CHALLENGED :::::splat:::::
BOOT WHORE
VAA/S FAN

GIVES GOOD HEART (Lushy)

CREATOR OF MAYHEM (practice)

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RE: Hello, from Canada! - 12/22/2009 5:41:33 AM

EbonyWood

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DONT get too hung up on your profile. As long as it about you and doesn't offend the planet.

DO distribute cookies on a regular basis. (elbows puppy eyes Steven aside)

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RE: Hello, from Canada! - 12/22/2009 10:54:38 AM

vulpes

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choccywoc; Thanks for the welcome!
DarkSteven; No worries about the 'matchmaking' bit! The question was general.
sirsholly; Understood! And thank you for the welcome.
EbonyWood; Thanks for the advice